i been seeing this girl for about a year anyway she went out to az i sill talking to her now people keep tellin me she been with her ex what do i do to see if she is cheating
2006-11-27 01:03:41 · 10 answers · asked by Dr.Roxas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot times 99% of the things creeping in your mind are myths and not happening at all. It could be your on pride and fear that causes you to have fause thoughts. If your giving 100% and you are all you can be,not consuming your every thought with presumptions the true relationship will reveal itself. Be sure of your sorces and there motive and did they actually witness the affair ,I would confront them first . Confront her asking in a way that its what your hearing and only want the truth, so that your relationship can grow.
May God bless
Chris J
2006-11-27 01:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by Chris J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to start calculating....plotting.....all you have to do is tell a few friends to be on your watchdog list, meaning they see stuff happening that shouldn't they let you know, only other way is to catch her in the act...really, how many people do YOU know who will admit they were cheating if they are called on it? I dont know too many ......Once you hatch a plan and have it in motion, you will find out a lot..trust me...Or just simply tell her that you do not want to invest anymore time in the relationship if she is being deceitful. But besides all that, she moved away and long distance relationships rarely work...
2006-11-27 09:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by rufnready 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was u I would have one of your friends call that girl and have him ask your girl if she's cheating on u and u also be on the phone so u can hear it with your own two ears. I've done that before and I caught my ex bf in a lie and sooner or later I found out he was cheating on me.
2006-11-27 09:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be straight out and ask her. Don't seem mad or upset when u do ask.........just say oh so and so said they saw u with your x the other day, and leave it at that and let her respond. You usually can tell by they way the answer. If they go on and on with some big story and seem defensive then it could be true. Just try to ask in a non-threatening way.
2006-11-27 09:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her and you have no proof, you trust her and don't believe the gossips. When she gets back, you talk to her and ask her questions. But, if you aren't trusting enough to be apart, you shouldn't be together. How does she know YOU aren't cheating? See what I mean?
2006-11-27 09:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is in AZ and your somewhere else it may be time to invest your time in someone closer to home.
2006-11-27 09:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont --- you trust her and ignore the other people
if you cant trust her then why stay in the relationship --- she is with you --- she chose to be with you and would drop you like a hot rock if she no longer wanted to be with you
2006-11-27 09:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she really loves u then she wouldn't cheat on you and
2006-11-27 09:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind me another girl.
2006-11-27 09:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-27 09:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by nessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋