well my bf for 3 yrs now and our living together well he treats me really nicely I can't complain but the heart of the matter is that I think he is losing interest in us. He now communicates much with our mutual friend and I read in his message to her that he cant wait for her nice lips. What the **** is going on? He says everytthing is ok am not to worry about anything but he's always writing to her almost everyday I love you Babie. Why is this happening? We've been happy till now am getting into depression please help me out.
2006-11-27 01:45:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you've got reason to worry but i think you should let him explain first because if and when you make a decision now it is not the right one, you might regret it for the rest of your life and lose something you've worked at for that long, so just cool down and let him be the one to worry, Gerald. S.A good luck
2006-11-27 01:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding?? Seriously the answer is in front of your face. He obviously is up to no good. Whether they have done something behind your back or not, no conversation with a friend should involve, " I can't wait for your nice lips." & " I love you Babie." Don't pull the wool over your own eyes!!! Even if they have not done anything together, they don't respect you. Get rid of both of them. People treat you the way you let them treat you. Get the love and respect you deserve (somewhere else)
2006-11-27 09:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by LSSY724 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isnt already then he is about to cheat on you. Sorry to say it but its true. If he respected you and your relationship he definately would not be writing those types of messages to another woman. Confront both of them at the same time, shes just as guilty as he is cause she hasnt said a freakin thing about it to you.
2006-11-27 09:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think he's lost interest and that something fishy is going on then you need to confront him.
don't start a fight, just have a conversation; that way you save face and he can't blame the break up on you.
if you're wrong though and he still wants to be in a relationship with you; you still need to figure out what's going on with this "friend".
good luck.
2006-11-27 09:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow he has a g/f besides you, how nice for him....
Mistake is having this mutual friend around. When a couple are together the same sex friend is off limits...lessons are learned the hard way....
2006-11-27 09:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I don't think you are over reacting, I feel you have a pretty good reason to be worried about this! Try talking to him, if that doesnt help then maybe it's time to let him go!
2006-11-27 09:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by jennytkd13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really suspect something is going on with the other women, then it is time to get out of the relationship. It's hard to live with someone you don't trust.
2006-11-27 09:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by tootsie1115 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you love him....and since you've been together for so long...it's very hard to know what to do....no matter how strong your love is for this man...you do not deserve to be treated this way. You are a beautiful woman...who deserves much more.
2006-11-27 09:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your man is looking for some booty from some other girl. He should not be writing those things to another girl if he claims to truly love you. Stand up for yourself and Good Luck girl!
2006-11-27 09:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by busybeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is saying i love u baby??? what do u think he is suppose to say to just that he loves u NO ONE eluse. show him the message and what he is going to say. if he is cheating on u, leave his *** alone he is a dam *** u are better then that girl move on. there are a lot of fish in the water. good luck
2006-11-27 09:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by sweet84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋