What I mean is it's not fair for one to have a pleasure in sex and not the other cause then whats the use in having sex if you can't enjoy it..? And how do you show a guy what spots to pleasure without making him feel bad..?
2006-11-27 01:37:36 · 6 answers · asked by jjones_3279 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Here's what you both need to do...
YOU need to totally concentrate on HIS pleasure. Don't worry about your own. HE needs to totally concentrate on YOUR pleasure and not worry about his own. If BOTH of you will do that, your sex will be out of this world. And don't worry about hurting his feelings. If there's something special that you like, tell him how much you LOVE it when he does that.
2006-11-27 02:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is NOT fair for a man to use your body for his own sexual gratification and not to be concerned about your pleasure. Why would you want to give your body to someone that does not care about you? If you truly love this man, and really want to be with him, tell him he isn't pleasing you. Tell him to give you oral sex, telling him foreplay isn't lasting long enough. Tell him to try different positions...tell him to stimulate you with his fingers or his mouth.
2006-11-27 09:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you want. And how if not doing things right. You can always make things difficult for him so that it is not good till you get what you want. If it does not get better may need to find someone that cares enough for you to make you happy.
2006-11-27 09:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy wont feel bad. Most men want to know where your spots are..
2006-11-27 09:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by mike r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be honest with him and give him the suggestions. It should be pleasurable for you both, and if he truly wants to please you, then he won't mind.
Just pose it as a suggestion if you're really worried about his feelings. "Lets try this."etc
2006-11-27 09:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by nowayman72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so unfair!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just tell him what you like best.
2006-11-27 11:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋