Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

ok well i have a friend and over the weekend, i stayed over his house. hes 15 im 13 and he wasnt that close with me since he went away but then that day he keeped huging me that he does once in a while. but something happen earlier that we found out we really cared about each othe this big drama thing. but now im over there and we were sitting together and he put his arm around me, we stay like that a lil and then he rests his head on me. i ask him if hes tried and he saids no. and then he puts his arm around me again and i went wit it and rested my head on him i go to look up at him and he kiss's my fore head. now the only other time i have seen him do that is wit my sis that he liked for the longest time. but like he calls me his lil sis and is like ur like a lil sis to me. so like one min he will be like that then the other he will be putting his arm around me and kissing me on the fore head and huging me. what does that mean? do u think he likes me too?

2006-11-27 01:06:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is dating (only recently) a guy who seems fairly gentle but who alludes (in really hot emails) to a sadistic side and who, for example, when he kisses her pulls her head back by her hair. She says he is extremely passionate and that though she knows nothing of s&m she responds to this kind of treatment. We do not know this guy. They have not slept together. (Thank you, Lord) Should I be worried?

2006-11-27 01:06:17 · 9 answers · asked by outdone 4 in Singles & Dating

only to try and get back together after the holidays are over?

2006-11-27 01:05:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like if you are talking on the phone

2006-11-27 01:05:35 · 3 answers · asked by Sara Y 1 in Singles & Dating

i been seeing this girl for about a year anyway she went out to az i sill talking to her now people keep tellin me she been with her ex what do i do to see if she is cheating

2006-11-27 01:03:41 · 10 answers · asked by Dr.Roxas 2 in Singles & Dating

We love each other and our relationship is going well, but it is odd to me that she just lays down on her side with not intentions of hugging me or even getting close to me (except when we make love of course). She is a hardworking woman and I understand she gets exhausted when bedtime comes, but I can not understand why she does not even get close to me. How really tired do you have to be not to at least hug your loving one? I am always available to get cozy with her, but she just lays down and gets asleep in a matter of seconds. I have spoken to her about it and she says she is just tired. I feel frustrated sometimes because I feel she is being very cold to me even though and I know she loves me very much. I need help to deal with the fact that I am planning on marrying her and her cold attitude towards me. Would I be able to spend a long lasting life with her and this situation?

I would prefer ladies to answer my question.

Thank you.

2006-11-27 01:02:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that i used to always see around my way and i started talking to him but everytime i call his phone either he acts like he dont want to talk or put one of his friends on the phone to act like its him ......... so i stopped calling him for a while and we didnt speak to eachother since now he acts like he likes me now and i dont know what to do but i think about him everyday should i call him or let him come to me (but what if he tries to play me)

2006-11-27 01:01:33 · 6 answers · asked by npchick12 2 in Singles & Dating

What would u do if you lost a boy or girlfriend? Me I just lost a guy that I loved with all my heart. But know I don't even know what to do. He tried to say he loved me and everything, but if he did then why did he break my heart? Please anybody I need help. Just anybody. Can anyone help me??

2006-11-27 01:00:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am happily alone. Unfortunately, many of my friends insist that I "need" someone and that it is "wrong" not to want companionship. I don't mean just a relationship, I mean I have NO desire for even casual companionship and no interest in sex whatsoever. I'm perfectly happy in my partnerless life.

Why should it be wrong that I'm not lonely and miserable?

2006-11-27 01:00:11 · 11 answers · asked by Voodoid 7 in Singles & Dating

The other tuesday at approximately 11.38 am there was a major derailment with my trainset. Thankfully no plastic people were injured, however a section of track was dislodged and it took 3 minutes to repair. So the 11.38 am service was delayed until 11.41 am, at which time normal services resumed. The cause of the incident was a freight train, fully laden with plastic coal, which was sent the wrong way round the track as an experiment.
So would a hot lady aged 34-38 like to play doctors and nurses with me to take my mind off things?

2006-11-27 01:00:00 · 15 answers · asked by fnqbigboy 3 in Singles & Dating

Today is a very stressful day for me because I have to take my eighteen month old to see a hematologist about some bad blood test results that could possibly mean leukemia. It seems like the last few days I have been dealing with this all alone- my mother is also sick and in the hospital, my dad is busy caring for mom, and my siblings are all immature pinheads that don't care about anyone but themselves. My husband seems to be in denial about the whole thing. He's acted like nothing is wrong ever since we found out and I have just really had nobody to talk to. Last night I was so nervous about today that I couldn't stop crying and when I finally got in the bed he acted mad because I was crying and grabbed his pillow and went to sleep on the couch. I tried explaining to him that I was scared and it was hard dealing with this alone and he wouldn't even answer me. I don't know what to do. I know he loves his daughter, but it bothers me that he doesn't seem to care.

2006-11-27 00:59:18 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer F 6 in Marriage & Divorce

hey anyone know of any good sites about weddings on how 2 organise and all that for there wedding?

2006-11-27 00:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 in Weddings

I found out on Saturday (from my brother) that this girl who works at the hairdresser's I go to has a bit of a "soft spot" for me. He went to get his hair cut and, as I was leaving, my brother heard her saying that she could have "got his number then". To which the owner of the place replied something like "Go on then, he's only just gone". My brother hasn't changed his story since, so I think there might be something in it.

Anyway, I went to see her today, but she was a little busy. I decided to wait until she was free, but I didn't get the guts to go up to her and speak to her. Instead I went and (of all things) got a "Thinking of you" card. (Stupid really ain't the word here, is it?)

She is absolutely beautiful, and really sweet, but I haven't got the guts to say anything to her. I mean, I don't even know her name, for god's sake. What if he was lying? What if it wasn't me she was talking about?

Or an even better question, WHAT DO I DO? Any suggestions? Please help me.

2006-11-27 00:58:05 · 18 answers · asked by HiFi 3 in Singles & Dating

need help.. how can i tell my father about my lover??? i know if he knows about her all hell will break loose..but i have to tell him now. is there any trick to make him less angry....help me..

2006-11-27 00:57:41 · 11 answers · asked by Shajed 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked previously whether I should give money or presents to my 15 year old nephew and 13year old niece. The overwhelming majority said money. Now I have another quandry - how much should I give? What would be a reasonable (but not over generous) amount? I suppose I should also give them the same amount?

Trying to work out my Christmas budget.

2006-11-27 00:56:48 · 35 answers · asked by Bush 2 in Family

We are friends with a man and his wife - get together for beers occasionally. His wife keeps our 8 mth old about once a week-sometimes overnight (they call us and ask for her). They refer to themselves as Mamaw and Papaw to her. Any ideas for what we can get them for xmas from our daughter? One present for both or seperate gifts? We have @$50 to spend on them.

Also - we are good friends with another couple who are our neighbors. Need an idea for what to give them from us and the kids. Prefer to keep the $50 gift limit. They have kids my age and 9 grandkids I think who all live out of town. They spend a lot of time with our 6 & 9 year olds. I have ideas for her but not for him yet. They are 'young' grandparents
SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!!!

2006-11-27 00:56:18 · 5 answers · asked by Scorpio 4 in Friends

i recently went to the club on saturday and there were dosens of woman buying men drinks to much of my suprise two woman bought my budies and i drinks it was delightfuly amazeing u sually i would be buying the girls drinks i thought it was ver nice of them is it comon now a days for ladies to buy men drinks

2006-11-27 00:54:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i found out my boyfriends my space password and i saw some really bad things. like he was flirting and asking girls for "special" pics i broke up with him that night. He was on his hands and knees crying in front of his friends and familly beging for me back. I decided i would give him i chance because i loved him. He then made his OWN decision that he was going to tell EVERY girl that hes friends with that he cant be there friend because his gf dont trust him. He did all of that and then he deleted his my space and deleted all the girls out of his phone. All of his guy friends say he must really love me if hes doing all of this for me, because my bf is a hardass and dont take crap for no one and has NEVER cryed over a girl before. do you think hes in love with me if hes doing ALL of this for me?

2006-11-27 00:54:29 · 22 answers · asked by megan c 1 in Singles & Dating

my brother-n-law wanted me for the longest time he admit it when i was at my sis house and he took me ridinng and we made out and went to at least 3rd base and after that he took me home and we had sex and now he told me to keep us a secret and i am i really like him he told me that he shouldnt've got married if only he met me before her and now we mess around when she goes to work he wanted to take me to a hotel but i wanted it in his bed so should i tell cuase i love my sister but i also have deep feelings for her husband as he do me?

2006-11-27 00:53:15 · 58 answers · asked by ripmandy4ever 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love her .we are friend .she also like me but i donot know that she love me or not

2006-11-27 00:53:03 · 16 answers · asked by lover boy 1 in Friends

Any volunteers?

2006-11-27 00:52:45 · 12 answers · asked by sweetsmileX5 1 in Friends

im talking about ur character and ur personnality, and the thing that attracts people to be interested in u.

2006-11-27 00:51:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Friend blows me off when he supposed to have did me a favor and his car breaks down about 2 hours out of town. He calls me to pick him up eventhough he doesn't do what I asked him to do and he wasn't even going to call me, I was at home waiting... Would you go get him or let him rely on lhis own devices?

2006-11-27 00:50:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My hubby thinks that wearing tight jeans and peddle pushers is being a prostitute.

i love dressing this way especaiily on weekends but all he wnats me to wear are long skirts.

is this fair?

2006-11-27 00:47:43 · 26 answers · asked by Essie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Apart from the usual blindfold, handcuffs and sexy lingerie-
Any new ideas on how to make my man squirm??

We've been having a rough time, and I want to give him a night to remember!!

2006-11-27 00:46:31 · 21 answers · asked by Coley 4 in Singles & Dating

he acts shy around me but i have a feeling that he might want to have a sex with me. i really like him and i think he likes me too but if he's shy around me does that mean he wants to have a sex with me?

2006-11-27 00:46:24 · 11 answers · asked by chick on fire 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

together and I am not sure what to get him. He likes model cars but has most of them, into nascar but has to much help please someone I want this christmas to be special this year everybody will have what they want but I want to make his day with the best gift.

2006-11-27 00:46:05 · 13 answers · asked by emt_girl_50 2 in Singles & Dating

what I mean by share, is share EVERYTHING they have, share in doing household chores, out door chores, ect.
I am sick and tired of having men who refuse to help around the house, insist that I HAVE to do everything inside and out, and also wont share their income with me, nor anything in their personal lives too.
THIS to me is NOT love
BTW I am "40-something" and "been there and done that" too many times. I am waiting to have an actual REAL relationship with REAL love!

2006-11-27 00:45:16 · 10 answers · asked by flyingdove 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 00:44:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

HELP!
i m dating with my boyfirend and i love him a lot!
But sometimes he asks for sex but i dont want to although i love him very ery much! I just want to stay a virigin until i get married. But i dont want him to think that i dont like him, i love him a lot. So what sould i say? to him????
PLEASE HELP, thanks

2006-11-27 00:44:34 · 26 answers · asked by d_doris_b 1 in Singles & Dating