im in love with a girl n i went after her for nearly two years. But sadly she never say yes n keeping me waiting. Then i went to oversea to continue my studies. During this time we are still keeping in touch with each other. Via studies our relationship is getting 'wider'. Then i noe a girl here n started a relationship. Months after, the girl back then called me n said tat she misses me n wanted to see me plus waiting for me.I dont know what to do but i still like her.What should i do?? Im really stucked now. Cant go neither right or left.T_T
2006-11-28 23:06:43 · 8 answers · asked by alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow ur heart .. it's ur life best saver
2006-11-28 23:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl that kept you waiting and never said "yes"....you said you loved her for nearly two years. Now you say you still like her. Or do you still love her?
The girl you are seeing now, how does she treat you? How have your feeling toward her grown. ?
Are you wanting a committed relationship with someone at this point in your life?
I understand where the confusion is, like some of the other answers, you have to follow your heart.
If you still care for the first girl, perhaps you should have an honest talk with her. Lay it all out, telling her how you waited for her for so long, and be honest and let her know you have met someone. Also letting her know you still care for her.
PLEASE REMEMBER ALSO...that she may be wiser than you think, PERHAPS SHE DID NOT WANT TO INTERFERE WITH YOUR STUDIES AND WANTED YOU TO PURSUE IT FIRST AND THEN HER. NOW SHE MAY BE AFRAID YOU ARE SLIPPING AWAY AND HAS DECIDED TO MAKE HER TRUE FEELINGS KNOWN TO YOU.
IF THIS IS HER RATIONALE , SHE IS UNSELFISH AND SHE LOVES YOU.
Best wishes to you.......follow your heart
2006-11-29 07:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by samantha H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, think about it, who would you rather be with, it's sounds like you should tell the other girl you don't like her any more, she maybe up set but she will be all right, I mean the girl you met overseas, you should tell her that you don't want to go out any more, and then go out with the other one.
Good luck!
2006-11-29 07:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Minnie May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They never like you when you are free but when you are hooked up they can't resist.That is just they way it works. I'd keep the new one that appreciates you now and forget the old one that showed no interest. She would just change her mind again and cause you misery.
2006-11-29 07:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should follow your heart ,If you think you truely love the first girl so just be with her ,hummm you may hurt the other girl's feelings though!but its better now than later .
2006-11-29 07:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really love the girl you were courting for two years, then, this is the time to prove your love to her...it hurts for the other girl
2006-11-29 07:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by dodadz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on i mean your a man and a man know how to play his game.Go out with both of them they won't find out about each other.
2006-11-29 07:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just follow your heart!
2006-11-29 07:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by meaurge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋