Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

i don't think he would cheat, but lately he's been going to this girls house for lunch, helping her with homework, she's been seeing him at his work, always talking in the hallways, not to mention class. is he just being nice? am i over reacting? i mean one of these things by itself evry once in a while wouldn't be a big deal but its all these things every day. i want to talk to him about it. should i? or should i just see if its something that will pass?

2006-11-28 13:49:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 13:49:12 · 6 answers · asked by Pepper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok that was just to reel you in but tell me what you think about this:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=sa48Nq3Qw8I&mode=related&search=
if its your bday happy bday !

2006-11-28 13:48:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife found some of my porn collection and i need to know if being married and watching porn is ok and if u could explain why it's ok for the both of us.

2006-11-28 13:47:24 · 28 answers · asked by Malicious Intent 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 13:47:08 · 13 answers · asked by jayakrishnamenon 3 in Singles & Dating

so she dumped me and has been avoiding me. ive avoided her too. ive tried to dress up better, and look prettier...then on my way, i saw her, she didnt see me. like me, shes dressed up differently and better..its so weird...i saw her moving on...i wish she saw me too but i decided not to say hi and pretended not to see her...it hurts so much..i dont know how i should react..but i hate this feeling for i felt like im back to scratch...pls help me move on. (you can read some of my other questions on dating..youll know the story..)

im so depressed. i thought i was good at getting over her, but i find myslef crying tonight...and what if..shes with someone...can i stand such a sight?!

2006-11-28 13:47:07 · 12 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just recently moved to a new school, and i've made two friends, and at first they semed like the perfect buddies, and i was confident that i would get through the year with them on my side.
but then, one of my friends, let's call her Lydia, turned out to be really.... well, bitchy (excuse my language, but that's the only word i could find that can explain her). Apparantly she came from a school that had "gangs" and she used to smoke. And we're talking eighth grade. I only learned this about a week ago.... Only that, i wouldn't really have cared, because i mean it's all over now, and she didn't seem like a bad girl, really...
but she kept escalating.
she would criticize my clothes, my parents, my car, anything she could get her eyes on, she criticized. and i'm not against some friendly joking and stuff, but this was going too far. She would insult my friends while i was talking to them
(once i was talking to one of my other friends from different classes, and she came up to me and sai

2006-11-28 13:46:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-28 13:45:35 · 17 answers · asked by CC 1 in Singles & Dating

God Bless and Be Safe:)

2006-11-28 13:45:34 · 10 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

It's our third wedding anniversary on Thursday. Any inexpensive ideas? We've had a tough year and don't have much money left over this month. Not to mention that my husband is really stressed about money right now, so he's not exactly in a romantic mood. I want him to know how much I care.

2006-11-28 13:44:49 · 11 answers · asked by Chellebelle78 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He is overseas with the Army right now. A few things have happened that I find a bit annoying. (I.E. knocking on the door leading to my kitchen instead of my front door), trying to come in the apartment when I was on vacation to turn the light off over the stove without calling me first to see if I minded. (I always leave a small light on so I do not come home to a dark house.) We want to set boundaries early on without offending her, as she is family. However, we do pay rent and have certain expectations of privacy, etc...Any suggestions?

2006-11-28 13:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by Dolphin73 1 in Family

I know how it sounds, but he is driving my crazy. My husband and I have had custody of his son since 2002 when he was almost 6. He has not seen his biological mother since spring 2003. He is 10 now and has absolutely no respect for me. He is bringing out the worst in me by lying, cheating and beating up on my other two kids (younger and girls). The other night when I caught him in yet another lie, I was so angry with him that I had to leave the room before I seriously hurt him. I love him dearly but I am afraid that one of these days I may snap and hurt him and I cannot lose all three of my children because he is driving me crazy. Is it wrong that I want to send him to his mother's for awhile (not forever)?

2006-11-28 13:44:09 · 11 answers · asked by Leslie 2 in Family

Broken Trust
By: Kenny P. aka- Cobra

Friends come and then they go,
leaving behind, the pain which they committed.

From the trust, that was given to them freely,
with no concern, of the destruction they inflicted.

How do I believe others, from this moment on?
and how many more years, must I try?

To accept the fact, that people are hurtful,
and I’ve learned my lesson, I will not cry.

Where do, these people come from, and I ask,
what manner of iron will, must some people possess.

To enjoy hurting others, with their broken trust,
and always looking forward, to never accept regress.

So if sometimes it seems to you.
I’m clinging to the past.

It’s mostly because, I can’t yet accept,
The trust, that didn’t last.

2006-11-28 13:43:04 · 13 answers · asked by Cobra 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend who well liked me from high school and he would do a lot of things to get my attention and he said it would be good if we went together and stuff. i made him a friendship bracelet so he would be happy and i care about his feelings and him. i would talk to him everyday and igive him advice and i told him i cared about him and that i was his friend. but know i dont no if were friends anymore cause i think well i did'nt do anything wrong i told him i loved him and i told him i was being a friend and i apologized to him and i asked him could we be friends again. he was planning to see his ex next month and they had a fight. and well he does'nt talk to her that much. this girl who i talked to at college said he needs time to think and she sadi he probably wants you and not her she said dont worry about it.

2006-11-28 13:42:48 · 2 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Friends

A friend of mine just got engaged to this woman who he has dated for less than a year. He got commissioned as an officer in the military recently. This woman keeps pressuring him to make the wedding date a little sooner. When he told her they need to wait until he's done with all of his training, she flipped out!. She kicked in the door to her closet and that very night they're busy exchanging every thing they've given each other. She also hates living at home. I'm trying to help him realize he needs to cut her loose, but he's so broken up over her. What can I possibly do?

2006-11-28 13:42:31 · 9 answers · asked by Thomas K 3 in Marriage & Divorce

That she would kick her husband out of the bed so the pig would sleep there? and would feed her pig gourmet food and her husband Tv dinners?

2006-11-28 13:41:59 · 21 answers · asked by sicilianchick 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so heres my situation, i have known this girl for years now (im a senior in high school) and ever since we met we have always had chemistry together, were always flirting back and forth with each other and can always talk about anything. during sopmore year, i was about to ask her out, but never made a move and she went off with another guy, now during our senior year.. were startinhg to flirt again ( she stil has a bf) such as shes always in my face when were talking, always calling out my name when she sees me in the halls, and everytime she sees me she runs up and initiates the conversation, she makes the extra effort to walk with me in the direction that i go and whenever we hang out (in groups) she always texts me after asking me if i had a good time. also her feet always point towards me when we talk and other things. now heres my question... shes still with her bf and im inlove with her... what do i do?

2006-11-28 13:41:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay how can i tell my boyfriend that i luv him when he just broke up with me about 2 days ago how can i tell him that i want him back he tell his friend that he still luv me but i just don't know what to say. should i call him adn talk to him? what shuld i say to him PLEASE HELP

2006-11-28 13:41:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime me and my friends of 5+ years gather they always bring up the subject of wheather or not me and my girlfriend are having sex i keep asking them why are they so concerned. what do i do

2006-11-28 13:41:01 · 22 answers · asked by roadburner2616 2 in Friends

Hey my name is christina and my crush is David if ur name is david but its not u prob but yea going onso yea i like this guy name david he is really cute and he goes to my church and we both r romainian and when we were at the pratice he got in trouble cuz he was being silly so the teacher said david plz move here so he moved and now i finally kno wats his name!! he is in band in church he plays the trumpet i think and once church is ova and i was waiting for mom my stop talking to her friends and david was like in front off me like 3 ft away talking to his friends and i was staring at him and he was staring at me i think and he doesn't kno me and i am sooo scared to talk to him ya'll kno nervous what should i do like how should we get to know each other?? i mean i don't want to bump in to him and say omg i am soo sry i mean that is a stupid exuse....wat should i say?? i am so nervous..

2006-11-28 13:40:41 · 8 answers · asked by christina 1 in Singles & Dating

i know it depends on a person, but on average, what race of guys do you think is the hottest?

2006-11-28 13:40:29 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't know why I just haven't had a boyfriend yet!! I'm 15 5'9 i'm a cheerleader I play golf im in honors classes im girly i flirt and i have 36 D's. Whats wrong with me!! I have lots of friends, im a really nice person. am I too intimidating becouse I'm tall ? I think it might be that im too good... i've never gotten in trouble for anything at school i never do bad things? What should I do! I don't want my young love life wasted away!

2006-11-28 13:40:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her dad technically has custodial custody, hes doing a great job hes got her in school, paying for daycare and works 2 jobs...while I do nothing.. WHere I live there are no job, my parents cant afford to help me and I cant get a job really inless I get a car and I cant get a car inless I get a job! I feel like I am neglecting my daughters needs when she comes to see me every other weekend! I dont know what to do anymore.. I am walkin down a hard road.. Severe my rights with visitation or DO whatever have to to move and get a job so I can fight for her in court when our divorce rolls around! *Note- I am not a mean or violent person.. I like to settle things as easy as possible but with less pain a possible*

2006-11-28 13:40:01 · 8 answers · asked by thebrighterside2008 1 in Family

I'm a loser. Quite lame, and nobody knows me in school. Last year my heart was broken by a girl who, unlike most girls, actually noticed and was friendly to me. So I fell in love. Though she wasn't drop dead sexy, and was quite frankly a nerd, I didn't care. All I thought I saw was a sweet girl.

But she lied to me and said she had a boyfriend when I asked her out. I know she lied because her "boyfriend" told me so. Never had a single girl give messages that she liked me before. I THOUGHT she was the first. What the hell was she thinking? Did she think I was gay and would never ask her out?

2006-11-28 13:39:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend of a year and a half more than anything in the world. I just don't connect with women very easily. I would feel more comfortable if I could hang out with guys (totally and completely NOT sexual.... just friends). This isn't considered cheating is it? Is it wrong to do this? Should my boyfriend feel jealous?

2006-11-28 13:39:26 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyday I face my childern oldest son do not like me hates for me to touch him. Husband do not talk to me just walk pass me like I am nothing to him. Don't have a life . Want to go to school but can not because of money. Husband is in school ask him for help and he says nothing to me. I need my GED . I have dreams but do not know how to go forth. Fall in love with a married man thinking that he will be different just to know that it is only sex. Help me please I need to find me and know what the hell is going on in my life. My childern is never happy I always scream and cry every night .

2006-11-28 13:39:22 · 13 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We married on 666, his previouse wife died 5 1/2 yrs ago, we live in the house where they lived for 10 yrs and she died in, and I married my husband at this same house! Her and I have the same maiden name and she passed on my birthday. Its getting harder every day. Love Is Blind! He also carries her obituary in his checkbook. I'm not sure what was hers, his , or theirs. I don't know if I should ask or not. His 18 year old daughter and my 13 year old daughter and 11 year old son live with us. We have so much love for each other but since I moved in over a year ago we argue all the time. We never argued before i moved in.

2006-11-28 13:39:22 · 33 answers · asked by bonbonjaba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never met my real dad and it's been 35 years now. I have used geanology search and ancestory search. I've also used the white pages. Does anyone know of any free sites I can use that would help me out? I've been searching since I was 18 and so far now luck. The problem is he is a Smith. My luck.
Any Ideas please feel free to let me know.

2006-11-28 13:38:18 · 9 answers · asked by honibear35 2 in Family

Okay I am asking this because I am a metro sexual and this guy keeps staring at me and grabbing my butt in the locker room. I would think okay what ever if this wasn't on going but it is and like I told him to stop and he cried and stuff. It was really wierd do you think he is gay because my guess is yes and metroes need to watch out because we can easily be observed as homosexual.

for those of you who don't know what a metrosexual is it's a guy with female qualites such as a soft voice fashion awarness you know what bullies may call a fag or something any way metroes are straight guys with female qualities.

2006-11-28 13:38:04 · 4 answers · asked by chillax68 1 in Singles & Dating

I posted a Q about this boy a while ago.
(http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmV9wmXr0FYH0GG.wjTTMsfsy6IX?qid=20061121163833AAHIzkO)
Some of the answers told me that ingoring him would make him try to get my attention.

So, I did. For the first few days, I caught him looking at me out of the corner of my eye.
Now, he's ignoring me.

What exactly does this mean? How can I get him to notice me again?

2006-11-28 13:37:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating