my boss want to date me, i have a boy friend but he cant give me the life that my boss could financialy, is that selfish?
2006-11-28 13:59:54 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dating your Boss could be a real bad career move. I know several women that have done it & regret it today. One of them can't stop dating bosses. She now goes from job to job & sleeps her way to financial gain. However, all she is really a Slave to these ego maniacs. If you do it, be in control 100% of the time. Now for the Boyfriend. Follow your heart. Money isn't everything. Take it from somebody who had it all. With one wrong move it's so easy to lose both love & money. I'm not sure how old your boyfriend is but money comes with time. Keep your dignity. It's worth more than all the money in the world. God Love You!
2006-11-28 14:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Brightsides 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should not date your boss. You risk your job and also your reputation in the company, not to mention the hurt to your boyfriend!
Your boyfriend may not be able to give you the life you want now, but if he is a decent guy with a stable income, I'm sure in years to come, it will be ok. There are other ways to achieve a better financial situation, such as investing in properties.
Don't mix money and love.
2006-12-01 21:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. lets look at it like this there are 3 parts to this situation 1. your dating her because you think that she will do something for you to help your work, 2. you get in a good relationship and boom you care for each other and great your in love and 3. your relationship crashes you hate each other and then your screwed. that 3rd case puts everything at risk. if your relationship crashes she will make your job a living nightmare and then your up shits creek without a paddle. so no dont date your boss she will make your job terrible and if you quite and go to another job she will put a dent on your record which will hurt your chances. so no look at other options and dating your boss will also add an awkwardness but dont risk your career and your life.
2014-12-17 06:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not date your boss, and yes that is selfish...
2006-11-28 14:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could be...well lets put it this way. If you broke up with your boss...and he was really mad at you, you could possibly loose your job.
2006-11-28 14:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by Shortii. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could be if you dont have enough money, but if you have a boyfriend then I suggest you stick with him.
2006-11-28 14:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by horse person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you f*** him, you might get a raise.
2006-11-28 14:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
2006-11-28 14:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋