Boyfriend Trouble?

Question

Well i found out my boyfriends my space password and i saw some really bad things. like he was flirting and asking girls for "special" pics i broke up with him that night. He was on his hands and knees crying in front of his friends and familly beging for me back. I decided i would give him i chance because i loved him. He then made his OWN decision that he was going to tell EVERY girl that hes friends with that he cant be there friend because his gf dont trust him. He did all of that and then he deleted his my space and deleted all the girls out of his phone. All of his guy friends say he must really love me if hes doing all of this for me, because my bf is a hardass and dont take crap for no one and has NEVER cryed over a girl before. do you think hes in love with me if hes doing ALL of this for me?

Answer 1

It sure sounds like he's willing to do what it takes to get you back. If you really are into him you ought to make up your mind quickly because he is a boy and he will lose interest in grovelling eventually. Don't play games.

Answer 2

Man you chics are such hardasses. Come on! This guy has endured the most embarassing moment in his life to keep you in his life and the best he can get from you is you wonder if he loves you. Of course he must but love is not the fail safe for a relationship. No matter the level of love in a relationship things gonna happen. I have to ask myself this question. Whats the deal with finding out his password? Seems you had some concerns to begin with. I say this...there is nothing wrong with having concerns but those concerns are better realized when you communicate with the person you are in a relationship with. You would have been better off asking him to show you the acct. for himself. He could then refuse and there you would have had your answer without soiling your own integrity. Because snooping don't make it right. If you feel the need to do that then maybe you don't need to be in the relationship.

Answer 3

I hope so. He really does seem to care alot about you and chances are he does love you. Maybe you gave him a reality check with breaking up with him and it took you doing that for him to realise he dosnt want to lose you, which is why he was very emotional and took a step in getting rid of his female contacts. Give things some time and don't feel indebted to him for what he has done, as you said it was his choice. Good Luck and i hope it all works out. We could do with some Living happily Ever After Stories these days.

Answer 4

I believe an answer depends a lot on how old you are and how long you have been in this relationship. I am assuming you are young because this whole ordeal sounds very childish.

Personally I don't think he is "in love" with you by doing all of this for you. He didn't do anything for you. He did it for himself. If he was in love with you he wouldn't have been doing all of those things in the first place. Not to mention that a man shouldn't have to give up his female friends because he has a girlfriend. It is possible to have female friends and not want "special pics" of them or want to sleep with them.

I think the two of you have a lot of growing up to do.

Answer 5

Maybe he really loves you, maybe he's seeing if he can gettover on you. One way to find out? See if what he says is truth, over and over and over again. Because thats what its going to take for him to be trusted by you again. And in the back of your mind you may wonder "Is he? Would he? Will he?" And the answer may surprize you, HE MIGHT BE! So if you love him and are willing to give him another bite at the apple, good luck to both of you, and my dear, don't be foolish enough to believe he will NEVER do it again. He might have learned his lesson, but as my Mother likes to point out, a dog will return to his own vomit. Keep your ears and eyes open and I hope it works out for you both! Good luck!

Answer 6

Sounds like he loves you. Its a risk, but why don't you give him another chance? If you love him, then I think its worth it. And most guys would have just told their girlfriends to grow up and get over it, that this is just a "guy thing". So take a chance and stay with him, if you don't at least try, you may regret it one day.

Answer 7

it sounds like you mean a lot to him. however, i think it would be in both of your best interests for you to sit down and tell him that you have no problem with him keeping his female FRIENDS, as long as he is actually just friends with them. if you keep him (or if he keeps himself) on such a short leash, he will most likely end up feeling smoothered, and possibly bitter toward you for 'making' him cut so many people out of his life, which will only damage your relationship. (at the same time, keep your eye out for new myspaces and the like. i hate to say it, but this could also be an elaborate act.)

Answer 8

Megan C I think he is doing all this for your love.you R very lucky
to have a BF that cares for you because I have been rejected
by 2 boys that I like.

Answer 9

I don't think he could actually know what love is. Hes 16. You haven't really experienced life yet and had to make hard choices and go through things in your relationship. Its puppy love right now. He thinks he loves you but he really doesn't know what that is. But it sounds like he really likes you.

Answer 10

i dont know about love but i think he likes you. The reason for that is because he is putting the blame in you for when he erased all the girls and his myspace account. If he really loves you, he wouldnt tell everyone that he is erasing his account because you cant trust him.