there is this girl about 1 year back i proposed her and she refused but again after a long time i have not forgotten her in between i too left her but after a long time she has get back to me ie she has started talking to me and becomeing more friendly then even before but in this time others also proposed her and she refused them too but among them she talks to me only i am so dam confused i dont know what to do i love her very much i too think that she loves me but she never express it I don’t know to propose her or not ……someone please help me to find answer to what to do she is so confusing that one min she is best friend and other min she is away from me she looks at me and then again forget me.. tell me what is in her mind…
2006-11-28 23:02:45 · 4 answers · asked by goodguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm so sorry that, that happened to you. It sounds like she has an issue with commitment. I would just sit her down and tell her that you still love her very much, and that if she loves you too, to tell you. But you also have to prepare yourself for if she says No. She might be trying to get back on your good side so that she can ask you out, or she's waiting for you to ask her out. I'm not sure. But. . . The best thing you can do right now, is to talk and tell her what you told us.
"i love her very much"
And you also have to remember that it isn't you, literally because she's turned others down for marriage. Like I said, she has an issue with Commitment. That's her deal, not yours. It's just sad because you are getting the crappy side of her problem. I'm sorry and I really hope that things work out.
God Bless, Good Luck and Happy Holidays
2006-11-28 23:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has comittment issues or fears marriage. think about it, she says no to everyone not only you. so you know it's not you. have you ever ask her why her keeps saying no? she's back in your life, take you time and see where you stand in her life. if you get back together, can you wait til she's ready for marriage? or will you leave her again if she never wants marriage. marriage isn't for everyone. consider the divorce rate. getting married to please somone else is a sure sign of disaster. sitting down and talk about it with her and not to her.
2006-11-29 07:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date, bye her a present or roses and chocolates,
ask her how she feels about you, and then you would know whats up with her, but you have to do it in a diplomatic way other wise you would get no positive feedback.
2006-11-29 07:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are too slow, court her and tell her how you feel about her....that is the only way to know if her feelings for you is mutual.
there are lots of ways to do it..... talk to her in person, friendly dates, by phone, tru letters and emails, tru IM''s.....
2006-11-29 07:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by (◕‿◕✿) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋