i am a mother of 4 all boys . i try not to treat the youngest any different but i do and it is because he is the last one there is not going to be any more baby steps in our house it will be the last of the last . the other reason is i am tired i have said it all 3 time before by the time the 4th one goes to do it i am just tired . so he does have more freedom and he mother away with stuff .
2006-11-29 06:44:37
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answered by febuary 1
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I don't know why that happened. My youngest spent half of her life trrying toget me to admit she was my favorite. She never seceeded.I could not have favorites among my children.
Daughters are special in their special daughter way just as sons are in their special son way, but in the end they are and should be equal.
Sometimes we all seem to have one child we tend to have a special relationship with such as I do with my youngest daughter, but it's just that my oldest daughter is and has always been more independent of me and her mom. We really think as much of her as we all of our children. Our yuongest is flexible and they oldest is not:).
I would tell them you want an honest discussion with them without little sisters presence. If nothing else works just ;leave early saturaday morning go tot he movies or soemthing all day to keep you away from the house. arrange to spend thenights (/3 ) with some one, a friends or relatives and just tell your parents you are on strike until they listen to your gripe.
If nothing else works put your foot into your sisters butt to get her attention and tell her you are sick of her atttude. don't give in to her on anything.
2006-11-28 13:40:02
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answered by Anonymous
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since you and your brothers are "treated like crap"--maybe you should consider moving out-if you're old enough--i have 6 kids--and the baby always got treated the same as the rest of the kids-maybe you should try talking to them-in a non confrontational tone-if that doesn't work-talk to a close relative and see if they'll broach the subject
2006-11-28 13:25:43
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answered by laurie r 2
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i know cause I'm the middle child outta five kids and it really sucks
they spoil the little one because there trying to do everything that they screwed up not doing with you. first of all you should make some big statement to them without seeing melodramatic. then if that doesn't work say that shes not the only one in the house and you two deserve respect. if all else fails spend all your time at your friends house to avoid brat
2006-11-28 13:25:43
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answered by badger 1
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It never ends. I am the oldest (37) and my youngest brother (27) is getting new hardwood floors all thru his house courtesy of my Mom. Just learn to deal with it, that's all I can tell you
2006-11-28 13:22:58
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answered by chr1 4
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ive noticed that only im the youngest and even i notice that my parents are for more willing to give in to my requests than my brother and sisters.my brother doesnt get treated much worse than me though ehs the middle child tis the odlest my sister who gets the worst of it. not much to do about it parents suck sometimes sorry..
2006-11-28 13:24:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Youngest child is viewed as the person who would bring joy tp the family... that is why they are treated like angels....
2006-11-28 13:23:02
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answered by bugi 6
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properly i became an purely baby up till i became 8 and then I received step sisters and grew to develop into the midsection baby. I see little or no in worry-free with my subject with both my personal step youngsters or my bio youngsters, so i do no longer secretly believe any of them in accordance with my "spot" or theirs contained in the time-line. i imagine I come across with them depending extra on personality features that we share.
2016-11-29 22:03:24
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answered by matis 4
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Exactly...I hate being the oldest, they put all the responsibility on your shoulders! And the younger one's get away with murder! You kind of just have to go along with it, nothing much you can do.
2006-11-28 13:23:30
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answered by ღღღ 7
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you will have to get over it ,she is the baby,
that means the last seed from the womb,
its the last attachment from your mother ,she don't mean anything, thats just the way it is,she loves you just as much and if she gets truly spoiled they will end up loving you ,even more
2006-11-28 13:28:34
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answered by Me 5
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