i love her .we are friend .she also like me but i donot know that she love me or not
2006-11-27 00:53:03 · 16 answers · asked by lover boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
gals r delicate like ,wat v call "bel"(creeper plant) in hindi...they take d support of d person ,who strongly stands 4 dem...!! so buddy, go ahead & vid full confidence APNE DIL KI BAAT KEH DALO ! i'm also a gal, & as far as i blieve , gals dun like guys pretending or so . tell her straightforward that u vud like her 2 b ur frnd 4ever...4 d entire life ; assure her u r not a cheat ('n frnd, do prove it also) & u 've a clear idea abt wat u want out of ur life, plz dun try 2 create xtra romantic atmosphere while propozing her...be a li'l bit funtoosh-type while disclosing ur feelings 2 her .
My boyfrnd propozd me this way : 1 day he gifted me a special pen b4 semesters 'n said "dis is 4 ur best of luck 2 work d best" , after 2 or 3 days he gave me our photo (2gether one)in a lovely frame saying "dis is bcoz i want 2 b always 2gether vid my sweetest frnd someway "...'n after a week he gave me a big chocolate-pack, saying " dis is bcoz i luv u...'n i know u 2 , so lets celebrate 4 it !! " he left me speechless...
But buddy...my frnd confidently knew that even i luvd him, u 've 2 b sure that in d worst case[though i'm sure that wont happen at all] ur lady luv is not gonna jilt-up d frndship even ! also b strong enough 2 tell her that u 'll b thr...vid her...4 her...thru'out d life . take care , that her family is not too conservative regardin' ths topics ; coz 4 general indian families- caste, boy'z career, status...etc. matters a lot . i hope u dun mind...but 4 ur good, i need 2 inform u that ths r a few bitter truths residing in our society .
May Provider bless u dear...u jus' need a li'l bit of confidence . let ur luv know every bit of feeling of urs !! wat u feel abt har...a li'l amt of cute flattery...'n trust me! her next step 'll b a tight hug !
all d best...
Manasee Mishra .
2006-11-27 01:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your situation is a crucial one because the girl to whom you are going to propose is already your friend. Friendship and love relationship are two separate paths. You got to think that you really love her or not.
If you have decided to propose to her then you must be ready for two things:
1. Love relationship(if she accepts your proposal)
2. End of your friendship(if she refuses the proposal)
In both the points your friendship with her will get affected because friends are friends.
If you think that she is your best friend and you want this friendship to last long for ever then you must not propose to her other wise go on with your proposal.
I hope you understand my analyses on your problem
2006-11-27 05:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
before you take the leap, I would ask for the parents permission or talk to a friend. If they are close to her they will know if it's going to be a yes or a no. I know we all want the romantic will you marry me, but instead start finding out your answer by talking about the future with her. Ask her if she wants kids, etc. Ask her how she pictures her wedding, etc. By giving hints you can see if your in the picture or not. Then when your ready, do it somewhere private, if it's possible for it to be no, you don't want family and friends around to make it ebarrassing for the both of you.
2006-11-27 01:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by pippy4tao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be frank and open in proposing her at a place where you and that girl is comfortable, but on the same time you should be caution that she should not be get hurt by your act because it may cost you,your friendship.You will have to clarify her that love can happen with anyone now it depends on her to accept/reject the offer along with assurance that it will not effect the friendship between them.GOOD LUCK..
2006-11-27 01:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! Just don't propose to her in writing. If you're not sure if she loves you, you might want to wait until you know. You could get a NO answer because she wasn't quite sure if she loves you yet. Give it sometime.
2006-11-27 01:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strange to listen that males also feel shy , girl or a boy you can share your feelings with your friend.
Just go to her and ask her directly.
2006-11-27 15:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you old enough and are able to support the relationship that you wish to undertake. Say 25 years old or so and she is also old enough.
Then go ahead. Find out ask her. No pain no gain.
If she turns you down, then try this.
http://yahoo.shaadi.com/india-matrimony/
2006-11-27 01:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey dude ,
cmon be a Men
prpose her wth some diffrent manner lke if u propose her in Tajamhal could be the better idea
2006-11-27 01:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by quamp 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should probably initiate a romantic relationship prior to proposing to her...
Unless you are in 14th century france.
But that is highly unlikely.
2006-11-27 00:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by RobotoMR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do it in private do not put any pressure on her if she says no than just take it as a man
2006-11-27 00:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by laura j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋