Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

Ok so my daughter hasnt seen her father in about 6 years( he walked out on us). well his girlfriend of 3 years just found out that he has a kid and SHE wants to meet her (just her not with her dad) and Im confused...why would she be doing this? She wants to take her shopping for christmas and hang out for a day....Im not sure what to do. My daughter wants NOTHING to do with her dad.

2006-11-28 13:28:14 · 14 answers · asked by its just me....♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know why, but my whole school is turning against me. My school consists of only 60 students but still. I don't know what i'm doing wrong. There are these girl i had some problems with last year and they seem to turn all their "friends" against me.

I am not such a bad person, like all Boricuas I will respond, if you look for trouble you gonna find it. I do have a temper and nobody tells me to shut up because that's not how it works. But i'm am a nice person for the most part. It's like my life has turned from this good, important, caring, enjoyable life to these horrible, lonely, from hell life.

On top of that I have a really low self-esteem. All my life I have been teased for being so skinny, my metabolism is fast, i can't do anything about that. I have only had like 6 boyfriends and I have little patience. It's like everything I do is wrong. I can't seem to make friends in school, i only have one friend, and she lies too much. I am sweet, selfless, hate hurting people.

2006-11-28 13:27:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's a woman I work with, whom I really like, and I've let her know I really like her. At work, she's as friendly as can be, and she confides in me about personal matters. But she's had my number for a month now and never calls me, and she gave me her numbers a couple of weeks ago, but I've called twice, and only get her voice mail, and she doesn't return my calls. She always has a reason at work, like she was afraid it was too late, etc. but I just don't get it.

2006-11-28 13:27:09 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

the oldest person to live?

2006-11-28 13:26:48 · 5 answers · asked by Jbcanfi74 2 in Family

I've had two...am I maxed out?

2006-11-28 13:26:08 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother and I, all we do is FIGHT we can not get along I can't stand being around her for a long period of time..she frustrates me and always yells at me. I am 18 years old and she acts like i'm a kid and she never lets me go explore and learn new things. Everything I do is always wrong or not good enough for her..please help me find ways to get along with her

2006-11-28 13:25:37 · 16 answers · asked by tasha o 1 in Family

how old does your child have to be to make his own decision who he wants to live with? iowa

2006-11-28 13:25:07 · 4 answers · asked by alex w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It used to be that the man asked the woman out, but now the woman has to ask the man out. Men just sit back and relax while women do the work. I guess that is why I am single. I am just waiting for an assertive man. According to my friends and family, they say I have to go fishing and catch one and reel him in. I feel like Carrie from "Sex and the City" because I think of the question, "Is it the new fad for women to claim their man by grabbing one?" I am so frustrated by this. Assertive men, where are you?

2006-11-28 13:25:01 · 14 answers · asked by goodgirlbitesback 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i get a guy ( i don't have one in mind) before the holidays (NOT 4 PRESENTS) just so i can have someone to talk to and hank with over the holidays

2006-11-28 13:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by confussed 2 in Singles & Dating

ok say there is a girl or guy that you really really really like. and this guy or girl likes another girl or guy. mabey they like that person alot. would you help the guy or girl you like to get with the person they like . if you would or wouldnt why or why not?

2006-11-28 13:24:03 · 21 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend likes me, it's so obvious, and I like him back. He is so nice, sweet, cute, smart, and FUNNY! I am shy to tell him even though he knows and he is too shy of telling me even though I know. What should I do?

2006-11-28 13:22:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend ask a very personal and serious question. Are u in love with me? We have only been dating for 5 months. I have only known him for a year. I do really like. I do love him and have love for him. But im not in love with him. I have only felt that way about one person. But I also have known him longer. Im guessing he's falls in love quickly! But no matter how much we argue i want to stay with. I enjoy his company soooooo much! But I think we need 2 b together 4 at least a year for me to determine that! Help please!

2006-11-28 13:22:09 · 9 answers · asked by msaquarius 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friends like to chill alot and recently we were just talking about the many girls they've dated over the years, seeing as I haven't had a girlfriend yet cause I'm kinda shy around girls. As we got deeper into the conversation, they started to talk about all of their sexual experiences with the girls. All the stuff they had to say makes it seem like you're supposed to have sex as a teen. There's four of us and one friend and I are 16 and the other two are 17. Am I missing something...should I have had sex by now?

2006-11-28 13:21:53 · 20 answers · asked by Being Myself 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to live with my dad untill he moved out of my grandparents house were we used to live. then in summer i was living with my mom at her house and she lived right down the street from our couzin so i did stay there too. then at the end of the summer she put me back at my grandparents house to live there. Now im here so then they moved to florida but my dad had already moved to florida b4 me and then my grandparents and i moved to florida too. Now i dont now wut to do like should i move back to NJ with my mom and my couzins and not see my dad for like every once or twice a year but still see my mom like every day or stay and only see my mom like twice or three times a year and summer time and still only see my dad like once a month but my grandparents are like depriving me from seeing my mom anyway so i dont know wut i should do like either move back or stay?

2006-11-28 13:21:41 · 4 answers · asked by me_yes_me5 2 in Family

his name i shall not say...i told him how i felt about him and he told me that he only liked me as a friend...i accepted that.until he started dating this nasty girl and then he started flirting with me by touching me everywhere and sitting and talking to me every chance he gets.part of me thinks he is trying to hide his relationship from me as if he's affraid to hurt me. it is as if he feels our friendship with his hands instead of his heart. i am so confused and hurt.

2006-11-28 13:21:23 · 9 answers · asked by manderz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 13:21:19 · 12 answers · asked by loann_pizzito 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay im like way in over my head crazy about this guy at school he is in my math class he was on the wrestling team that i manage and he was on the varsity football team. he is very nice and not a jock jerk i really want to tell him i like him before my 17 b-day in one week the thing is i can't tell him during math class cause he is around all his friends and i don't want to embarrase him and that is like the only time i see him i could get a note or something on his car!!!! i don't have his phone number so i just don't know what to do!!!!!!! i have thought of a million different ways but im having a little trouble chosing one there are no words to express how much i like him i really want to tell him in the most descreate way possible like a note or something but i also want him to know how much i care for him!?!?!?! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!Thanks
~ Hopelessly in love ~

2006-11-28 13:20:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My little sister is like an angel in this family she gets whatever she wants whenever she wants it... it is her way or no way in this house... me and my older brother are sick of it... we talked to them about it already but the ignored us... what should we do about it?

2006-11-28 13:20:04 · 12 answers · asked by Sexy babe 1 in Family

My mom told me she hated me, and that was this morning. I am really sad now, I have been crying all day. Help, give me advice to help to get my mom to love me again. My sister got kicked out of the house and I am afraid that I will soon.

2006-11-28 13:19:51 · 12 answers · asked by April 2 in Family

can i have some tips? how do i forget about i guy i liked? he has a gf now and hes such a jerk, but i always see him. how can i look past him and forget about him?

2006-11-28 13:18:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Aite i talk ghetto so if its hard 2 understand den e-mail me and ask but anyway i knew this boy n last year i had been watchin him(not stalkin i aint dat kind of gurl) but I could c how he had game n how he was doin females so this year we finally expressed ourselves n he did the same to me but he cheated on me three times I knew how he was n i knew dat eventually dat it was goin happen so i knew da deal i was up on game i really do love him but den i dont want to leave should i stay or should i go

2006-11-28 13:18:43 · 4 answers · asked by Investigator 2 in Singles & Dating

A lot of people have dogs or cats but don't appreciate them. My step sister has a dog and just feeds and waters him, thats it. The only times he's had a bath in his whole life was when I washed him while I visited once. I just want to know if some people act the same way she does.

2006-11-28 13:16:30 · 12 answers · asked by yomonkeysdaddy 2 in Family

Its a term that married women use occasionally. Give us some insight on what you really mean when you tell someone this.

2006-11-28 13:16:24 · 14 answers · asked by HowFuzzyWuzee 6 in Marriage & Divorce

He told me a few weeks ago that he`s breaking up. Should I confront him about this woman because he has been telling me that I, my sister and my daughter are the only people he talks to online.

2006-11-28 13:16:24 · 6 answers · asked by lucia19642004 1 in Singles & Dating

You meet a guy at the bar and he asks you out to diner. You agree. You guys both switch MSN's and chat for a couple weeks. You see him at the bar again and dance with him.

He asks you out for sunday and you say yes.

Now my question is, What would you want to do on this date? (I dont mean sex or anything of the sorts)

2006-11-28 13:16:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 6 years, and got married in August of 2006. When we first got together, and again when we first got married, he was lovey and wanted to be close to me, to touch me and spend time with me... but we seem to have lost that yet again, and I really want to know some good ideas for recreating that magic. Any suggestions?

2006-11-28 13:16:19 · 8 answers · asked by jhostman 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well i had this sort of boyfriend for awhile it was kinda long distnace but he started putting less and less effort in as it went along. ireally loved himt ho, ive never felt love like that. weve finally broke contact, he moved up north after a fight we had and said he didnt wanna worry about anyone down here...so i stopped calling and its been 2 weeks. i keep havin dreams about him tho one was really vivid he was kissing me and i was saying i missed hima nd he said me too..and then he was like i have a gf tho, her name is somethin, and i was like are u lieing and he said yes i said why and he said cuz i dont want to be together...we cant right now. what should i think about that? i dont think ive ever felt love this deep. i had it bad for him and its just not going away, i dont want anyone else but him.. he said hed call when he had a break from work. do u think if he doesnt by a couple weeks that i should??

2006-11-28 13:16:07 · 5 answers · asked by krista22here 1 in Singles & Dating

I've lived in this apartment for about 2 months, and since then I've been receiving this guy's bank statements, credit card bills, offers, etc...Curiosity got the best of me one time and I opened a letter from a credit card company with some very harsh wording regarding an unpaid balance in the thousands...I don't know what the polite thing to do is.

2006-11-28 13:14:55 · 7 answers · asked by ahashake24 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We're getting married in 2-3 years, and I want to remind him that we should start saving. He is clueless about this stuff... all he knows is that he loves me. :-) Should I tell him? Is it necessary? How should I do it?

2006-11-28 13:14:34 · 21 answers · asked by reba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for a man to not be hurt or have a bruised ego when his wife tells him he doesn't satisfy her in bed?

There is open communication, told him gently for the first 2 years and now frustratingly pleads with him that he won't learn how to make love or touch me. It's mechanical, awkward and doesnt know my body - has to be TOLD everything to do and when to do it. Tried instructional videos, frank conversation and TEARS...he thinks it's funny (he makes jokes about it) that he's not good in bed and says it doesn't hurt him when I tell him how I feel about our love life. He says it's not that important and he could have a relationship without sex. I know for a fact he is NOT gay, he had sexual relations with women all through teenage years, though we did not sleep together before we were married. (Religious reasons.)

I'm SO frustrated and feel neglected and not cared for. I love my husband and want to stay with him, don't want an affair or divorce. What do I do

2006-11-28 13:13:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce