2006-11-27 01:34:11 · 13 answers · asked by mikeydzr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What makes you say they think you're worthless? Can you read their minds? Sounds to me you have a case of low self esteem, unless you are a horrible person I'm sure they all don't think that. Find something you're good at and get involved doing something that will make you feel better about yourself. Perhaps you're depressed. Speak with your doctor. Some medication and COUNSELING will help you out. The more I think about it that's exactly what you sound like. DEPRESSED. Get help.
2006-11-27 01:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean about others feeling you are worthless. This is what I think about those people PISS ON THEM!!! You are special and unique, there is no one else like you. You are a one of a kind man. Make a list of ten things (five if you are struggling with ten) that you like about yourself and try to focus on those things. If there are things you don't like about yourself then take it slow and try to change one thing at a time. It will make you a better person if you can acknowledge your shortcomings and work to change them. When you get down on yourself (or others do) just remember your good list, you are worth something. God made you to be like no other. Now go out there and show the world you are someone.
2006-11-27 01:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ln order for us to be loved by others, we must love ourself first. We all have talents and abilities that make us different from one another. Use these to make yourself shine. No one is without talent so dont say you dont have one. Do not let people think you are worthless be they family or acquaintances. Show them what you've got and you'll earn their respect. God created beauty all around us. Everyone is beautiful....and so are you.
2006-11-27 01:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand what and how u feel but u might be mistaken, u might be scolded bcos u're been loved n not bcos they feel u're worthless. Nonetheless, i think what u need do is go on ur knees and talk to God. He created u for a purpose, he said he's Jehoval Elohim (God ur creator), talk to him and ask Him to manisfest his plans for your live and beg him to make u love urself bcos if u don't, there's no way u can feel u're been loved by others. If there's anything wrong u're doing, try to stop it or rather ask any of them if there's anything u do that they dislike or why they hate u so much, pray to God about any bad habbits u possess.
I think u ought to love urself cos u'r so specail and there's none that can ever be like you. i know what i'm talking about cos this has happened to me once. I pray God help you in re discovering love for urself.
2006-11-27 01:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by dawoyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have regularly wondered that myself, it truly is rather an inherent personality flaw in our layout. The closes clarification that I have is that the way we experience love is an similar that we can experience hate. i imagine that for this reason we can change into monsters at the same time as coping with the people we adore which have displeased us. because you do not love a stranger, your reaction is dispassionate and ought to nicely be rationalized contained in the social section. in spite of the indisputable fact that, explaining it does not make it experience extra powerful. I have a particular dislike should you deal with their loved ones badly. regrettably, this strikes too close to to homestead for many people.
2016-11-27 01:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are allowing them to influence you.. WHY?
you are a great person who is in need of a reality check. people will treat you they do because you allow them to. Look deep inside of you and find yourself. live that life. be the best person you can be. Just remember GOD put you here for a reason and you are not worthless...
2006-11-27 02:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even care what others think of you. If you go trow life thinking that everone thinks your worthless, that is just were you are going to be at. Don't care what othere people think of you as long as you feel good about your self, you will be fine.
2006-11-27 01:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by ranchforman57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not worthless. As long as you are a living, breathing human being you, by definition, have self-worth. You just need to adjust your attitude. A therapist would be highly recommended.
2006-11-27 01:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by neutral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are they saying is the reason? You are worth something. But if you are doing nothing but making a mess and causing problems then this is thier reason. To do right and be productive will make you feel better and make others look at you better.
2006-11-27 01:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is to short to worry about what other people think about you ......not everyone is perfect and everyone has flaws so no one should talk bad about the next man or woman ......remember that once you love yourself and respect yourself everything else follows ..........good luck and take care
2006-11-27 01:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋