do girls hate shallow guys?

Question

I don't like it, but I am VERY shallow. I judge everyone on looks, I only go out with really hot girls, and I only hang out iwth really good looking people. I am shallow, and my girlfriend, who is a model, thinks I am really bad. It's just everything reflects on you, who you hang out with reflects on you, who you go out with reflects on you .... does anyone think being shallow is really bad? I can't seem to change my ways

Answer 1

If you are happy being shallow then no it is not bad.

It is amazing that you can actually admit to your shallowness as most shallow people will not or cannot admit this.

Answer 2

Ever seen the movie "Shallow Hal"? Being shallow is bad, because you don't always settle for the best. In my experience, "beautiful" people seem to be just that...but only on the outside. On the inside, they are conceited, cold and manipulative. (No offense to those who really are beautiful on the inside and outside). If you could open up a little more, you will find that people who are beautiful on the inside can be even more beautiful than a model. Who you hang out with does reflect who you are- a shallow person.

Answer 3

Uh yeah being shallow is bad. Think about what you are going to feel like when you grow up and become fat and bald. You will have no friends to be with because they all thought the same way you did. There is much more to life then looks and you would do well to figure this out. Of course people care about looks or there wouldn't be a physical attraction but you can't only center yourself around people like that. There is something to be said for fat, ugly people. They know who they are and will be some of the best friends you will ever have.

Answer 4

Being shallow is only bad if the people who you want to hang around don't like it. If they like you for who you are then there isn't a problem is there? It might make it more difficult for you to make more friends and the relationships you have with girlfriends and male friends probably wont amount to a great deal in the long run.
What are you gunna do when you get older and your looks start going?? You wont get a 'dollybird' to hang off your arm then, and you might find yourself a very lonely, old shallow person!!

Answer 5

I dont like shallow men no, but every girl is different. Try to see a persons personality before their looks, they could be the most nicest girl in the world but not have very good looks. You have a girlfriend, so it cant be that bad but why only hang around with good looking people? If they are your friend then it doesnt matter what they look like. xx

Answer 6

The problem is not over being to shallow with others, it's being to shallow over yourself... You obviously don't feel like your worth anything and if you can't believe that about you, you won't believe that other people are worth anything either... everything starts with you and your own self image... It's hate on yourself just to let you know and you need to rediscover your person for everything about you that is great... What about you besides having external things do you have that you like about you??? you need to find all the internal things and once you do that shallowness will disappear... you'll then like yourself and see other people as different to and that looks and outside beauty is only skin deep and not reality....

Answer 7

I dont know about most girls but i really hate shallow guys i think that they are really immature and need to grow up. I mean i have dated shallow guys, and i was completley unhappy. they had a problem with my gothic friends who are pretty darn cool. And they had trouble with my friends who arent that pretty! I mean what if you wrent that good looking, but you had a great personality, would you like for girls to base everyhting they think about you just on looks? No i dont think you would so what would be the point of you being shallow if you wouldnt like it done to you! I am not trying to be mean that wasnt intended and i am sorry if you took it that way. But being shallow is really stupid. But good luck with whatever you choose to do.

Answer 8

I think that is very nasty, why do you think you will be happy with Hot girls as you put it! being the way you are could mean you will spend your life flitting from relationship to relationship sad and alone because you wouldn't open your mind to other things like hanging around with different people, because of that you could miss out on meeting the love of your life, wonderful funny and intelligent friends that you will never meet because you are so shallow

Answer 9

Being shallow is bad. It's ok to go out with good looking girls, but not when you only do it for their looks. Shame on you. Change your ways.

Answer 10

If you really have a model for a girlfriend why are you wondering if girls hate shallow guys? It's obvious since you've dated only good looking women that not all girls hate it.

Answer 11

some girls like shallowness, some don't. the ones who do will never have a meaningful relationship. some women only like men with money,others tall and handsome. there is nothing wrong with being picky, we all want whats best for us, but to form a relationship on looks alone is a road to cold nights. i've known shallow women from my work and can seriously say i detest them as for shallow men i cannot comment, as i'm small ugly and poor they wouldnt be seen dead talking to me.