Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

the reason i ask, is because am unsure of what job i want to do for a living.

2006-11-27 01:48:56 · 18 answers · asked by ms attitude 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and me had a baby 8 months ago. well 4 months ago he went from a great husband to lying cheating not coming home husband. he told me he needed space and moved out. On thanksgiving he got really sick and called me and wanted me to come take care of him. then he decided he wanted me to
move back in and he wanted to make things work. finally he told me that he was cheating on me and he wont do it again because he loves me and the only person he could think about when he was sick was me. we have been married for 8 years do you guys think it is worth it to try to work things out and do you think that we can, it really hurt me and I am still trying to forgive him.

2006-11-27 01:48:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He left his wife for her. She has one child. The ex-wife sacrificed everything during the marraige, was the person responsible for the kids 89% of the time and now she wants to live a life. The kids are 5 and 9. His kids already know the new wife's kids because they all grew up together. The ex-wife wants to move two hours away to a better job and have the kids for a six days a month and alternate holidays, 6 weeks in the summer. Men do this all of th ethe time and no one complains. Why is it so terrible for a woman ( and it is usually women who give her a hard time about it.)

2006-11-27 01:48:36 · 12 answers · asked by Tanya B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and make her as happy as he can ... i love my little girl more then life itself.. i can stay married so our girl has two parents , but just let my wife go her way and will , just spend my time loving my gift from god ..my little girl

2006-11-27 01:48:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 01:48:19 · 4 answers · asked by Mz.spongebob 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 01:47:30 · 10 answers · asked by Ricardo 1 in Singles & Dating

After many years of emotionally abusive and dysfunctional family behavior, after a final explosion that involved father saying he would sue for visitation of grandchildren he did not even know and so on and so on, he walked away. Now, he is thinking he should go back (just because they are his parents) and he wants me to be supportive. I have done this over and over and just cannot do it again.

I know if I say "Just go without me and leave me out of it" he will, but eventually I will be dragged into it and I know that once again his parents will come between us.

My question is this....Should I fight for us, to be together with just us, or should I say go ahead and be with them even though I know it will be the end of our marriage ?

I am so torn up over this I dont know what to do. We tried counseling, but he does not like going, and now we cant afford it.

Please help...Thank you

2006-11-27 01:47:22 · 5 answers · asked by WUDDALIFE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i recenetly left my husband because we were having problems with fighting 3 weeks out of 4 and with my failure to adjust to being a stay at home mom and having no money of my own to spend. i mean, i hate begging him for money for things as small as cigarettes. i hate having to wait for him to come home just so we can go to the store to get dinner. he never left money in the house and he kept it all on his atm and credit cards.we would get into fights like the last one. it was about me opening a letter that came in the mail. i didn't even mean to cuz i was watching tv and talking to my child whose 4 and needs attention when she wants it. i came to my mom's house but now my 11 year old son and my daughter and myself are living in 1 bedroom and dealing with my sister and her 3 kids and my dad who is on drugs real bad. i want to go home but i don't want to return to the same situation. he calls me names when he gets mad and gets real stupid when he's upset. i feel like i'm going crazy.

2006-11-27 01:46:21 · 6 answers · asked by BABY GIRL 2 in Family

well my bf for 3 yrs now and our living together well he treats me really nicely I can't complain but the heart of the matter is that I think he is losing interest in us. He now communicates much with our mutual friend and I read in his message to her that he cant wait for her nice lips. What the **** is going on? He says everytthing is ok am not to worry about anything but he's always writing to her almost everyday I love you Babie. Why is this happening? We've been happy till now am getting into depression please help me out.

2006-11-27 01:45:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is a girl in my church that i really like. This morning we finally did a little bit of talking. she was getting the kids ready for a program that we are having at church In a little room. i asked her if i could come in and she said yes. She told me that that's her first time seeing me talk. I ALSO NOTICED THAT SHE WAS A LITTLE SHY IN FRONT OF ME. SHE WAS RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME IN THE ROOM. AFTER A WHILE SHE MOVED in the corner next to me where I could'nt see her. when we got out she told me that she liked a car that i have. and started talking about what kinda car she wanna get after she graduates from highschool. while we where at church someone brought her senior pictures and she came to me asking me if she looks pretty in the pictures. The interesting part!! when we where getting ready to leave she asked me used my phone and called her mom to tell her that she has a ride home. She asked me if i could take her home. and i took her home. What can i do next? i only see herinchurch?

2006-11-27 01:45:12 · 8 answers · asked by Superman 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive recently split up with my g/f after a 4 year relationship and a child that is now 8 months old.

I was horrible to her, meaning I was selfish, unloving, moody all of the time and very off hand. One minute im ok and in a good mood the next im horrible and in a terrible mood.

I never changed before and didnt realise what i had until it all disappeared.

I personaly think my problems could be due to the way i was brought up, as i seen lots of violence and abuse in my younger years and i always had to think of myself and look after myself as most of the time there was no one else to do things for me. I left home at the age of 15, maybe this is why i am so selfish and find it hard to show love, as ive never been shown any different.

I recently asked to be reffered to a Phsychaiatrist so i can get some professional help wich i am now waiting on for an appointment. Im really putting in the effort and ive admited ive got a problem, How do i get her to love me again or will i ever

2006-11-27 01:44:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 01:44:30 · 16 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing a guy 4 afew weeks then he dumped me by txt. i dont understand why. We first met each other through my best friend she was tryin 2 fix me up with her boyfriends cousin and he happened 2 b there, i saw him afew times but didnt think of him in a boyfriend way cus he was older than me alot older.But we got 2getha and i realy liked him, we was only 2getha 4 awhile then introduced me 2 his family i thought we must of been serious but on bonfire nite i brung him 2 meet afew friends and watch sum fireworks but it didnt go so well, my friends acted like kids and it must made him feel uncomfortable cus hes 30 not 17.Then the day after i didnt see him and he sent me a txt sayin we werent getin on and hes tried 2 make it beta but he cant its not workin why did he do it was it me? Afew days lata he txt me 2 c how i was when i txt bk he said he was glad i replied. i realy care 4 him but i dont no wot 2 do.

2006-11-27 01:44:25 · 16 answers · asked by victoria w 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife's mother is pressuring her into getting a post nuptial aggreement (her father was killed in a car accident and she is getting a trust fund) and I don't want to sign it. My mother in law has even said that she won't speak to me and my wife is very sad and depressed. I have told my wife that although I feel sorry she is in a bad situation I am not going to sign this agreement - (whatever trustfund money she puts into our house she gets back) but I want our marriage based on trust not papers. I have told her and her mother I don't want her money - I married her because I loved her not her money and I even told my wife that I will sign divorce papers before I sign a post nuptial agreement. My wife said that it wouldn't matter who she was married to - it's nothing personal and it's not even the amount of money.. it's where it's coming from... that this is the last thing her father can give her... I guess my question is - am I wrong??

2006-11-27 01:43:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was with my boyfriend for 3 months we broke up 2 weeks ago because i needed money to rent a new place and he was going to move in,. he told me he didnt have it but really didnt give me a reason so i broke up with him. that day i started to look for a smaller place that i could affort my self in the search i met this 28 year old contractor who was fixing the place i was looking at , we started to talk i told him i was intrested in the place if he can call the owner to discuss rent and price, this guy told me to give him my # he will call me back with all the info. Next day he call me and ask me if i like the place i told him it was fine and he said it was mine i ask him what he mean and he said it will come out the work he did for the house and i didnt have to pay any rent for the next 3 months and after it will only be 500.00 is an entire house with 3 rooms i couldnt believe it, he invite me out to dinner and of course i accept he is a great guy. wait theres more .....

2006-11-27 01:42:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im very softspoken,witty,confident and caring,we are four. i have 2 elder brothers and 1 younger sister.all are engineers.im first person to get marry.im very serious about that.

2006-11-27 01:42:15 · 21 answers · asked by afrin g 1 in Weddings

ok i told rebeca to come to the club on saturday with my budy nate and i , and she said she would be there i saw her at the club we danced for a while her friend bought us drinks i went back to her roomates place she came with us we had a couple of drinking games we played and i cuddeld with her on her couch

that night her friend said to me i think she feels u more than u know and i was like i dont think so

2006-11-27 01:41:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 01:40:24 · 7 answers · asked by mstngsally26 1 in Singles & Dating

she lives about 250 miles away from me.. Last year i sent her a nice sweater from macys.. what should i sent her this year?
Please under 100$.. lol

2006-11-27 01:39:57 · 8 answers · asked by Tazzzy 1 in Singles & Dating

okay i had a dream that my boyfriend cheatted on me and when i woke up i was crying, i called him and told him my dream and he started to cry with me saying that me crying is making him cry and that he would never cheat on me or do something that stupid cuz i mean the world to him and that i was his everything he told me to be carefull at school today he said he had a bad feeling but i don't know why....we don't go to the same schools because he goes to A.L.C and i go to a charder school called AFSA and he doesn't know anyone from my school befcause afsa only has 250 kids 9-12 but yea he's always at my house so i know he's not cheating he barely goes home i think i had that dream only because i was so used to him being at my house that when he went home my dream hit me good............so does this dream mean anything?.....

2006-11-27 01:39:11 · 11 answers · asked by xoxo_racer_chick_xoxo 1 in Singles & Dating

all i want to do is talk to her and hear her voice but she wont answer her cell phone that i bought for her. how do i go about being able to talk to her?

2006-11-27 01:38:49 · 2 answers · asked by Josh B 1 in Singles & Dating

What I mean is it's not fair for one to have a pleasure in sex and not the other cause then whats the use in having sex if you can't enjoy it..? And how do you show a guy what spots to pleasure without making him feel bad..?

2006-11-27 01:37:36 · 6 answers · asked by jjones_3279 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do women who file for a divorce feel any sympathy for their ex-husband for having to take on all the financial burden and mess, when they (women) get away with the loot?

I wonder why the law isn't fair to the men in this world of equality.

2006-11-27 01:36:46 · 19 answers · asked by catcher 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I received a text message from an unknown number a few weeks ago reading, 'Hi handsome this is my new number, how are ya.' I wondered who it was so I text back and got a reply. The girl says that she got the wrong number and was trying to text her friend Daniel.

To cut a long story short, we've been talking for a while now - via text and the phone. She sounds gorgeous but everytime I ask if she wants to meet up she makes some sort of excuse.

What is going on? Is she just winding me, not who she says she is or what?

This is really puzzling me. Should I stop talking to her?

What would you do in my shoes?

2006-11-27 01:36:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...he has become a bum so i am tempted to put him into a maids outfit to teach him a lesson and then to start pulling his weight more. What things have other people done to get their men to help out more?

2006-11-27 01:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by flossy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is there any1 that can tell me y guys only think about sex, food, beer, and money?

2006-11-27 01:35:00 · 4 answers · asked by sassysammy92 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 01:34:11 · 13 answers · asked by mikeydzr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well me and my girlfriend had broken up about 2 months ago.We had been together for 2 years i had a bit of a temper problem and i said some bad things to her and her best friend. That i now regret and i guess that was the last string for her and our relationship because she broke up with me and said she just wants to be friends. And she said one day we might get back together if things go right but thats no guarantee. I still love her and she says she still love me. We still talk and hang out and recently her apartment caught on fire and i offer her to stay with me until she gets her new apartments, i still care for her no matter what people like my mother and her mother tell me. Im still going to be here for her and her son which isnt mine(because she was pregnant when we got together real father not in her life) So what im trying to say is if i continue to be good to her and show her that i can and will change will she one day want to get back together.

2006-11-27 01:34:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wish to meet my life mate soon as my parents want me to get married soon. i am very eager to meet that special person soon.

2006-11-27 01:33:03 · 14 answers · asked by paromita d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What could some reasons be for that?

2006-11-27 01:32:31 · 8 answers · asked by Pooper 1 in Other - Family & Relationships