my boyfriend of two months broke up wwith me last week. k well i thin i'm in love with our other friend johnnie. i dated him at the beginning of freshmen year. but things were different then. now were sophmores and the greatest friends i feel like were real close and all. but in the really good friends sorta way. we flirt a little here and there. people think were going out just by the way we act together i guess. i think i might still like him and may want to date him again . do you think it's possible?
2006-11-27 02:31:44 · 15 answers · asked by arian6391 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-11-27 02:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing you have to do is to try and casually bring it up and see if there is any interest on his part. Nothing is worse than being upfront about your feelings and he only wanting to be friends. It can make for an awkward situation with your friendship. If he does seem interested then I would give it a shot. There are many advantages to dating friends i.e. you already know and trust each other. There are also disadvantages i.e. possible loss of friendship if things sour. Whatever you do make sure at some point you let this individual know how you feel. I would say go for it. Good luck!
2006-11-27 02:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Christopher B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you two flirt, then why not give it a shot?
I got this poem, take a look at it if you want..
Sorry I had to tell you this
But that is how it is
I hope you'll still be there
'Cause for you I really care
I just need to tell you what has happened
That might make things change all of a sudden
It might make you mad
But, please don't make me feel bad
You have been a very special friend to me
But that is what I no longer see
Since I no longer consider you as a friend
But, try to understand that our friendship was bound to end.
For, I see you in a different way
And this is what I have to say
This is very true
Because... I've fallen in love with you
Good luck with everything, hope everything works out for the best! =D
2006-11-27 03:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by Danny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! If you truely feel that! Since you are both "Good-Friends" with each other, don't be affraid to tell Him how you feel, and ask Him how He feels about "Dating" again, since ya'll "Dated" in the near past...
Remember, be honest and patient, with His feelings. A Man knows when you Girls are serious, and when you care aboout us.
You can give Him a "Hint" about how you feel; hold His hand when you are together, when you say "Bye" give Him a "Hug" and "Peck" on His cheek... Show Him how you feel, but don't push yourself on Him....
I Bet he gets the message real fast, that way!!
Good Luck; I know it will work for you!!
2006-11-27 02:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by 1moe4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think its possible. i think he still have feelings for you as well. you should maybe sit him down to talk and tell him how you feel and tell him you think you like him a little bit more then a friend. Im sure he will understand. Maybe actually he is asking the same question to his self and just afaird to ask you or tell you becuase he thinks he might loose your friendship. I think everything will be fine tho.
2006-11-27 02:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by bananaboo517 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still flirts then he still likes you right now he probaly thinks he is stuck in the friend zone.
2006-11-27 02:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. but be careful and think do u want to risk your friendship and do u think that if u too were to give it a shot and it didnt work out would you be able to go back to where you were before!
2006-11-27 02:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by crystalsbabigirl4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was ur bf born 2 months earlier??
2006-11-27 02:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by NoD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT!!! If you like eachother then it doesn't matter if you've dated before or not. Give it another shot! Good luck!!!!
2006-11-27 02:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in love with my best guy friend and all it did was cause a heart to break. keep it clean.
2006-11-27 02:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋