Too different?

Question

My girlfriend & I have recently gotten together, and been together for a month and a half, but now i am starting to realize that maybe we are too different for eachother. She always tells me that im too amazing and she doesn't deserve me, my friends and parents also tell me such, and the fact is that we are soo different in the way we've been raised and our interests and such, that i don't think anything will happen and that if i let her get too close to me and i end up regretting it, she might be hurt really bad and she's told me that she trusts me not to hurt her cuz all her previous bf's have. She's kind of anti-social and drinks a lot, im really social but don't have to rely on substances.

she's always been with guys who have been assholes to her so im the first that just cared about her. I don't know what i would say to her, but i also don't know whether to give it more time or that what im feeling right now is how ill feel 2 months from now too Are we too different to work??

Answer 1

you've only invested a month and a half of your life to this girl and you are on yahoo looking for advice?? Get rid of her now before it becomes and even bigger issue later. having doubts this early on is NOT a good thing.

Answer 2

If you really feel like you are too different for each other and it has only been a month you should probably think about ending it. The first few months is when everything is great in a relationship if you are already having doubts its probably not right for you. Better to end it now than later.

Answer 3

I believe that you must have seen some virtues in her before establishing a relationship with her. Also, as you've rightly echoed her mind: this is the first time she's receiving a true and sincere love from a guy. Now, let me ask you; who do you want to please and satisfy or make happy - your gurlfriend or the other people? The choice is yours, but I think you need to think well before you allow people to push you into taking a wrong step.