this guy shows a lot of intrest in being with me. he tells me his feelings for me are foreal but i told him that i do not return those feelings.. i lied and said i need to focus in school instead but in reality its because i like another guy
this other guy gives me mixed signals. but im happy with him, and he is so sweet maybe not just to me.. but he's the one i want to be with. sometimes though, i just think he wants to copy my hw and is nice to me. But other times i think he is too shy to say anything else
2006-11-28 14:21:49 · 24 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We do not always know what is good for us but if you do not like this guy it doesn't matter how much he likes you. If you do not return his feelings leave him alone and let him find someone who does. That is not wrong it is the right thing to do.
2006-11-28 14:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you too much I guess it's not wrong to reject him because of that, because you will just be feeling uncomfortable when you're with him but if you really like him it shouldn't really matter but personally I would have trust issues if he has lied to you in the past.
2016-05-23 00:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Charmaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad boy syndrome, drop the bad boy and get the nice one, You will be much happier in the long run. Look at him as a blank slate you think he is boring, you can alter him a bit, but dont use him or break his spirit or heart, you know? There was a guy I had, a bad boy, because he just met the "cool" criteria- and broke my heart but fortunately the good guy was still still willing to give us a try and now it's been a year.
2006-11-28 14:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong to reject a guy that likes you. Why go into a relationship with someone you don't like? It's only a recipe for disaster. Tell him you only want to be friends and that's that. You don't like him in a more than friends way.
As for the other guy, if you aren't getting the 'i like you' signals strong and clear than don't waste your time. When a guy likes a girl, he'll be making an effort to get to know her and spend time with her.
2006-11-28 14:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by wolfgirl1987 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wrong but the guy you like seems to be using you and you don't want a guy who wants you only ,the guy who copy's off your home work give you mixed signals playing with your head and you think he is shy leave him alone just become friend with the guy who treats you nice who know you may learn to appreciate him and love him good luck
2006-11-28 14:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't go out with someone if you don't like them because if you do they will think that you do like them. For the second guy ask him why he is so shy but in a joking around way. Like when it seem like he too shy to say anything else other than homework then you can ask him why he is SO shy.
2006-11-28 14:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by NephthysGal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been thru the same scenario before. Sometimes we just have to listen to our heart. I couldnt fall in love with the guy who showed interest in me.. Sometimes I wonder if I took the wrong decision when I look my loneliness, and at other times I know I dun love him and I am rite. Just listen to your heart and it will never fail u. :) good luck!
2006-11-28 14:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to lead him on if you don't like him, you will just end up hurting him alot more if you do that. Trust me, its happened to me before and I'd much rather have the girl tell me straight off that she doesn't like me instead of doing things because she feels bad.
2006-11-28 14:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to reject someone if you really don't want to be with that person. Because:
1. You don't want to waste that persons time and hurt them in the long run.
2. You want to be pleased and happy with the person that you're with.
2006-11-28 14:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by skykiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 40 years old, I dont know how old you are, but at this point of my life I can tell you that it is not good to lie or play with people feelings, you should tell him the truth
2006-11-28 14:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋