I Have been seeing this guy for over a month now. He has met my son and we spend a lot of time together. Its been great. My recent past relationships have been terrible.. and i know that i am extreamly hesitant. We have not put a title on this "dating" so im assuming both of us are free to date others but i know that i dont want to and he said that he doesnt want to either. When we are together his pocketpc is constantly going off, there is always girls leaving messages on his myspace and he of course comments back. I dont think i can set myself up to be hurt again. how do i bring this up to him to end things, or do i just go at it as if none of this bothers me?
2006-11-27 01:54:41 · 5 answers · asked by trikkikitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just chill. Time will tell, but in the meantime, don't be afraid to develop the relationship a little further. Who knows, maybe when he sees you are serious his little pocketpc will stop ringing once and for all. The myspace thing is just a silly distraction - not a real threat. The point is, you cannot live in fear of hurt like this. We all have to take chances - that is what it is to be human. Give him a chance and see what happens.
2006-11-27 02:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First take a step back and take a deep breath.We have all been where you are right now this is what i want you to do.Say to yourself he is not.....(name of ex).Now the first thing I noticed is how strong you are you realize you aren't comfortable with whats going on and your debating on what to do.First talk to him see where he's at,but listen to his actions as well.If he is sincere about you and your son he will not want to hurt either of you.As far as not "dating" if your having sex w/ him and there are feelings involved stop now until you figure out what is going on.B/c sex only creates a bigger bond and causes more confusion to the situation.If these girls were friends of his before he met you they will only resent ya and make things harder on you if start gettin psycho.So ask to meet them and make them your allies.If he won't let you or keeps makin excuses CUT HIM LOOSE!! B/c that will be the one he's messin w/.. I can't say it any plainer.You can always email me if you need to talk hoope this helped
2006-11-27 10:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by gr8mom82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to do either tell him what u just told us. tell him i know we dont have a title on us dating and u said u dint want o be with any body else and i dont either i mean we both are grown so lets not play childish games.. i think u all ready know that my last reklationship didnt go to wel and im not going to set myself up to have nothing like that agian so i gone to tell you. I dont like it when im with you your phone always blowing up with females and your myspace has hell of gurl comments so that might be inapropeit. But if you want to have many of women dont let me get in the way keep your game up jus t dont let it envovle me. Dont have me tag along with you and thats not what you want tell me what you want
2006-11-27 10:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he will not cancel his MySpace account even if you 2 are a couple, men don't think like women and he won't understand why that bothers you. If you don't like it now and you not official yet you will definately hate it when you are. Be careful and good luck
2006-11-27 09:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him exactly how you feel and let him that you can't have another heart break just be honest
2006-11-27 10:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋