Girls.....How can I spice things up in the bedroom?!?

Question

Apart from the usual blindfold, handcuffs and sexy lingerie-
Any new ideas on how to make my man squirm??

We've been having a rough time, and I want to give him a night to remember!!

Answer 1

Give him a day to remember, instead of the usual night thing make it a treat all day, make him look forward to coming home and make sure you are both alone all night, loadsa different positions and loadsa nice food, use the food in different positions!!! No lingerie..............go naked nothing better!!!! xx

Answer 2

Since I'm 44-yrs-old and know that over the years my likes and dislikes on this have changed over the years... Depending on both of your ages I think the level of his interest doing this or that may determine what he's currently into, so to speak.

The best I can come up with are about 2,467 different ways that I would totally lose it, squirm as you put it... Since I'm highly ticklish it rules out the other 17,931 other ways to make me go completely nuts in the bedroom.

Here's a few:
Seduce him. Go outside and goof around (toss a Frisbee, play catch, do outside work) then out of the blue take him by the hand and lead him into the bedroom. On your way in there start removing his clothes. He can't remove your clothes... Tease him.
Have him lay down on the floor then crawl on his back. Start wiggling around on him don't let him turn over. Not for a while anyway.
Let him watch you masturbate.
Hot oil massage.
Role play.
Lean over the couch...

Answer 3

Plan a nice dinner, then half way through, let him know you're not wearing your panties! Never let him touch you down there .. he can however confirm the absence of panties by feeling your butt. Make him keep his hands to himself the whole evening.

I think 99.99% of guys would love oral ... do it to him but don't let him come ... leave him hanging high and desperate. Just remember not to let your teeth scratch him and he'll love the power of suction (as if a baby is sucking on a pacifier). You can learn how to do it more "professionally" by watching porn, which you can watch with him and never let him touch himself. Once he has his orgasm too quickly, the game's over too soon.

Answer 4

You can try some elaborate role playing. My fav is always meeting at a local place and pretend he is there to pick you up. I mean do it to the max. Act like you don't know each other at all. Go the whole ten yards. Or you can do the whole rapist/victim thing. Have him follow you home, pretend to break in and do his dirty deed...lol. I have always found role playing to be a good way to get those fantasies out. Hell it also cuts down on cheating and gives him/her that extra something to look forward to.

Good Luck!

Answer 5

sex Toys, different Positions, and some roll taking section in.! &nd who suggested it had to be spiced up in only the bedroom.! Lol attempt doing it in new different places too.! have exciting :)

Answer 6

Karma Sutra

Answer 7

If you are needing to spice things up in the bedroom, then I say you and your mate can't possibly be totaly right for each other. That may sound harsh but I think if you love someone with your total being all you would need to spice it up would be a little sexy lingere and maybe some massage oil ao a reasonable substitute of the flavored kind. You could incorporate those toys you spoke of if you are into that sort of thing, personally never tried it.

Answer 8

first are u over 18??!! I hope so. first bet a lot of red candles.try to match everything in red calore.guys love to see the girl they love moving sexy. dress as a bully dancer. get same move. sexy moves. turn on same bully music. go close to him keep touching him and felling him. the same time ur moving so sexy. let him touch ur legs . and when he cames closer. move it. he will fallow u.and keep dancing. when u r to the bed. of cores he will fallow u . thinking u ganna lay dawn . as soon as get there and try to touch u. get up. and keep dancing. take hes cloth of slowly. keep rubbing on him and licking hem ,. hes ganna get crazy. don't lay in the bet. until u make sure that hes hot like hell. I m sure u will figure out other think he likes. I hope I helped .

Answer 9

Make love out doors, or try it in the shower. Try role play, just have fun

Answer 10

Why don't you film yourselves on a camcorder, use things (toys) or do a lesbian act. (Not that, that would be my first choice, but would probably make him, as you say squirm).