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my brother-n-law wanted me for the longest time he admit it when i was at my sis house and he took me ridinng and we made out and went to at least 3rd base and after that he took me home and we had sex and now he told me to keep us a secret and i am i really like him he told me that he shouldnt've got married if only he met me before her and now we mess around when she goes to work he wanted to take me to a hotel but i wanted it in his bed so should i tell cuase i love my sister but i also have deep feelings for her husband as he do me?

2006-11-27 00:53:15 · 58 answers · asked by ripmandy4ever 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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2006-11-27 00:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4 3

I think that you have lost respect for yourself, your sister and her husband!!! No matter how much attraction there is you must understand that there are times that we need to use a brain and not just instinct like if we were in a jungle. A sister that behaves this way would never have my respect or love. There are always temptations in life but that does not mean that you sleep with every person. Why do people get hooked on sex I still don't understand it!!!! What is more important to you a few hours of this nonsense then the love and the respect from others. This is something that you will regret for the rest of your life and I surely would not appreciate knowing you at all.
We all make mistakes but this is not a mistake it is an evil thing that will sink into your soul and will destroy your life. I would quit this relationship immediately and the two of you should pray and see how to handle this situation !!!! Put a stop to it NOW!!!!!
it is one of the worst things that one can do in life. You will cause so much suffering that just the thought of it should have stopped you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have no other comments and I will stop here since I am disappointed tht in life you cannot trust your own blood!!!

2006-11-27 01:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

You're a dissapointment young lady, u ought to be ashamed of urself how can u sleep with ur sister's husband and yet, u say u love her and at same time love her husband too, u're a big liar cos if u love ur sis, u won't cheat on her with her husband. If it were other woman doing that to her, what will u feel? The husband is an idoit who wants to take your youthfulness as an advantage to get all his useless adventures. He hates ur sister and can kill her to do away with her and be with another woman. I advice u stop this nuissance immediately. Call it off with him and stay far away from ur sister and her man
Make sure u make the sacerd sacred, ur sister must not hear about this else u'll be burring two corpse including urs.

2006-11-27 01:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by dawoyo 1 · 0 1

I have been the other sister. Let me tell you that she probably already thinks something is going on, but does want to believe that her sister would betray her in that manner. I denied it for almost 10 years. You are destroying you whole family. Think what you are doing. You will lose your sister. You will lose respect from your other brothers and sisters and partents. You put everyone in the middle. Do you think this man will stay true to you if he would screw his sister in law? If your sister has children, you are going to make them choose between their dad, aunt and mother. I know, and it is terrible because they love all of you and don't want to take sides. How are you going to hand the holidays, can you sit across the table and look at your sister. You probably could since you have no morals and are screwing her husband. You are not thinking of anyone but yourselve. I hope you get yours in the long run. Some one needs to do to you what you are doing to your sister. The pain you are going to cause your sister cuts so deep , I do not know if it will ever heal. You and your sister will never be close again because she could never trust you. Love and trust go together and you are destroying both for a no good liar , cheat and thief of a man.

2006-11-27 01:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by springer 3 · 2 1

If you REALLY loved your sister, you wouldn't be having sex with HER husband.

Out of the millions of other men on this planet, you had to pick your sister's husband? What if this whole situation was reversed? How would that make you feel? You should live your life treating others the way you would like to be treated yourself. Would you want your sister sleeping with your guy? Probably not.

This guy is obviously only using you for sex, don't fall for his fake pick up lines. Sadly the damage is already done, and now you have to decide what you want to do. If I was you, I'd take the high road, tell that guy to be faithful to his wife, don't ever talk to him again, and tell your sister ASAP - before he decides to run and tell her and make it like you seduced him and he was the 'victim'.

Be forewarned, no matter what you do now, there is a really good chance you have ruined your relationship with your sister forever. I know if I was her, I would never speak to you again or my husband. It's a pity that you are treating your sister like this, when there are tons of people (like myself) who would give anything just to have a sibling.

I really hope you do the right thing.

2006-11-27 00:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4 1

Yes. You are in a horrible situation. This boy is feeding you a line girl! Let me guess you are young and he is older. He befriends you. Definitely sexually attracted to you. Now he is banging you! And ask you to keep it a secret!!! From your sister who you love. Do yourself a favor. Tell your sister with him present. In a public place for your safety. He will make you out to be something you weren't. Trust me. Honor yourself and your sister. No one is worthy of annihilating you or your loved ones. Family and friends are sacred. My situation was a little different. I was a child who simply didn't know what was to come. It was rape. This is something you are blatantly allowing that you should not. Good luck. By the way when I say rape I mean rape and it was with circumstances beyond my control. It happened 1 time only. What sickens me to know now is the family his children from my sister and him he has tried to rape too! After they let him back in their lives!

2006-11-27 01:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1 0

Don't tell her what had happened. Do you think that if you tell her the truth she will hug you and forgive you easily? Do you think that the guy will say "yes I had sex with your sister and I love her? It will never happen and it will be more worst if he will say some lies on you. Just stop betraying your sister. Stay away from him and stay away from temptations. Don't loose your sister because she is the only one who will understand you and help you one day. This guy is fooling you and he still loves your sister, that's why he said it should be secret only. You can find another guy anytime anywhere. He is not the only guy living on earth. His your sisters husband. You can find more than him one day. I'm sorry but that is the best thing for you to do , to live peacefully.

2006-11-27 01:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by MAGNIFICENT 2 · 3 1

If you think you are the first, or the last, woman this a$$hole will cheat with, you are really naive. He doesn't care for you or your sister, only himself. Do you care how many lives you personally ruin? How many people you hurt? Stop this at once. Never, never tell your sister. Now that you Know what a jerk she married you need to try to be her friend and support.

2006-11-27 01:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by lollipop 6 · 2 0

I hope you are half sisters, because a REAL sister wouldn't do that! That is her HUSBAND, out of all the men on earth, why your sisters husband? If they have kids, you're hurting them too. You're breaking up a family just because you can't control yourself!
How would you like it if your sister was with someone you loved? You need to stay away from her and her husband. If he comes around, tell him you'll tell her if he comes around again.
God help you!

2006-11-27 01:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Man, sounds like an edition of Jerry Springer!!! You and he are both wrong. If you have any respect for yourself or your sister, stop this affair now!!!! You know it's wrong. As for telling her.........She does have the right to know her husband is unfaithful. As far as you are concerned...that's what going to hurt the most,you are her sister.....You have to find some way to make things right between you. If you can't tell her.....you at least have to try to find a way to help her and yourself out of this horrible mess. Her husband defiantly has to get out of the picture!!!!!!!!!! You have to get over him!!!!!! She has to get over him!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-27 01:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 1 0

What? Why are you having an affair with your sisters husband? Now the damage is done you need to stop fooling around with him. I'm sure you have hurt your sister permanently. If you can keep it a secret and never tell her, never see her husband again and move on with your life, do it. Don't make her life miserable by telling her just to clear your conscience.

2006-11-27 00:58:47 · answer #11 · answered by zara01 4 · 7 1

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