There's a woman I work with, whom I really like, and I've let her know I really like her. At work, she's as friendly as can be, and she confides in me about personal matters. But she's had my number for a month now and never calls me, and she gave me her numbers a couple of weeks ago, but I've called twice, and only get her voice mail, and she doesn't return my calls. She always has a reason at work, like she was afraid it was too late, etc. but I just don't get it.
2006-11-28 13:27:09 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just for the record, I do not/ have not called her 'incessantly'. I've had her number for over 2 weeks, and one of the 2 times I called was to with her a Happy Thanksgiving. Partly because the day I left for the weekend, I talked with her for a few minutes and she seemed really down. I only got her cell phone voice mail both time I called. She is just getting out of a relationship that ended very badly, and I have explained to her several times that a phone call doesn't imply a relationship.
I think the people who say she isn't interested are right. The simple truth is, that if she felt half, for me, of what I feel for her, she would have been on the phone weeks ago. It's just the way life works out sometimes.
2006-11-30 14:16:11 · update #1
she may not be ready for a workplace relationship...try asking her out..and go from there..if she spends time with you socially, she will start calling..she dosen't sound comfortable just yet..be patient..
2006-11-28 13:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by KT 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's put it like this. If she was into you, she would call you back. That would be the first things she would want to do. She would not need to make up excuses except for being too wet to call you back and that obviously isn't the case.
It shouldn't be that hard to understand. If she wanted you, she would be on that phone immediately. There are people with whom I have worked (and had their numbers) that I confide with in personal matters just because I don't talk to them in my personal life and want to keep it that way. It is fun to have someone like that. Maybe she likes messing with you.
2006-11-28 21:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well then u are just a friend friend 2 her nothing more. sorry. i have some of those. she probably checks caller id and doesnt feel like talking 2 u . I hope thats not the case. but dont bug her 2 much. if she wants she will return your call.
2006-11-28 21:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by thesunnshynne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because:
1. Maybe she doesn't like you
2. It's not smart to date co-workers
3. Maybe you're not her type
Solutions:
1. Stop Calling, because she's not calling back
2. Accept the fact that she's just your co-worker
3. Move on before she breaks your heart
Thank You. Any More Questions? Goodbye.
2006-11-28 21:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you see, she probably doesn't like you in that way. Just as a friend. Besides you don't want to get involved with a girl from work anyway! To complicated
2006-11-28 21:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by khrissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a bad idea, you have to go to work if something goes bad you cannot get away from her. also are inter office relationships frowned on where you are that may be why she has not called you. find some other girl to stalk
2006-11-28 21:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes there is what i call work friends and non work friends when i leave for the day thats it we are close and care about each other but..... once the door closes its over way it is with alot of people
2006-11-28 21:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by terri e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably doesn't feel the same way and she does not know how to tell you. by avoiding the call she doesn't have to face you. i think you need to leave her alone. its a sign that she is not interested. even though she doesn't tell you, if she hasn't called you or answered your call... its a sign... just forget about it
2006-11-28 21:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by lala15 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is playing games with you...or just wants a "friend" relationship and your are weirding her out.....i would stop calling her....your gonna start to look like the crazy guy in the cube...girls chat ....she probrably tells the other girls how many times you called and blah blah blah....
2006-11-28 21:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by ed2791hotmail 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe from the simple fact that you two are to good of friends and she doesn't want to hurt you and she still wants to be friends!!! and if not than i have nothing to give to you but just tell her that you two can still be friends even if she doesn't like you like that!
2006-11-28 21:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by kc_fishes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋