The wife found out because there were notices sent for a followup. He says that nothing is wrong.
2006-11-27 02:30:41 · 19 answers · asked by Tanya B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it were me I'd tell him that if it really isnt any big deal then Im sure he wouldn't mind me tagging along on his follow-up visit!
2006-11-27 02:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He can't pee. Why should he tell his wife about it? Why is it that you go to the doctor like an urologist that the man is doing something wrong. He may had decided not to say any thing to keep his wife from Waring until he found out for sure what was going on.
2006-11-27 10:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by ranchforman57 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just wanted to say that I agree with most of the answers given, but as far as Tatiyvonn's answer, you cannot call the Urologist and find out what your husband went there for. You probably know that it is against HIPAA regulations. They absolutely will not give out that information. Possibly, if you have Power of Attorney, you can find out, otherwise, NO.
2006-11-27 10:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by cola 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh God, Do you know what mean "Private" for men the situation to visit an urologist is very embarasing for them.
Sorry but I don not ask all the time to my husband werer why or what, for my is stupid, because if he want me to know he will tell in before or after he went.
Woman has to learn to respect the sapce, we like men to respect our space and private thing.
My husband knows that I dont ask, I dont care, but I know before Days end he always said where he was always.
I hate pushing womans, so insecure from them self.
2006-11-27 10:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by FallenAngel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't call the Doctor even if you are his wife. It's confidential. He is obviously hiding something. Do men see a urologist for STD's? Would he tell you if he has prostate cancer? You're just going to have to be patient until he's ready to tell you. If he doesn't explain to you soon I know that if it was my husband I'd be bugging the s**t out of him until he told me.
2006-11-27 10:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He must be embarrased about something. I think they must have issues that are more important than her not knowing why he didnt tell her he was seeing a urologist. Mabye he cheats and got an STD. Mabye he just inst open with her like that. Mabye something seems wrong and he doesnt want to worry her. I would hate to find out my husband didnt share something like that with me. I think if you are married you should share the good and the bad.
2006-11-27 10:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't jump to conclusions!
Relative of mine had spots on their penis, thought maybe they had some kind of funky disease.
Found out they were blood clots.
Kept it from wife.
Find out they have cancer, caused the clots!!
If the wife really wants to know,confront him, if he lies, tell him if he doesn't fess up he won't need a urologist!!!! Yeah!
Oh yeah, forgot to ask, does she tell him everytime she goes to the gyne? I personally don't like to discuss what goes on in there!!!
2006-11-27 10:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He had a drip he didn't want you to know about. There probably is nothing wrong, just an infection. He may not have told you because he didn't want to be accused of infidelity, and figured he could take care of it without stressing you out.
2006-11-27 10:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please excuse me but, do you tell him every time you go to the GYN. How about each time you get a mammogram. Some visits a personal and can to stay that way.
BTW you DO NOT need the spouse's permission for a vasectomy. They do suggest that you consult your spouse but it is not a requirement.
2006-11-27 10:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes looking into getting fixed, penal enlargement, or just a check up of some sort. Is it crooked, if so maybe hes getting thing staightened out.
2006-11-27 10:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be seeing him to make sure nothing is wrong physically with him so he can get some Viagra.
2006-11-27 10:47:13 · answer #11 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋