Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

My friend has been dating this guy for about 7yrs now. During that time, he's been cheating on her w/a girl from his job, (3yrs now) and my friend wont leave him alone. He's done so many nasty & hurtful things to her, yet she's still w/him. As a friend, I try to be there for her and listen, but I wish that she would just move on w/her life. What can I tell her?

2006-11-27 02:03:50 · 9 answers · asked by BEAUTIFUL 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 02:03:47 · 9 answers · asked by big mama 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to get back at my brother, who is 1 year younger than me. I am 16 years old. He owed me $10 in cash, like promised... and he tried to pay me with quarters, dimes, and nickels. I said I am not accepting it, and took his hat and he took my phone. We got into a fight, and I got my phone back and he got his hat back.

The point is, I got hurt in the fight more than he did because he went straight for my ear, which was later bleeding.

I want to get him back, revenge is sweet... and I wanna get him back GOOD! So tell me what you would do???

2006-11-27 02:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-27 02:03:34 · 13 answers · asked by egypt_king_2000 3 in Singles & Dating

Alot of people have asked this question but none of them related to me. I struggled in Highschool and I am now a Sophmore attending a Community College. My grandparents paid for mine and my brothers and cousins college. Everyone has dropped out and wasted their educations.

I moved in with a boy and last semester it really helped me do better. My GPA is very low but I managed to raise it last semester from a 2.1 to a 2.5, which seemed like a good start. I lost my job and my relationship is going down the tubes. I have dropped alot of classes but from what people tell me dropping alot of classes is the same thing as failing them (just with out the grade impact), because people will see the number of classes I dropped.

I have lost all motivation to do anything, im out of steam. If I got a job it would REALLY boost my determination but I live in Michigan and well, it's virtually impossible to work anywhere.

I made a bad choice, moving out on my own. Im stuck...

2006-11-27 02:03:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

From your own experinces and from what you seen and heard

2006-11-27 02:03:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,
I (18) was together with her (17) for more than 13 months.
But she left me because we live to far away from each other (150km).
So we saw each other only during te weekends. For her it was not enough so she broke up. She said she couldn't live like that.
she still loves me and i still love her, very frustrating. (We were together for 13 months and 13 days)
So, what can I do to get her back? to convince her that life is better together?
Should I keep seeing her? Or should I break every contact so she will notice wat she misses?
Please give any advice you have..
Thanks.

2006-11-27 02:01:18 · 24 answers · asked by Ruben E 1 in Singles & Dating

When I am in ready for a serious relationship I can't find a decent guy who is also ready for one, and then when all I want to do is be single and play the field I am beating them off with a stick?!!??

I am not trying to toot my own horn but I am an attractive, successful, fun, smart, outgoing woman who if I may say so myself is a wonderful girlfriend to have. People tell me all the time that I am a great catch.

How can I break this cycle?

2006-11-27 02:00:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I traced it to the middle ages, seems that's when Chicks became more and more psycho. Here's my research.

http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-Nr4iWwE.f6MWSl0AAmWri2pV9rCIp6CCpNR3?p=30

2006-11-27 01:59:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey do all girls like hugs and cuddles? And do guys like it when your girlfriend is all over you? Mine isn't,i wish she were but as my past question shows she has problems.bless her.

2006-11-27 01:59:16 · 14 answers · asked by Tom D 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I do not get along with his ex-wife, and there are 2 kids, and we have 50/50 custody of them, so we are forced to deal with her a lot more than wanted. People have suggested a moderator?, mediator? since no one can ever talk decent to one another. How does this work, cost? Does this mean they counsel us, or are the middle man, so that we never have to talk to her?

2006-11-27 01:58:56 · 5 answers · asked by squirt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

girlfriend? I have always wondered this and know that asking the question face to face is probably not going to produce an honest answer, especially if the answer is yes. So could all you men out there please tell me the real deal on this question? Thanks!

2006-11-27 01:58:12 · 14 answers · asked by txcowgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't know if this is true or not but I happen to know someone who's like that and she's been single for a long, long time...And when I look at other people I know and who are in a relationship; they possess none of that.

Do you think there may be some truth to what I stated above?

thanx...

2006-11-27 01:57:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do I do?

2006-11-27 01:57:39 · 6 answers · asked by me 1 in Family

Ok my bf wants this expensive phone for x-mass and I told him I will get that phone for him, however the last 3 to 4 days I went to the store they didn’t had it, so I went in on black Friday and they had 3 of them left, so I ask the guys how much it was and it was about 500 for just the phone by it self, I mean I love him so much but I don’t have 500 that I can just lose on a phone, so I call him at work and I told him how much the phone was and I told him they only have 3 left and they wont not get anymore in until after x-mass and I told him I will give him 300 and he can pay the rest of it him self , and he was suppose to buy me something for x-mass also and I start telling him how I never gotten any gift form him and I was compiling, so I give him the money and, and that night he came to my job and I was asking him were his phone was so I can see it and he keep saying I don’t have any phone so he takes out and shows me this ring and he said the phone is too expensive and I fell guilty that I never bought u anything and I just want to get u this ring it cost about 300. I mean it is my money and he acted like he paid for it, I mean I didn’t say anything I just said u shouldn’t have to and I cant take the ring back. And I my suppose to give him something for x-mass

2006-11-27 01:56:38 · 15 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 01:56:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-27 01:55:30 · 12 answers · asked by Sabrina 3 in Friends

please help , had a nightmare weekend .... my wife`s freind come round for a drink , but after to many they started to gang up on me ... so i said if you both feel that way get you cloths off and i will sort you both out ... any way to my amazement they both come back in sexy underwear .. so i did what any bloke would do . but this bit is the problem , 1/2 way through my wife walked out .. i did go after her and she said everything was ok so i went back to her freind any way after 20 mins my wife never come back and went to bed ..the next day my wife said she wants me out the house and im a pig . we are meeting tonight to talk ... who is right or wrong on this one , i thought she wanted this to happen ???? i would have not crossed the line but she forced this woman on me and watched her with me .. i am confused

2006-11-27 01:54:47 · 31 answers · asked by mrqprfc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I Have been seeing this guy for over a month now. He has met my son and we spend a lot of time together. Its been great. My recent past relationships have been terrible.. and i know that i am extreamly hesitant. We have not put a title on this "dating" so im assuming both of us are free to date others but i know that i dont want to and he said that he doesnt want to either. When we are together his pocketpc is constantly going off, there is always girls leaving messages on his myspace and he of course comments back. I dont think i can set myself up to be hurt again. how do i bring this up to him to end things, or do i just go at it as if none of this bothers me?

2006-11-27 01:54:41 · 5 answers · asked by trikkikitty 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it right if your guy is too emotional? or is it ok? let me know please!!

2006-11-27 01:54:29 · 14 answers · asked by Gymnasticscrazy08 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married before and my soon-to-be husband has not... he doesn't want a big wedding and niether do I. We have decide to get married at the court house therefore saving our money for a honeymoon. We have lived together for some time so we have everything we need. The big question is .... when we send out our wedding annoucements is it okay to say we have everything that we need but money would be appreciated for our honeymoon????

2006-11-27 01:54:12 · 22 answers · asked by kh 1 in Weddings

we are pretty good friends and havent had problems like this before

2006-11-27 01:53:48 · 3 answers · asked by klandard 1 in Singles & Dating

I've something to knw about gals in general n so i think a survey wud be the best option. Well my question is how much comfortable do u gals feel getting naked or being without clothes...completely or partially in front of other gals, cousins, elder relatives or may be parents!!! ....not ur bf or husband mind it

Plz reply with ur country ...it wud be better

2006-11-27 01:53:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a divorced 33 yr old man who is looking for a LTR. One of my past GF who was a friend prior to that, told me that I am one of the greatest guys who knows and showed me all of my strong points. In her opinion I need to find a woman who is at my level and not settle (hence my divorce).

When I look at a woman to see if I like her I not only look at her exterior I look at everything. Class, Charm, Intelligence, Drive, Determination, Family Values, Religion, Independence, Goals, Pashions, Social Skills, Dreams, Desires and many more things. Overall I want a woman who is my equal and we co-exist on many levels.

Most women I have found do not have it together enough to give me that wow! feeling. There was one but she did not seem into me cause of her work and family. Now I do not care if she is a size 4 or 10 but I do want someone who is active. I would rather have a woman who weights 20 pounds more and is active then skinny and lazy.

So, I ask....am I too picky?

2006-11-27 01:52:33 · 11 answers · asked by rainman 1 in Singles & Dating

I am ashamed to please my own body... Is this normal and how do I get over it..? I would like to learn my spots so I can let my husband know the spots that please me but I feel dirty playing with my self how do I change this..?

2006-11-27 01:52:05 · 29 answers · asked by jjones_3279 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She has been sick for a while and I was wondering if this will make her think that I like her more then a friend She is 16 I am 17

2006-11-27 01:50:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 01:50:38 · 5 answers · asked by Sparkle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 01:50:31 · 5 answers · asked by || SMI || 3 in Singles & Dating

looking for someone who is real

2006-11-27 01:50:04 · 2 answers · asked by Tara G 2 in Singles & Dating

I like a guy in the grade above me, only I skipped a grade. And He failed twice and skipped once. That means I'm not 2 years younger but 3. Is that too big?

2006-11-27 01:49:16 · 13 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating