Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

well off. My brother's fiancee comes from a lower middle class family. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this - don't get me wrong. So did my husband and my family accepted him and have always loved him and been very happy with him. Her case, however, is different. She only cares about money and keeps asking my brother for expensive gifts. She is very high maintenance. With her, it is always about the money. She told my brother to give her a job in the family business at $150K/year. Last week, my brother bought her a $80K Corvette. Now she wants an apartment with ocean view all in her name and wants my brother to pay $60,000 for her plastic surgery, which she obviously does not need. Yesterday she told me she wanted a diamond necklace at $10,000 and she wanted my brother to give her $20,000 so that she could lend one of her friends who is struggling. This is insane. My brother won't listen to me or my husband as we try to bring some sense into him. What can I do?

2006-11-28 14:28:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is there a problem wanting sex every other day!
hey I belive that love making is god for the soul and health!
do I ask for to much, please some honest girls input ,

2006-11-28 14:28:42 · 19 answers · asked by Charlie Arutnev 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well we've been seeing each other for about a month and a half and I've fallen head over heels but theres a catch....Early on he confessed that he loved me but i never responded because I've been hurt before. When we are together its great but getting there is the hard part. Hes busy so its hard to get together and even harder when he lies about it. He refuses to tell his mom because he "knows" it wont end well since she told him not to date. Im tired of all the lies and the disappointment when he cant make it to the already hard plans. I just try not to get my hopes up. I know already that he cant go to this big event with me cause getting it past his mom would be too difficult so I've already had my guy friend set the date aside. Hes let me down so many times yet i cant leave him because i think i might love him....should i stay or just pack it up and move on?? Please help

2006-11-28 14:28:33 · 3 answers · asked by desperate for help 1 in Singles & Dating

she opened up her locker on valentine's day and found a boquet of flowers in her locker?

I've liked this girl for a while and i'm thinking about doing this on valentine's day. We're good friend's, but we don't really hang out.

I'm not sure what type of flowers to put in her locker if i do?roses? her favorite color is purple.

Also, would u girls think it was sweeter to find roses in your locker or flower's of your favorite color?

2006-11-28 14:28:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't marry a black man

2006-11-28 14:27:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

SERIOUSLY, NO JOKES....IM REALLY IN THE NEED FOR HELP CAUSE IM GOING SHOPPING SOON FOR CHRISTMAS WITH MY MOM!!!


what would you think would be a good gift for a guy friend? i really like him and so does he, but we arn't really in a rush, we're just laying back...anyways, i was thinking of a pac sungift card of 15 dollars?? is that too little or not even a good gift....he told me recently that he wanted clothes cause he practically cant afford it.....i want to give him something but im not sure!!!! plz hel and thanx to an1 who tries..

2006-11-28 14:27:33 · 11 answers · asked by googoo 3 in Singles & Dating

and i think he likes me. he stares at me a lot and smiles at me, but sometimes he acts like i dont even exist! hes only 13 so im wondering if it is his age..............or does he not even like me at all?
wat do u think?

2006-11-28 14:27:15 · 3 answers · asked by ~002~ 2 in Singles & Dating

Summary- My b/f and I went out when I was an eighth grader and he broke my heart twice, just b/c he didn't think it was working. Then we went back out in the summer of my Junior year. I then broke up w/ him for another guy. A couple weeks later, broke up w/ the other guy for him. Then, indecisive me, broke up w/ him again after I cheated on him with a different guy that the first one, but I didn't tell him about it until recently (now that we are going out once again). After all of this he still loves me and he is like the best guy in the world and I don't know what I'd do w/o him and I plan on marrying him. But, he brings up a girl he made out w/ (and that's all he did), and I simply wanted him to agree that she wasn't pretty, and he didn't. I got upset and hung up. I know that was a little immature, but I don't talk about any past guys anymore and I love him so much. But it really bothered me that he couldn't tell me she wasn't pretty. I don't know how to get over my jealousy

2006-11-28 14:26:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work for a dentist and he wrote me up today, claiming that he had gotten numerous complaints from patients about me. I don't doubt that it is true, as I have been in the field for 10 yrs. and one thing that I have seen is that patients are going to complain and there is nothing that you can do about it. Whether it is about money, they were hurting or that they think you were rude to them, sooner or later everyone gets complained about in this field. Thing is, he didn't even give me the chance to defend myself or rebute the complaints before he wrote me up. he made the office managers do the dirty work, and I told them that I didn't feel that I should have to sign it, as if I was admitting guilt. They told me that I had every right to write or type something up that gives my side of it, but even if I do I am still going to get written up. Do I have to sign it, is it admitting guilt, and do I have the legal right to write out a detailed letter in my defence to be put with the write up?

2006-11-28 14:25:53 · 13 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife is really sort of friendly with one of my friends. Just wondering if women think about that like men do.

2006-11-28 14:25:18 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've liked a guy for a few days now, and as a freshmen, im pretty popular but hes a sophmore and ive never talked to him except maybe a few sentences...hes really cute and i like him very much, but for once in my life im NERVOUS* and im going crazi over him and everyone tells me to talk to him but i CANT its just impossible, and i dont know what to do!?! HELP?!

2006-11-28 14:25:16 · 5 answers · asked by waters_grl24 1 in Singles & Dating

im 14 and want to live with my mom but i live with my dad by law when can i tell them where im goingto live

2006-11-28 14:25:11 · 16 answers · asked by allie 2 in Family

2006-11-28 14:24:33 · 6 answers · asked by josie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 14:24:32 · 8 answers · asked by khalid 1 in Family

2006-11-28 14:24:19 · 31 answers · asked by deedee b 1 in Singles & Dating

Misleading me and mistaking me because it is REALLY not my fault.

Could you be giving hate towards me for all the wrong reasons?

2006-11-28 14:23:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently just moved and im looking to meet new friends here in singapore. Somebody to do stuff with, you know show me around, ins nad outs of the city... help please.

2006-11-28 14:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by bianca b 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 14:23:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it also wrong and disrespectful for him to keep saying to his wife "My eyes are free" whenever his wife complains to him about his oogling other women?

2006-11-28 14:23:00 · 25 answers · asked by Dragoness 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean when a guy writes take care at the end of a message ????
what ot they generally mean does it mean i like you take care or take care as in goodbye...i dated this guy for a bit we both liked each other he asked me if i wanted to go away with him for a week house sitting his family home they have...long story shory i was really stressed about my work and acted a bit strange like snapped at him for no reason we broke up but when i have seen him out he always stars at me and get jealous if im taliking to other guys... anyway i texted him the other day to apologise about acting wierd..he texted back and he hasnt done this much i have been appologising fora while ...it said"dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad you and your frineds can laugh about it. Take care" what does this mean..initially when i met him he had been looking at me for about 40minutes before he approached me. Men could you please help me interpret his actions..i really like him but am confused by his signals what should one do?XXX

2006-11-28 14:22:37 · 5 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

I need help, i have tried everything, we have been together and still can not get her off. I feel like this is seriously causing strain on our relationship. I have been with other women and never had a problem close to this. Any suggestions or tips. She gets, like dry after like 10 min, she says she still really wants to keep going but it hurts. We tried using lube already.

2006-11-28 14:22:28 · 14 answers · asked by Michael S 1 in Singles & Dating

ABHISHEK

2006-11-28 14:22:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 24 yr. old full-time college student, and my boyfriend and I reallly care about each other, so I decided to stay the night at his house. When I got home my mom was infuriated with me and threatened to take away my car and even kick me out of "her" house. She does not want me to be with my boyfriend anymore. I think she is treating me like a 15 yr. old, what should I do? Serious answers only, please!!!

2006-11-28 14:22:08 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

this guy shows a lot of intrest in being with me. he tells me his feelings for me are foreal but i told him that i do not return those feelings.. i lied and said i need to focus in school instead but in reality its because i like another guy

this other guy gives me mixed signals. but im happy with him, and he is so sweet maybe not just to me.. but he's the one i want to be with. sometimes though, i just think he wants to copy my hw and is nice to me. But other times i think he is too shy to say anything else

2006-11-28 14:21:49 · 24 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i tell this guy that i dont like him, Him and I r just friends, but he doesn't want us to be friends, how do i tell him that i just dont like him at all only as a friend. i alraedy tryed it once telling him that i just don't like him but he thoght that i was just palying around with him! What do i do!?

2006-11-28 14:20:39 · 16 answers · asked by CrIsTiNa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 14:20:36 · 2 answers · asked by bigbuf1roams 1 in Friends

ok so last year i had a awasome best friend. he was sooooo cool and we had so much in common. well were really good friends and still something was missing. later, we discovered we had feelings for eachother. so we started going out. it was a blast the first 3 monthes. but after we broke up, things haven't been the same. we never talk anymore. i really miss our friendship and i know now that by going out i probably screwed it all up. what should i do?

2006-11-28 14:19:33 · 16 answers · asked by bahamababe!! 2 in Friends

I have been seeing this guy for about a month now and we are still getting to know eachother and decide where our relationship is. What I think I am looking for is somebody for a long term relationship who I can marry and have children with. That may sound old fashioned, and I am young but I kind of want that. I don't want to date somebody for no reason and miss out on my future husband.

Anyway, tonight he asked me if I ever thought I would have kids. I said yes. I asked him, and he said No. Than I asked why, and he said because he doesn't want a bunch of different children with different woman. He has two with his ex wife.

So I got upset but pretended I was okay than excused myself, so he followed me and asked what was wrong and why was I being cold all of a sudden. I said, Nothing I just have things I have to do tonight. Than after that he said, 'Fine, don't bother calling me again'

That is all after he told me he really liked me. Am I wrong to feel this way?

2006-11-28 14:18:22 · 37 answers · asked by catanomicsunset 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 14:17:39 · 7 answers · asked by katie 1 in Singles & Dating

just curious to know .. what comes to mind when people think about the word "EXOTIC" e.g: dark looking.. etc..

is it a good thing or a bad thing?

2006-11-28 14:17:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating