Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

2006-11-21 17:27:50 · 8 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

cps asked me to take pee test to prove i'm not on drugs i did that i took a phyc test i did couseling it seems like the list gets longer and longer all i know i need my girls back home did i mention their father placed them volenteerly now they won't give them back they were suppose to respond in 72 hours when we ask for them to be returned it's been almost one year and it's pure hell on me i can imagine how hard it is on them before he got out of jail i ask my mother to bring them home so he could't get them and she turned around and gave them to him (the father) he tried to place them with his family but one of them are molseting his sister and he knew that and wanted them there any way after calling chid services for one month they finally moved them and whats so odd about it child services had this information because they accindently sent it to us

2006-11-21 17:27:14 · 5 answers · asked by francelina w 1 in Family

There's this girl that works with my bf and they've been friends for a couple years (i think) and it never bothered me until recently. i can't really recall when i started feeling insecure about her but i just noticed that he looks at her and talks to her in a way that he doesn't with me. then the paranoia started: i checked his text outbox few days ago and one from him to her said 'no we didnt break up' . i know i should have respected his privacy but i just couldnt help myself. i think she's after him and it makes me so insecure that he would cheat on me with her if she offered it up. plus hes jealous of my guy friends so it makes me think of that saying that if a guy accuses you of something, hes probably doing it himself.

2006-11-21 17:27:12 · 15 answers · asked by dudette22 1 in Singles & Dating

I just heard that a friend may be dying of cancer. I haven't talked to her in a while and I am scared for her. I don't think I am suppose to know what she is going through as I heard it from a mutual friend that let it slip. But if she is dying I want to tell her how much she means to me and how much of a friend she has been to me. I don't want to let on that I know but I don't want her to die and I know how positive reinforcement can help people that are sick. It is the middle of the night right now, but I want to call her and tell her how much she means to me, but her cell phone is shut off and I don't want to disturb her family. I just want her to call me so I can talk to her. I haven't talked to her in awhile and I feel sorry about that. I don't want her to die because she is one of the most terrific people I have ever met. I would trade places with her if I could. I just want to talk to her. What should I do?

2006-11-21 17:26:46 · 11 answers · asked by three6ty 4 in Friends

there is a vision of beuty and i want to tell her how i fell. we are sorta friends(we talk everyday) and i am kinda shy, i also have many ways os telling hr like myspace and notes and having my friends talk to her. but she has a bf that doesn't deserve her caus he suckz(he always has not just becaus of this). so i am wondering if anyone has an idea of how i could tell her without being straight forward but still telling her myselfe.
if someone would help it would be highly appreciated.

2006-11-21 17:26:02 · 12 answers · asked by n8tive_b0y071 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a serious question...

From my day to day experiences, I have seen many black men/white women couples and I was just wondering...

Do you caucasian girls find black men more attractive than men of any other race?

or

Do you date them because they had the balls to approach you and you like their personality?

2006-11-21 17:25:29 · 10 answers · asked by linko9789 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 17:25:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What are some fun things me and my Bf can do??

2006-11-21 17:24:01 · 12 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Singles & Dating

On the time of Noah, humans lasts up to 500 to 900 years old...
Now 60 to 70 years is the standard lifetime of one single human being... ?

2006-11-21 17:23:07 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

hey, im a young teen(im not gonna say my age because i will probably get reported)and i have a lovely girlfriend, but i have a problem...i think im bi. how do i tell her that i still love her but i like guys too? how do i tell that to my friends?

2006-11-21 17:23:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What to do in this situation?!!!?
I'v been married for 13 years and I love my husband dipley. I belived him so much but I just found out that he allways had other girls to talk and have sex with.He had a lot of money but dasn't have anymore.He dosen't have girls anymore as well He say that he love me.He kryed and apologise to me. What should I do I dont wont to brake my kids hart but I gonig krazy Is there any help

2006-11-21 17:22:14 · 9 answers · asked by R P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am an average or below-average looking woman. I feel nothing compared to extremely beautiful women like those Victoria's Secret supermodels like Alessandra Ambrosio, Heidi Klum.

Why are there even incredibily beautiful women like these?

I see Monica Bellucci, Jessica Alba, and others like them and I get so insecure.

I feel, what do I have that will make a man love me considering there are lots of gorgeous women? What's the use of wearing pretty clothes and make up and shoes and all that?

2006-11-21 17:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend told me today that they cut themself. We are both over 18 so parents arent really a solution here, but I dont know what to do or say... I really dont want them to continue hurting themself...

2006-11-21 17:21:11 · 9 answers · asked by interesting 2 in Friends

I was talking to this girl for 2 weeks trying to get to know her and was going to ask her out next week. We started talking alot and she knew I was interested... Well some guy just asked her out this friday. I feel like I've completely failed... which I have...

I'm going to write her a note tomorrow and give it to her telling her everything I've felt for her. And telling her she always has me as a friend to talk to if this guys a jerk. And letting her know that I'm happy for her as long as she's happy.

Is this the right thing to do or should I just back off and move on and never speak to her again...

Well anyways... I already know guys are gonna say move on, I'd like replies from how a woman would feel about this.

2006-11-21 17:21:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

attending for the holidays?for me it's such a pain!

2006-11-21 17:19:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i broke up with my boyfrend a week ago and i thought i would get over it by now but i still cant et him off my mind. I love him a lot and really want him to be with me. Wat do i do to get to that point?(he broke up with me) i dont no y though...I didnt do anything wrong. does he not love me anymore?! can someone please help me! im really confused and heartbroken

2006-11-21 17:18:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know if he is faking it or what. he told me that i am the second girl he has ever told he has loved. besides his ex wife. we have been together for 5 months and i just dont know if he really dose love me. or if he is faking it.

2006-11-21 17:16:55 · 11 answers · asked by aleisha21 1 in Singles & Dating

I have worked with her for two years now, and although we did not become friends straight away, our relationship grew and I was under the impression that we had become pretty good friends. That was until I found out that six other workmates (out of 15 in the whole office) where invited to her wedding, but not me. I know that the boss is also pretty pissed because she wasn't invited either. I guess I know where I stand with her now, but how am I supposed to go on working with her?

2006-11-21 17:16:26 · 15 answers · asked by umani6 1 in Weddings

Wedding etiquette:Should I go to Bro's overseas Wedding?
My bro met girl who lives in Austraila on the net.
Has been chatting online with her for 5 years
He flew to AUS and spent 3 MO. with her
Now they are engaged.
WOW!! That was fast!
Now my family expects me to fly over in July to see him get married. I find this to be a VERY $$$ request.
($2,000-3,000)
I think it is a better idea if they have 2 Ceremonies.
The big one over in AUS and then a very small one here.
I think it is cheaper for her to fly over here than expect my entire famly to fly to AUS.
More facts:
1.He could not financilly do the same for me.
2.Yes they are going to live in AUS after the Wedding
3.Bro is back in US now. She could fly here to meet him in July and have a small Ceremony and a Cake and Ice cream/potluck reception. Then both fly to AUS. Have big wed. in AUS and broadcast it on the internet where they met in the first place.
Thoughts?? What do you think?

2006-11-21 17:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by DRNoraSarasin 3 in Weddings

look at my 360 page/blog and tell me how you like it on a scale of one to ten please!

2006-11-21 17:15:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I was casually dating (casual lover) for a year, asked me before he moved (because of a job) that he never met my parents. I felt bad that he hadn't, but I didn't think we were that serious, I mean we didn't mention until he said that. I didn't think he ever wanted to because he never asked, and if I invited him to my parents home (where I live) I thought it would've made him feel uncomfortable if we were just "casual" , and not to mention maybe uncomfortable for my parents. So anyway, I feel bad, but he was never clear with me about it, so was I wrong for not introducing him to my parents? I thought that's what you do when you're serious serious? I'm confused...

2006-11-21 17:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who likes me...I know him (as in acquaintance), but not really know him( as in good friend). We talk about once or twice a day for about 5 minutes at a time, and one day he asked me out. I don't really like him, but he isn't a bad guy. He's pretty nice and friendly. What do I do?

2006-11-21 17:14:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am dating this man who is asking me stuff like,you don`t hate me yet?
What are the signs please.
Thank you to all who reply..

2006-11-21 17:14:22 · 7 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now. He was isolated as a child so he never had a real girlfriend until me. Because of his isolation, he is hesitant about sexual contact...he rarely talks about it around me...and he never makes a move on me. How do I tell him I want to take things further without making it seem like I'm pressuring him?

2006-11-21 17:13:48 · 12 answers · asked by Androgyny 6 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend says he does not know if he loves me anymore. Idk what to do, I just wanna move to another school or just die. He likes this other girl. I just want him back. can anyone plz tell me how im really desperate, i love him to death.

2006-11-21 17:13:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend very much, but it seems like I'm a huge secret to his friends and family. It feels like he is advoiding me. He lives in a different town, but I feel like he is advoiding me. He doesn't call me. I'm always calling. He says he'll call me back, but never does. He doesn't answer some of my questions. What's going on? I'm so confused right now and it feels like I'm not loved by him anymore. What can I do? Please help me, I need help as so as possible before I get hurt even more.

2006-11-21 17:13:05 · 8 answers · asked by graduation_girl2003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy I know for about 5 months. I just what to be sure that he is the right guy for me.

2006-11-21 17:12:54 · 11 answers · asked by marissa h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 17:12:45 · 11 answers · asked by Andy8875 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are getting married next September. We're young and don't have a lot of money but we still want a great wedding. Are there any ideas on ways to save money? If we go with the place we want, we'll need a DJ, videographer, and florist (or a place that sells flowers and I can have friends put them together). Do you know any companies in Sacramento, ca. Any help would be appreciated!

2006-11-21 17:11:57 · 7 answers · asked by beautiful_dancing_belle 1 in Weddings

I am 57 and we have been married for 14 years. During all of our marriage he continually seeked some kind of porno either tapes or DVDs, internet, cable TV. This is always done the minute I leave the house. He always hides it and thinks I can't tell. I catch him a lot and feel like my job is the porno police. He tells me he has been like this his whole life. Unfortunately he didn't tell me this bit of information before I married him or I would not have married him. He has made many promises and we have tried just about everything to stop his behavior such as counseling, no internet, cable disconnect, but nothing works. I'm ready to throw in the towel but the only life that I will be ruining economically is mine. He asked me to quit my job 5 years ago to retire with him. So I have no job and would eventually have no health insurance and guess what, I am no longer young. Don't old men out grow it?

2006-11-21 17:11:32 · 29 answers · asked by Geri P 1 in Marriage & Divorce