She left me becuz of religon and duty to her family.She and i were lez partners.her parents want her to get married and they had no clue about us.They have grown old and want her to be taken care of.So she decided to get married to first guy who came and asked.Now she wants me to be around as friends.She says i am her soulmate and doesn't want to lose me..i still luv her.i feel confused i don't know what to do?Or how to treat her.Do i forget about her or continue living in between and be in pain??pls help
2006-11-28 13:54:19 · 9 answers · asked by Rayden D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FORGET HER!!! She chose someone else over you and expects you to stick around that is totally selfish!! I don't care what her excuse is you deserve to be with someone who loves you and wants to be with you no matter what! If you stick around you are only going to get hurt over and over and over. If you leave it will hurt for a while, but you will get over it!! Please don't stay please!!!
2006-11-28 14:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No don't be no stepping stone if she loved you and is your soul mate then why is she marrying someone else she doesn't love you and to marry the first person who ask her come on now do better then that if she love you then she won't marry the other man and she don't want to lose you she have already lost you cause i would go on with my life and if it is meant to be then she will come back and if not at least you didn't wait on nothing! good luck
2006-11-28 22:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by poda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just look at how you feel about the situation now and predict how you will feel if/when she has kids and is intimate with this man. It's not fair to him, you or her to continue your relationship. She has to choose. My husband did this to me by having a boyfriend on the side and it was devastating.
2006-11-28 21:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don`t be her puppet! Obviously her parents wishes are more important to her than you ever were. If you are staying around as her "friend" or sex partner or whatever else, you are just setting yourself up for MORE pain and heartache than you are already experiencing!
Leave her, cry for her and then move on with your life...she already has....
2006-11-28 21:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by Roxie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry but you need to walk away and say good bye.she went with her family's beliefs and even after they are gone she will continue to do so.even if she tells you that she loves you,and she might. that's not enough, at least it wouldn't be for me.move on. find someone that you can lay next to at night and tell all your thoughts and feelings too.
2006-11-28 22:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let her go......go on with your life. It is time for you to be happy.
2006-11-28 21:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by jjust wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the hurt will only be more devastating in the future......end it now.
2006-11-28 21:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe her husband will accept u2
2006-11-28 21:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she got tired of carpet munching and wanted dick
2006-11-28 21:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by auetim 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋