Everytime me and my friends of 5+ years gather they always bring up the subject of wheather or not me and my girlfriend are having sex i keep asking them why are they so concerned. what do i do
2006-11-28 13:41:01 · 22 answers · asked by roadburner2616 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them to piss off.
2006-11-28 13:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by ModerndayMadman 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is more about them & what they are or aren't doing than it is you.
Tell them just that, "it's none of your business". What goes on between a man & a woman is very private.
I commend you for taking this stand and not resorting to "locker room" talk about this young lady. You didn't say how old you are, but I imagine you are mature beyond your years.
2006-11-28 13:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If i was you i would make a joke of it, say something like, why are you guys so worried about what I'm getting, you can't get any yourself. I know that's kinda corny, but i think if you turn it around to making fun of them they will chill out on you. I think that it is really respectable that you keep your sex life to yourself. A lot of girls aren't that lucky. you are a good man!
2006-11-28 13:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if u really love ur friends u will found out to tell them the right and Nice's way and if u can do both of those things you got alot of heart because i would have to hurt them that's like telling a really deep secret that some i told u that's so crazy if u told.
2006-11-28 13:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmine G 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I understand that you want to say it in a way that it doesn't hurt their feelings, this should be ok:
1)"You guys, I'm not trying to be mean or anything but that is really confidential to me and I don't feel comfortable talking about this with you guys, don't take it wrong or anything it's just that it's personal"
2006-11-28 13:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Explain to them that your private life is your own business. Tell them to stop asking becuase it's highly inappropriate to discuss that type of thing with your friends.
2006-11-28 13:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell them like this "ITS NONE OF YALL S BUISNESS"!!!!! Its as simple as that. Maybe they will back of when you show them you are serious about them butting out. They dont need to know anything that you dont want them to know. And im pretty sure your girlfriend would not appreciate it if they did know.
2006-11-28 13:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just tell them out right that it's none of their business or tell them it you told them then you'd hafta kill them or tell them you'll E-mail each and every one of them an exact and detailed account of the more private and intimate points of your life as soon as you get home to consult your records ,,,,
2006-11-28 14:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you are right whether you have sex with your girlfriend is yours and your girlfriends business only not your friends. so i would still tell them to back off it is none of their business. or maybe they found out from your girlfriend
2006-11-28 13:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by girly_guada 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just tell him you don't talk about your finances or sex life And it was a rule your grandfather advised you on.
2006-11-28 13:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by SE7EN 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
LOL...say something really gross and out of line that pertains nothing to sex....they will eventually get the picture.
~OR~
Just tell them NUNYA business!!!!
2006-11-28 13:44:34 · answer #11 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋