I really like my job. MKost days atleast lol. But my bf wants me to find a better paying job with benifits.He?

Question

tells me the sooner I find abetter job the sooner we can get married. He really wants me to go into phlebotony and thats not whta I want..Should I tell him I feel like he is pressuring me?

Granted I could do anything, and I know it. But if I change my carrer I wanna do what I wanna do.

Answer 1

I THINK IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO HAVE A JOB THAT YOU LIKE,AND ENJOY GOING TO EVERY DAY,YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE,YOU SHOULD DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY,SOUNDS TO ME LIKE HE IS PRESSURING YOU,MAYBE HE NEEDS TO GET A BETTER JOB,OR MAYBE YOU SHOULDN'T MARRY SOMEONE THAT DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOUR WANTS ,NEEDS,OR HAPPINESS.TALK TO HIM ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL,COMMUNICATION IS VITAL IN A MARRIGE,

Answer 2

The chances of having a job you like are fairly slim. You could go for the job he wants, but can he live with you if it makes you unhappy? I can understand he wants to get ahead but maybe their are some ways you could cut back spending so you can stay where you are. If he won't compromise I would reconsider how he values you as a person in the relationship.

Answer 3

If you like your job stick with it. He shouldn't pressure you into doing something you don't want to do

Answer 4

I will say, he might be right...
So Firstly, you should see, whatever he is saying, is it right for you and you can do it or not.
If it is not possible to you so just discuss with him and tell that i couldn't do this at this time. If he really like you so he will be aggreed for you.

and please don't take time for this just go and tell him your opinion.

Best of luck.

Answer 5

you have to discuss it with him ,If you do something that you don't want for him if you dislike it you may begin to harbor resentment for him because of the pressure he put on you.