Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

I don't like it, but I am VERY shallow. I judge everyone on looks, I only go out with really hot girls, and I only hang out iwth really good looking people. I am shallow, and my girlfriend, who is a model, thinks I am really bad. It's just everything reflects on you, who you hang out with reflects on you, who you go out with reflects on you .... does anyone think being shallow is really bad? I can't seem to change my ways

2006-11-27 02:40:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u think its over if its been a month since we've spoken n 3 mnthz since we broke up? frank answerz plz

2006-11-27 02:40:51 · 10 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Singles & Dating

do u enjoy when the mamary glands being massaged and kissed. Wat is the best would U like done. ???

2006-11-27 02:39:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you handle a situation where you husband brother's finace is threaten by you. we both have a boys age 2 hers was born before my son i cant handle it anymore i have been in the family for 11 years and she has been in the family for 3 At family functions i feel as though she picks on my son constanting watching his every move she says that he runs a muck and then when she doesnt go to a party she asks if my son ran a muck. is she out of line or am i over reacting as soon as my son is near hers she panics she is so uptight my son can't even hug hers without her telling him not to she is ok when it is just us to a certain degree but in front of one particular cousin who i was once close to and now she is they act different compared to when i am with them when they are by themselves tell me what do you think and what do you do when you can clearly see the lengths she is going to to exclude you make you feel unwelcome says nasty coments towards my son and is competative

2006-11-27 02:37:04 · 24 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family

Ok i was partying with my friends and was Messin around with my other friend in the back seat I wanna know if I could stay friends with her not GF

2006-11-27 02:37:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 02:36:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-27 02:35:46 · 35 answers · asked by Andrea D 1 in Weddings

I'll try to keep this consice :)
I'm 19 and I've been good freinds with a guy who is 41 for a while. The age gap isn't a problem for me, we get on well.
I saw him a while ago and he kissed me - we spent the evening at the pub, he kissed me and we cuddled and held hands alot. Was all very nice. Spoke about it a few days later, and he said that he didn't think there could be an 'us'. I asked him to explain, and he said he just couldn't let himself think about me in that way. Fair enough, I left it at that, thought no more of it. Went out a week or so later together, went for a coffee and a walk - he kissed me again. When we spoke about it a few days later, he said he liked me, but didn't think it was the right time for us - we are both going through a hard time. I've met a new chap - and I told him that I've got a 'date' with him soon. He was a bit funny about this, so asked him what was wrong, and he admitted that it upset him. I said to him that he either wants me or

2006-11-27 02:35:33 · 19 answers · asked by Beauty 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 20 years to an emotionally abusive moody,angry man. I have tried to hang in their for religious reasons as well as for my kids. But I am suffering from stress related health problems now and even my blood pressure is being affected. He has made numerous promises to change his ways and turn over a new leaf. He promised to stop being so self centered and make me and the kids a priority in his life. He is also a workaholic and hobbyaholic.He is non comunicative and arrogant when I bring up these issues. He has changed extremely little over the years and only temporary. He soon goes back to his old ways and I am in the throes of the same old battles again. I swear, I can't take much more of this. I try to forgive him when he apologizes and says he will do better. How or why should I keep believing him? I am literally sick and tired of being sick and tired. I want to get off this roller coaster but I can't seem to budge one way or the other to free myself from this

2006-11-27 02:35:30 · 8 answers · asked by haditforgood 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i havent told a lie in forever like 3 years and she dosnt trust me an anything she wont let me carry money any where and on anything that goes wrong in our house she blames me for it and even when i tell her that i didnt do it she blames me and i get grounded i dont know what i should do and i feel horibel

2006-11-27 02:35:02 · 7 answers · asked by t girl 2 in Family

My husband and I have been married for 5 months. We were both vigins. We are not experienced and now it is starting to become boring. I need fun ideas and positions!!!! I blow and suck but it isnt fun!

2006-11-27 02:34:49 · 28 answers · asked by Isabella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 02:34:22 · 17 answers · asked by goldeneagle 1 in Friends

they keep breaking up to go get the hot, sexy girl that they wanted.

2006-11-27 02:33:59 · 3 answers · asked by lovejesus4042 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of two months broke up wwith me last week. k well i thin i'm in love with our other friend johnnie. i dated him at the beginning of freshmen year. but things were different then. now were sophmores and the greatest friends i feel like were real close and all. but in the really good friends sorta way. we flirt a little here and there. people think were going out just by the way we act together i guess. i think i might still like him and may want to date him again . do you think it's possible?

2006-11-27 02:31:44 · 15 answers · asked by arian6391 2 in Friends

am 23 and my boyfriend is 35. we been 2gether 4 2yrs now.it never bother ed me until recently,when he started aspecting me to behave as a 35yr old. he dosen't take me out ,but still dosenot want me to go out with any of my friends. NO Male FRIENDS can call me, email or even talk to me on the streets. i dont think he luvs me, the same way i luv him.Whenever we have a fight, if i dont call him and beg hiim to talk to me he would not call me 1st.should i leave him and find somebody my own age.

2006-11-27 02:31:08 · 37 answers · asked by ms attitude 2 in Singles & Dating

The wife found out because there were notices sent for a followup. He says that nothing is wrong.

2006-11-27 02:30:41 · 19 answers · asked by Tanya B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend & I have recently gotten together, and been together for a month and a half, but now i am starting to realize that maybe we are too different for eachother. She always tells me that im too amazing and she doesn't deserve me, my friends and parents also tell me such, and the fact is that we are soo different in the way we've been raised and our interests and such, that i don't think anything will happen and that if i let her get too close to me and i end up regretting it, she might be hurt really bad and she's told me that she trusts me not to hurt her cuz all her previous bf's have. She's kind of anti-social and drinks a lot, im really social but don't have to rely on substances.

she's always been with guys who have been assholes to her so im the first that just cared about her. I don't know what i would say to her, but i also don't know whether to give it more time or that what im feeling right now is how ill feel 2 months from now too Are we too different to work??

2006-11-27 02:30:11 · 3 answers · asked by hoo b 2 in Singles & Dating

I am so confused. We've had sex and dated only a few times for the past 2 months. Because we do not live in the same city, it's either him coming to me or me going to see him. And we are both in school and it makes it even harder for us to see each other because all the busy schedules. But we both made the effort to see each other. We haven't had the talk yet and he did not ask me to be his girlfriend yet. But from what we've been talking to each other, it seems like he does want a some kind of long term relationship. Does he already take me as his girlfriend already or he is just hooking up with me? And he doesn't call me that often during the week. I really want to ask him what's going on between us and don't know how? please help...

2006-11-27 02:29:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for example u havent did nothing to that person but that person want to manage to fight u for no reason.

2006-11-27 02:29:34 · 12 answers · asked by Pretty ricky baby gurl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

has anyone ever been tormented by someone for being gay?
my brother throws things at me all the time for being gayish persuaion....... i hate it....its not just him either...... my grandma also she says its an abombanation to jesus
but jesus loves me still right?
i wouldnt have created me this way to hate me right?
cuz i love him
with everything i have!

2006-11-27 02:29:03 · 11 answers · asked by rudi trudi phoenix gordon 7 2 in Family

I had this guy I was best friends with for several years. We had so much fun together and were just alike. He was very good to me and my little girl. At the time he wanted to date each other but I didn't want to ruin the friendship and dated other people and ended up getting married so we lost contact. I thought about my friend all the time and wanted to be with him. I looked for him after me and my husband divorced but his number had changed. A few years passed and I finally found his new number yesterday. He was happy to hear from me and said he had been looking for me too the problem he got married last year and is happly married. He wants me to meet his wife and all of us to hang out and for us to keep in touch. I loved talking to him again. I'm really happy for him but i'm sad and don't know if I could hang out with him and his wife. I'm really having a hard time with this because I really love him and it's too late. How can I get over this and stay friends with him?

2006-11-27 02:28:43 · 1 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Singles & Dating

In other words, what are you most known for amongst your peers?

2006-11-27 02:27:49 · 8 answers · asked by Mitchell B 4 in Friends

2006-11-27 02:27:04 · 8 answers · asked by sacred_90 2 in Singles & Dating

everytime i go round to hers she shouts "hot,sticky,buns!!"at me.Last night we where at our local bingo hall and she got a line and instead of shouting house she shouted "hot,sticky buns!!"I dont know what she means by this but she kind of slavers quite a bit when shes saying it......should i dump her and find someone else to go out with?Do you think shes trying to tell me something?

2006-11-27 02:26:42 · 27 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Friends

Some friends of mine were legally divorced 3 months ago. Apparently the woman decided she wanted more of the stuff that she left at the house Saturday night and BROKE IN to his house, broke two windows and took the Kirby Vaccum, a digital camera, a tape recorder , and the wiring to the VCR, DVD Player and TV, and a bunch of his cloths, and all of his bills and house payment book. He is pressing charges today, but... I am wondering if she will be charged with Breaking & Entry, Theft, Criminal Mischief, or what? Since the divorce was final, isn't it just as bad as stealing fron a stranger? He has her admitting she broke in and stole the stuff. How much trouble is she is in?

2006-11-27 02:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by Night Train 2 in Marriage & Divorce

but now we are far apart due to college studies.
and wen ever she s right back to her home she will make a call to me first to inform me.
and we will arrange for meeting both... but we stay silent wen ever we meet...

2006-11-27 02:25:46 · 13 answers · asked by Vino_chweet barbe 1 in Singles & Dating

what are some of your favorite "positions" or roleplays to keep your love life active with your husband??

2006-11-27 02:23:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i gave this guy a letter and he wont write back.... is he scared. nad once a guy knows you like him he starts ignoring you why?

2006-11-27 02:22:50 · 9 answers · asked by pretty_dotz2010 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands need to keep trying to reconcile with his parents and needing their approval is ruining our marriage.

Yet, I do not seem to need this from my parents. Is it because I have had it from time to time (approval or pat on the back) ? I feel it is because I am my own person and if they approve of my lifestyyle or not, this is who I am. Take me or leave me.

Could this be because I had a more positive environment growing up or is this just my personality. trying to gain some insight into this...

Thanks.....

2006-11-27 02:22:12 · 17 answers · asked by WUDDALIFE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I asked the boy I like out on myspace, but he said, "Somthing must be wrong with myspace, because I can't read your mail."
So later, I asked him on AIM, and he said, "Somthing must be wrong because I can't read your messages."
THEN, this morning, I asked him on the bus, and he said he couldn't hear me, so I asked him again and he kept saying, "What? Sorry I can't hear you!"
I'm so sick of everything messing up whenever I try to ask him out. I know he likes me because he always looks at me and stares me all the time, and he flirts with me because he was throwing paper at me while we were on the bus in a flirty way. And he commented one of my pictures on myspace and he said it was a good picture. I know he likes me, just every time I ask him out somthing goes wrong.

How should I ask him out???? I will keep trying on the computer, and I'm to nervos to get him alone and ask him, only on the bus that one time. So what should I do?

2006-11-27 02:22:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating