i just recently moved to a new school, and i've made two friends, and at first they semed like the perfect buddies, and i was confident that i would get through the year with them on my side.
but then, one of my friends, let's call her Lydia, turned out to be really.... well, bitchy (excuse my language, but that's the only word i could find that can explain her). Apparantly she came from a school that had "gangs" and she used to smoke. And we're talking eighth grade. I only learned this about a week ago.... Only that, i wouldn't really have cared, because i mean it's all over now, and she didn't seem like a bad girl, really...
but she kept escalating.
she would criticize my clothes, my parents, my car, anything she could get her eyes on, she criticized. and i'm not against some friendly joking and stuff, but this was going too far. She would insult my friends while i was talking to them
(once i was talking to one of my other friends from different classes, and she came up to me and sai
2006-11-28 13:46:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
"ditcher! you ditched me, didn;t you? what the hell is wrong with you? ditching me to hang out with these losers. you're DISGUSTING.").... she also spreads rumors about other people and makes oh-so-funny, audible comments about people where they can hear what she's saying.
many of my friends have advised me to talk to her, but when i try to, all she says is "I'M the one with the problem!? YOU'RE the one with the problem!!! You're a *****!" so my other friends are now advising me to cut the friendship off.
and i plan to do this tomorrow.
Just simply tell my other friends about it, tell me them to go along with whatever i'm doing and ignore Lydia, then i'm going to sit at a different table, saying nothing, and when she comes over, i'll just say, "oh, hi Lydia. i just wanted to sit with them today. do you mind?" and then she'll probably start screaming and yelling and tearing my hair out, but then i'll just say "oh, glad you understand. now, bye!" because honestly, i'm tired of it. i'm ti
2006-11-28 13:47:10 · update #1
red of everything she says and does and how she tried to take over my life.
2006-11-28 13:47:41 · update #2
do you think that strategy will work?
what should i do?
2006-11-28 13:48:35 · update #3
Sounds like you know what to do... there is a old saying.... you are who you hang with.... don't want people to think you are like her..... do ya???/
You have a right to be with whoever you choose... so go for it... sounds like she is a real freak... good luck....
2006-11-28 14:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds good and like what u should do but i would recommend that u be more direct and find her and tell her that it is over and u r tired of the way she treats u and u r tired of the way she always talks down to u and ur family and ur stuf and that she has been acting like a complete *****. that would make u be the bigger man (or girl in this case) and u wouldnt have to stoop to her level and childishly annoy her.
With Love from God,
Joshwea
Best of Luck
2006-11-28 22:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by moNAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes down to lydia scratching you and pulling your hair defend yourselfyoull have less bruises and more respect and guaranteed that girl will stay away from you .
2006-11-28 21:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by ocnnk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a strong character and a healthy sense of what is right and wrong. You have an excellent strategy. Bravo!
2006-11-28 22:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
QUIT TALKING TO HER! Don't approach her, don't answer her calls, don't talk to her. She's a disrespectful ***** and she does not deserve your friendship, let alone your time.
2006-11-28 22:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by Emmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋