I met this really great guy online about 8 months ago now and he calls me almost every night but we haven't met yet. I haven't drove to go see him which is 3 hours from here and he has cut his phone calls to maybe once a week now. I haven't seen a recent picture of him but he's seen one of me. I don't know if this is to dangerous or should I trust him after we have had all these really good late night talks and I know alot about him. I feel like I shouldn't even mess with him but in a way I want to meet him and see where it goes with us? What do you think I should do?
2006-11-28 14:41:32 · 10 answers · asked by Holly B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you want to see some pics, If he doesn't want to, then your over it. Move on.
But, if you get the pics and like what you see... It's 2006, people meet all the time on the internet these days. 8 months is a long time to talk with someone, you obviously have a connection. If you feel secure and you are attracted to him then, go for it. Just discuss what you expect before you meet him, so your on the same page.
2006-11-28 15:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Trucker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting someone online can be dangerous but you have to be careful and pick wisely. There are alot of nice guy online but at tyhe same time there are alot of creaps too. If you feel strongly about it and you trust him go for it but again be careful. Matter of fact if he has cut his calls and stopped calling the way he use to then he might be up to something that could be a danger to you. Before you go to visit him see why it is that he hasnt be calling but dont rulle out the fact that he could be lying to you just to get you up there. Just be careful and be careful who yuou trust. Best of Luck
2006-11-28 14:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would meet this guy. It is only 3 hours away. However, I would actually bring a friend with me. I would tell him something to the affect that my friend has family down there and needs a lift. We will be stopping there first then ask him do you mind if she comes alongwith me to meet you? With today's issues it is better to not be alone. Additionally, if he is as great as you think he is, how would you know you are loosing out if you do not meet him? If you do not meet him, you will be haunted with the question "what if."
Good luck!
2006-11-28 14:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by lssimmail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably shouldn't do that. it wouldn't be the best idea. well, if there were certain circumstances, like if you brought a small group of both guy and girl friends with you(including a strong guy just in case) and you met him and a public place like a mall or something of that sort, then it would be far less dangerous, but he may question why you act so afraid. however, if he were too question it TOO much, he most likely had other things in mind. you can be anybody you'd like to be online, but its real life that matters so much more. best of luck to you and just remember to be safe. hopefully the guy turns out to be great!
2006-11-28 14:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Dead Barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give out any information. It's too late for the picture you sent. If you go to meet him, take friends and make it a couple's gathering in apublic place. Take a camera phone and get some shots. Have your friends gather information ( license plate number, make, model, address, ect.), incase things go unexpectedly. Have a exit plan A,B,C, Do not be allowed to be alone with him. Things may all be on the up and up. Who knows? It's a bad place out there these days and not everyone is whom they seem to be. Go with your first impressions and gut and if it tell you to run, then run. Good luck and don't take any chances.
2006-11-28 14:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by aka white knight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! He has all the signs that hes a creep. He dosent call as much, you havent seen a recent pic.? Yea it seems like hes dieing to let you know who he is. Hes probably just some creep looking for a girl to do creepy things with. Its a realllllly BAD idea.
-Do be careful. Take care.
2006-11-28 14:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have u ever watched the NEWS,Don't go and meet this guy,yeah he could be nice on the phone but you don't really know him.But if u really want to go and meet him bring a friend or family member.
2006-11-28 14:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by badbitch_baby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if it is in a VERY public place, and you have a friend or 2 go with you. If he is for real he won't mind you being cautious. If he complains, then report him to the police!!!
2006-11-28 14:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but take some one with u (just 2 meet him) just in case it goes bad
2006-11-28 14:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that's just crazy
be careful
2006-11-28 14:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋