Today, I received this e-mail from an FWB. Our relationship ended a couple of days ago when I said I didn't want to be friends:
I know that it's against the rules you set forth, but that won't stop me from being concerned about your health. I think I remember you saying that you were going to see the physician this past weekend about the your health. I prayed about it and I'm sure they aren't malignant, but it would be nice for you to affirm that as one human being to another. If that's completely taboo though, I hope you make it through this trying time victorious.
I don't know if I should respond to this e-mail or not. He put me through some unnecessary emotional drama and it's the reason why I ended our relationship. Why he would bother trying to maintain contact when I told him the relationship was over? Is he developing feelings for me or playing mind games?
P.S. He ended our sexual relationship by saying it wasn't right. We shouldn't be having sex. And he is serious
2006-11-28 14:41:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, he did confide in me that he is seeing a therapist so I don't know if he's trying to turn over a new leaf or running game because I don't want to be friends anymore.
2006-11-28 14:42:28 · update #1
Just ask him. Communication is the key to any relationship
2006-11-28 14:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by kra_z_fly_chic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Part of his answer certainly does sound like it's been coached in 'therapy-speak'. He may just be genuinely concerned for your health. My advice is to go to the doctor, sort yourself out and don't reply to his email. You've told him not to contact you therefore answering his email will only encourage him. It might hurt him but life's like that sometimes.
2006-11-28 22:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men u cant live with dem sure cant live without dem....u dont have to ask no one,u already no. u jus dont want to face it we all no da answer lots of times but want to hear it from other people. nine times out of ten his playin like always ,mayb he want his cake and eat it to.men is something else hold on things happen for a reason.
2006-11-28 22:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by getithowyouwantit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it...you need to break ALL TIES with him for the moment. Or until he is "healed" from whatever mental disease he has. You don`t want to be friends, you told him that....IGNORE him.
2006-11-28 22:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Kra_Z_Fly.
Also, there's no way to be certain, especially with just that limited information, but I'd say yes: he has feelings for you.
2006-11-28 22:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sirconis Lychen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋