I don't know why I just haven't had a boyfriend yet!! I'm 15 5'9 i'm a cheerleader I play golf im in honors classes im girly i flirt and i have 36 D's. Whats wrong with me!! I have lots of friends, im a really nice person. am I too intimidating becouse I'm tall ? I think it might be that im too good... i've never gotten in trouble for anything at school i never do bad things? What should I do! I don't want my young love life wasted away!
2006-11-28 13:40:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not saying my physical apperence entitles me to anything... im just saying im not like some total icky person
2006-11-28 13:49:24 · update #1
WOW! How much of a rut are you in?! In that little list you didn't involve Athletic nor slender so if your not either that might be your problem. If you are then I suggest for once instead of being the modest girl you are, wear low v-necks and U-necks 2-4 times a week and if u are crushing on any guys chat them up, find out their status and send REALLY clear signs but don't scare them. Good luck sweety! Knock em dead!!
2006-11-28 13:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're extremely intimidating to guys at that age.
Tall is part of it, but really it's the whole package:
- cheerleader
- 36D's
- super cute (I'm assuming)
- "popular"
- etc.
So there's only maybe 5 or 6 guys in the school who think they have a legitimate shot with you - even if you disagree, that's what all the guys are thinking.
So, you gotta be the aggressor - find the guy you like and go talk to him, ask him out, laugh and joke and have fun.
Dang I wish I knew then what I know now.
2006-11-28 13:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry there is some1 that really does like u but he really is shy 2 tell u that! Just search for the guy that u think is right 4 u, and become there friend and probably threw time he would find out how nice u r and he would fall in love with u. just go on no matter if u don't have a BF its gonna be okay
2006-11-28 13:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by CrIsTiNa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, heres a little thing that ,ight help. Girls are like apples, the best ones are always at the top of the tree, while the rotton ones are on the ground. It is always eaiser to pick a rotton one over a good one, and maybe you are the good apple that guys dont take the time to get because there are rotton apples right there. Maybe this will help. I have reliazed that even if you are girly and pretty and have big boobs, it doesnt matter. People dcont just date others for their looks, but some guys are assholes and are to damn lazy to get the good girls who are pretty and nice. I know that as soon as i got into a fight at school, guys wanted to date me, because maybe you are just too good. Hopefully this helps!
2006-11-28 13:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by Just some country girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the trite and true story of the pretty girl who is popular but can't get a date. guess what your problem is common. Many guys are intimated by a girl they consider too good or above them, news flash teenage boys have self esteem problems too. alot of them probably assume you have a boyfriend or would be interested in them and so on. why don't you approach one of them, and ask them out. in this modern age it is very acceptable for a girl to take a proactive role in dating, that means not sitting at home waiting for boys to call. So go up to that guy youve been eyeing and ask him to go to a movie saturday night, ( just remember the rules of dating.. you ask you pay unless you agree to go dutch.. the same for him.) trust me after the first guy you will be suprised how many will pursue you after that... hey that guy dated her so maybe i have a chance too.. see what i mean. Just don't be afraid, even if you are told no your life isn't over just ask someone else later...(guys have to go through it all the time)
good luck
2006-11-28 13:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by figament 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why worry so much, do u really want to rush into a relationship that your not goin to be happy with, and it will just end in sadness and anger? but anyways- have you tried just singling out one guy that you like and actually get to know him. tallness isnt an issue(at least not for me) it doesnt matter how tall, but to most guys, if the chick is taller than them, then they find her weird. its not a factor if ur too good, cause being a bad person isnt atractive to some people, and why show off and not be the real you to get someone who likes you for who u arnt. u want someone who likes you for you. let me know how it works out for you, and maybe i could hook u up with a couple of my friends, let me know where u live and what not yoda_kkk@hotmail.com
2006-11-28 13:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Dan The Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young love wasted away? You're 15! Not 21. Just because you have 36 D's does not mean you're entitled to a boyfriend. Maybe you should try approaching people yourself. Relationships don't just fall into your lap.
2006-11-28 13:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Emmy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, you're 15... in my opinion that's too young. I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend... am currently in the beginning stages of a nonofficial relationship right now, but girl don't let boys rule your life. Be a teen, hang out with your friends, make guy friends. You don't need a boy to be happy.
2006-11-28 13:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by wolfgirl1987 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry:) At your age many, many guys will be and SHOULD BE intimidated by ladies like yourself! You are bright, beautiful and brillant--- too much for a 15 year old boy to handle:) :) When the time is right, Prince Charming will come on his white horse and sweep you off your feet:) Be patient; the best is yet to come for you!! God bless:)
2006-11-28 13:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by Princess_n_Pink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are u worrying so much...Love and relationships come when you least expect it. But if you really want a bf asap maybe you shouldnt be so flirty. If you flirt with everyone it might turn off the guys or if your a very agressive flirt you might send negative signals
2006-11-28 13:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by msX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋