ok so last year i had a awasome best friend. he was sooooo cool and we had so much in common. well were really good friends and still something was missing. later, we discovered we had feelings for eachother. so we started going out. it was a blast the first 3 monthes. but after we broke up, things haven't been the same. we never talk anymore. i really miss our friendship and i know now that by going out i probably screwed it all up. what should i do?
2006-11-28 14:19:33 · 16 answers · asked by bahamababe!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sadly there is nothing that you can do. Sometimes having a relationship with a good friend will do that to the friendship. But you will be ok.()
2006-11-28 14:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let it go....trust me,,,i just went through this. I thought i had a great friend, and bam..he told me straight up dont call him.
Sometimes people just cant be free and let friends in..it would be great if all people thought like that but it rarely happens. Dont waste precious time wondering what if and why. I honestly say just blaze a new path and forget it. It is a horrible feeling to think you have a friend and then, realize that they dont think the same!
Disposable feelings are the way to go!
2006-11-28 14:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by DOMINATUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not blame yourself for what happened.You do not need to live with guilty every day.That situation happen to thousands of people,not only to you.So,do not be sad for that.What you need to do is to forget about that incident,move on, and do new friends.You will have in your future life a man; who will love you indeed.Be happy,please smile,remember is not the end of the world.Good luck.
2006-11-28 14:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the risk, tell him you now realize dating was not worth losing your friendship over.
And that you would like to try to renew the friendship even just by casual how ya doings to slowly hanging out more and more.
2006-11-28 14:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 3 months you found that you are not good for each other. At least HE isn't interested in you anymore.
A friendship after dating is soo difficult - not possible, I think.
2006-11-28 14:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Dees 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him that us being together was a really big mistake and could have ruined our friendship for life (i had a bestfriend and i fell in love with her). Bury the past and move on =)
2006-11-28 14:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard, but don't stress your self. Do you and he still talk, maybe one of you pushed too hard... Maybe you can just redevelop that friendship, maybe you should talk to him, who knows he may feel he is at fault also. It does not hurt to try. Be postive!
2006-11-28 14:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by lady bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry that has happend to me things will get better he probibly thinks that u r mad at him and u think that he is mad at u! Just do ur first step and talk to him thats what i did and it worked out great!
2006-11-28 14:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by CrIsTiNa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to him and tell him how you feel, that you miss him and the relationship. Maybe you can start it again. Good Luck.
2006-11-28 14:22:32 · answer #9 · answered by stick man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 08:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋