I used to live with my dad untill he moved out of my grandparents house were we used to live. then in summer i was living with my mom at her house and she lived right down the street from our couzin so i did stay there too. then at the end of the summer she put me back at my grandparents house to live there. Now im here so then they moved to florida but my dad had already moved to florida b4 me and then my grandparents and i moved to florida too. Now i dont now wut to do like should i move back to NJ with my mom and my couzins and not see my dad for like every once or twice a year but still see my mom like every day or stay and only see my mom like twice or three times a year and summer time and still only see my dad like once a month but my grandparents are like depriving me from seeing my mom anyway so i dont know wut i should do like either move back or stay?
2006-11-28 13:21:41 · 4 answers · asked by me_yes_me5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How old are you? If you're old enough to get your own place then do that. It doesn't sound like there is any stability in your life. If you're not old enough to move on your own try to stay where you the happiest. Make sure to discuss it with whoever you're living with. Good luck!
2006-11-28 13:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by MommaMia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you be seeing your dad every summer if you lived with your mom? I really think you should stay with whom you feel most comfortable and then visit the other parent and family members as much as possible. When I divorced my husband, we had a problem because we have three sons and he lives in England and I live in Los Angeles. The kids stood with me whether they wanted to or not because my ex-husband had a job that required him to travel. The only time they saw him was in the summer when they went along with him during his traveling. It kind of worked out. Later, when my youngest son married, he moved to London with his dad. Being away from a parent or from a child hurts very much at the beginning, but you'll get used to it. Then when you see the other parent, you won't take for granted your visits.
2006-11-28 21:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems more like your mom is depriving you of your mom. Does your grandparents have legal custody of you? If so why is that? If not, then why aren't you living with the parent that has custody of you? Obviously your grandparents are more equipped to raise you than either of your parents, be thankful, that they are there for you.
2006-11-28 21:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would spend a year with my mom then a year with my dad. that way youd get to c both of them equally (kinda). if youd be willing to move that much.
2006-11-28 21:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Haley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋