need help.. how can i tell my father about my lover??? i know if he knows about her all hell will break loose..but i have to tell him now. is there any trick to make him less angry....help me..
2006-11-27 00:57:41 · 11 answers · asked by Shajed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi im a 21 year old guy. i love my cousin. she its my 1st cusin. some prob occured and i have to tell my father about her and convince him to talk to her parents. but if i tell my father he will kill me. and i cant live without my love. so how can i tell my father about her about her?? i need ways to make it less painful to my father and to me...help pls...
2006-11-27 03:38:58 · update #1
just tell him. if he kicks off.ask what it is he dislikes so much.try to get your father ,your lover and yourself together and talk it out. if this ndoe not work.you'll have to drop one of them. just seen the 2nd part of your question. 1st cousin. can be a dodgy if children are born.i think maybe that's what your dad is worried about.not sure if its true or not. but the old story goes like. marry 1st cousin is bad blood,inbreeding. sometimes u cannot help who u fall in love with. soooorry. do not know what else to say. good luck.
2006-11-27 01:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a hell of a lot of whiskey or a few horse tranquilisers in his tea and wait for them to take affect then tell him about your lover and run. He won't be able to catch you. Or your sheep.
2006-11-27 01:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never tell my father any thing for he would surely slap me x
2006-11-27 01:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you edit this so people can understand what the hell you mean.is it your dads girlfriend or something?or his mum?edit.nooone understands mate!
or...are you a girl and a lesbian even though you avater is a guys head?
2006-11-27 02:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by anewaccount99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel about her and try to make him see its real. i guess if worse comes to worse you might have to find another place to live if you still live with ur dad
2006-11-27 01:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by .......... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell if you're not ready. If you choose to tell it's never has bad as you think it will be.
Good luck
2006-11-27 01:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kev's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...are you 13 or 30....lol
If you're 13 you may have to live with it, if you're 30 move out!...;
2006-11-27 01:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why what's wrong with her? Is she your step mum/your dad's girlfriend/your step sister/your dad's sister?
2006-11-27 01:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are not allowed to have a girlfriend? What kind of weirdo is your dad?
2006-11-27 01:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by T B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, tell your sister it's over.
2006-11-27 00:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by GamerGirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋