My boyfriend ask a very personal and serious question. Are u in love with me? We have only been dating for 5 months. I have only known him for a year. I do really like. I do love him and have love for him. But im not in love with him. I have only felt that way about one person. But I also have known him longer. Im guessing he's falls in love quickly! But no matter how much we argue i want to stay with. I enjoy his company soooooo much! But I think we need 2 b together 4 at least a year for me to determine that! Help please!
2006-11-28 13:22:09 · 9 answers · asked by msaquarius 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just let things work themselves out..don't lead him on..sometimes silence is golden..
2006-11-28 13:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that anyone can determine when they will fall in love, it just happens. You don't say I'm going to fall in love today or 2 years from now. Maybe you could be a little more understanding of your boyfriend's feelings maybe he fell in love with you within the year that you guys have known eachother rather than just the five months that you guys have been together. I think you should be honest with him and tell him that you really enjoy his company, but you haven't fallen in love him yet. Remeber love doesn't have a timeline.
2006-11-28 21:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by SimplyYoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you just told us. You need to be honest and blunt with him. PRancing around on tip toes won't get you anywhere. It's not very nice to play a guy. You hate being played, dontcha? Honesty is the best policy. Yes, by telling him this, you could risk him leaving you, but in not telling him you could lead up some big heartache in the end
2006-11-28 21:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by wolfgirl1987 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Most ppl I know have already determined if they are in love or not by that time. Not making fun, just telling what I've experienced.
Tell him like you just told us. If he is in love with you already, then more likely than not, he will want to continue in hopes that you will fall for him too.
Good luck!
2006-11-28 21:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell him that a flower doesnt grow overnight and neither does love.it takes time and the flower has to be tenderly cared for and watered.it needs sunshine.thats the same way it is with love. you have to give it time to grow and then one day the flower will be complete. let him know that he can not force love, because it has to be in due time.
2006-11-28 21:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-28 21:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by msa p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth you like him a lot but not sure if you love him, and you love being with him. let him know you arent interested in other guys unless of course you are.
2006-11-28 21:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then lie and say yes, you love him and you want to stay with him, in a year or whenever find out if you still want to be with him
2006-11-28 21:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him the truth.
2006-11-28 21:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋