I am 24 years old and I think I have a crush on a girl who delivers the mail everyday round where I live. Anyway one day she actually spoke to me because she noticed I was smiling at her she smiled back and said morning to me I said morning back usually when I smile at girls this does not happen she is the first one to say something when she noticed me smile at her. What I need to know is was she just being polite or do you think she likes me.
2006-11-28 20:06:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know a lot of you must think I am sad for asking this question. But I can not get her out of my mind.
2006-11-28 20:17:18 · update #1
being polite
2006-11-28 20:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Claire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt even know you, so she cant really like you in that way. she may think you are a hottie. Its hard to say because smiling and saying good morning is hardly a sign of being interested in someone. what I would suggest you do is try to be around when she delivers the mail. Of course look at the ring finger of her left hand to see if she is wearing a wedding ring. But if she isnt try talking to her a little more every day, and if the signal is telling you she is interested then ask her out.
2006-11-28 20:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by meeahcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there .......oh boy do you have it bad for this girl ..... she might be smiling to be polite ,so now that she has smiled at you ,the next time say thanks to her when she delivers the mail or morning ,she might well think you are cute and make her have a smile on her face ,i know that there is a rumour going around that us females are confsing but we are not really ,just talk to us and be nice to us and dont worry you will know if we like you or not ,good luck and take care and i hope you find the love of youre life xx
2006-11-28 20:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she was just being polite how ever if you like this lady as much as you say it may be time have the courage to see she would like to go out sometime with you. If she says no at least you know where you stand if she says yes then go out enjoy yourself and see where it goes from there.
Best of luck
2006-11-28 20:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by Linda D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cant get her out of your head then u need to do something about it.....why not ask her a question to get things started, tell her u been expecting a letter and are starting to worry its been lost in the post.....if she seems chatty go on and ask bout christmas partys and if she'd like to go to one with you. The important thing is to try not to be shy, girls like to be treated like ladies, and i am sorry to say that means men doing the running. Good luck mate!
2006-11-28 21:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Louise L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are she was just being nice, she is a mail carrier she must see alot of people.
but the next time you see her start up more of a conversation. little by little, or just be bold and ask her out....you would be suprised at how many girls find that hot in a guy.
2006-11-28 20:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by Bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you have a crush on the mailgirl ,eh ? I have a similar problem . There's this guy that works at Mcdonnald that's so dang hot .And one day when he took my order he smiled at me and said "good morning " .Ohmigosh , do you possibly think he likes me back ? You're hysterical ,dude !
2006-11-28 20:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to find out. Ask her out, get chatty with her when she comes. Make her feel special if appropriate. Girls like that. Don't be pushy though, and show confidence.
2006-11-28 20:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by Konstantia T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a simple fix....get out of the house and away from the computer... When you start clocking the maillady its time to snap back to REALITY..bud....I suggest get dressed and goto a 24 hour bowling alley as soon as possible....go now!!1
answered by kast
2006-11-28 20:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She was being polite ag!
2006-11-28 20:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was being polite. At this stage, it couldn't have been anything more. But it's up to you to try and get to know her better.
2006-11-28 20:10:05 · answer #11 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋