Should I stick it with some one i might love and continue to be disappointed or move on?

Question

Well we've been seeing each other for about a month and a half and I've fallen head over heels but theres a catch....Early on he confessed that he loved me but i never responded because I've been hurt before. When we are together its great but getting there is the hard part. Hes busy so its hard to get together and even harder when he lies about it. He refuses to tell his mom because he "knows" it wont end well since she told him not to date. Im tired of all the lies and the disappointment when he cant make it to the already hard plans. I just try not to get my hopes up. I know already that he cant go to this big event with me cause getting it past his mom would be too difficult so I've already had my guy friend set the date aside. Hes let me down so many times yet i cant leave him because i think i might love him....should i stay or just pack it up and move on?? Please help

Answer 1

i say you need to talk to him about it and tell him he needs to change or you are leaving

Answer 2

well if he let you down so many times move on. You know yourself, if you continue with this relationship you will be hurt down the line. when someone loves you and care about you he will admit that he lied and will ask you for forgiveness. You should date someone who is mature enough and does not depend on his mother. seek for help if you need to but get out of that relationship. you are a young girl when one door closes on you ten more are opening for you. I know is not easy but, is better to suffer 3 months than your entire life. Ask God to guide you and pray to him he will never fail you. He loves you more than anyone else. Trust me I know how it feels I been there a couple of times. you know that God is waiting for you to let this guy go. Once, again when someone cares about you he would not let you down.. You are a strong girl you know that deep inside you make your choice. I think the answer is move on, better thing are coming to you. one day you will be thankful that he is not with you. If you love him let him go may he needs to mature and realize that you are a great person. you are a valuable person. whatever happens in your live is for a driven purpose. " I suggest you to read the book called " The Battlefield of the mind" by joyce Meyers. I read it twice and I am going to read again this is a great book, I call it the eye opener.

Answer 3

Ok, it's simple...if you're doubting it this much, and you feel disappointed about the relationship...I'd dump the person, because the relationship obviously isn't making you happy. Or so it seems, I don't see how one can "possibly" love someone...either you do, or you don't, there's not much in between. And the relationship won't be beneficial for either side, if one half (in this case your half) isn't satisfied. Also, if the relationship isn't "open", then it's not a healthy relationship either.