I NeEd HeLp!!!!!!!PlEaSe!!!?

Question

I don't know why, but my whole school is turning against me. My school consists of only 60 students but still. I don't know what i'm doing wrong. There are these girl i had some problems with last year and they seem to turn all their "friends" against me.

I am not such a bad person, like all Boricuas I will respond, if you look for trouble you gonna find it. I do have a temper and nobody tells me to shut up because that's not how it works. But i'm am a nice person for the most part. It's like my life has turned from this good, important, caring, enjoyable life to these horrible, lonely, from hell life.

On top of that I have a really low self-esteem. All my life I have been teased for being so skinny, my metabolism is fast, i can't do anything about that. I have only had like 6 boyfriends and I have little patience. It's like everything I do is wrong. I can't seem to make friends in school, i only have one friend, and she lies too much. I am sweet, selfless, hate hurting people.

I hate making people feel down, I don't look that bad, Can someone, now that you know more about me, tell me why so many people hate me???

I can't be friends with them, it's like being friends with the devil, NOT GOOD!!!!!!

Everyday someone makes a racist comment to me or cusses me out, am i suppose to ignore that, if so I can't do it how can i do it, it is really hard for me to just walk it out.

Answer 1

you're going to have enemies regardless of how nice you try to be. keep your head up things will get better

Answer 2

I know this sounds dramatic, but don't realize your mistakes and think about your good features. I'm sure you have some, everybody does, no matter how much they deny it. Then when your called a name keep the favorite part of yourself in the back of you mind. As for your friends, as long as you have one good friend in your life your doing good. To gain more friends join some clubs and get to know people better. Try and talk to the girl you had problems with. I know that's a lot to ask, and it won't be easy, but everything will be so much better if you were on good terms with her. Having enemies brings down your self confidence so try a get rid of as many as possible. Also, don't think no one cares because if they didn't they wouldn't be answering this question. Get to know people better when someone laughs at you stop and think about if they were truly better than you then would they be saying hurtful things like that. One last thing, focus more on your education because being popular isn't everything. Think about how successful you going to be when you get out of school. If you ever need someone to talk to you can e-mail me at [e-mail] or [e-mail]

Answer 3

well for one it sounds like u are in denial a little. u say that u r a selfless person but then u sound like u have lost the admiration of some people and u want it back, u feel like u deserve it. u think that bc u r SO good (and i am not saying that ur not good) but u think that bc u r that good u deserve to be loved and adored. also i dont kno if u are a Christian and u r being nice and Christian-like u shouldnt expect ppl to like u. that seems to be when they hate u more, i kno. but either way u shouldnt expect ppl to like u bc u r doin the right thing and being nice. that is not how the world works anymore and i am sry about that

dont change and hope u get through it


With Love from God,
Joshwea
Best of Luck

Answer 4

I have had the same problem when I transferred to another school. I really did not fit in I went from Public to Parochial (catholic) grade school. I made friends with a few of the teachers. tried to fit in with some of the jocks, but ended up being friends with some of the misfits. No matter, we had a good time my friends and me. But anyways, back to your problem Try to investigate the real source and try to have a friend help. Get them to find the gossip about you, then find out the person who started the rumor. If you want to start something out to quietly start about them/her/him.

Answer 5

if your whole school has turned against you for some stuff that happened last year you dont need them. and they only thing that makes the person that hurt you feel success is to see you walk with your head down and you feeling like crap. you need to walk with your head up and not show any trace of defeat. plus people will want to be your friend if they see you confident and respected.

Answer 6

i feel your pain. everyone hates me because i am fat and ugly. my avatar might seem nice, but that is how i wished i looked. i ignore everyone and focus on my talents. i love to sing and i am great at it, no stupid people will stop me. i also have no friends because all my old friends made fun of me behind my back. life is hell but if i want to be a singer, i have to focous. i am only a fifth grader and so you might think i am too young to answer this. focus on your dreams and ignore people you will make it all the way!

Answer 7

Yous need too calm down, be friendly, help people. The people who are mean to you, be nice to them, i know it hard, but in time they will come to respect you. Just don't do anything foolish that can ruin your name, believe me, it takes a long time to rebuild a good name.

Answer 8

just be nice to them and stick it out, try not 2 let ur temper get 2 u tht would jst amke it worse good luck

Answer 9

well it seems like its cuz you just talk too much...if you really say that your a real nice person you should just prove it to all the haterz at your school..prove them wrong..

Answer 10

jealous? xxx