Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

My husband's ex will be moving down from New York to be near us in Texas. She has four kids (three from my husband) and is on Medicaid. She will be finding a job but as a skilled worker (read waitress/gas station attendant) she doesn't make enough for all those kids. How long will she have to live in Texas before she becomes eligible for TX medicaid? Do we need to wait til she is down here to enroll the kids in school? What all do I need to enroll them? I just got married and magically found myself to be a parent... got a lot more to worry about now. Any advice and pointers would be appreciated.

2006-11-21 16:28:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friends are trying to get me and my ex-best friend Lauren to be friends again.

The problem is: I don't want to be friends with her anymore. I don't want to have much to do with her, and if possible I want to talk to her as little as possible.
Yet most my friends are her friends, and they are all trying to make us become friends again.

Awile back, when we were friends, we'd practically spend every moment together. As we began to spend more time together, I began to develop feelings more than friendship for her. She was the most amazing person I have ever met in my life.
Although as soon as I had told her of my feelings for her, she got scared. She stopped hanging out with me as much, and she told me never to talk to her again.
Her new friend verbally attacked me for being homosexual, and apparently 'stalking and obsessing' over her.

So now all of our friends are trying to force us to be friends again.
I just want nothing to do with her, cus I dont want to get hurt again.

2006-11-21 16:27:38 · 13 answers · asked by That cool kid 1 in Friends

A girl who is a good friend of mine just kissed me on the ear. Then sorta just announced it to the people around and joked about it.

Does this mean I shouldnt take it as something? Or is this a hint that she likes me?

2006-11-21 16:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by greener 1 in Singles & Dating

she sleep with you and still had sex ask you to leave and divorce you after locking you out of your own house and keeping your personal things from you and keeping them.

2006-11-21 16:26:47 · 13 answers · asked by Terry M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

been with my bf for 6 yrs and have a 4 yr old, he asked me to marry him like 3 yrs ago actually it was a verble agreement since I was preg. but here we are 3 yrs later and still no ring, should I be upset? need advice plz.

2006-11-21 16:26:29 · 12 answers · asked by ///\oo/\\\ 4 in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend, she gave me lots of chances, and now i make another mistake. She doesnt forgive me. How?
I love my girlfriend, she gave me lots of chances because i had promised her not to make anymore mistake. And now i make another mistake cuz of jeslousy and she doesn't wants to forgive me already. She wanna break off because she can't take it anymore. How can i get back to her?

The mistake i make was when she wanted to go out with her cousin and i said i wanted to follow her. And she dont allowed me to follow her. Normally she will let me follow her but i dont know why on that day she dont allow me to follow. So we i just followed her and we started to quarrel because she said i don't trust. But i really do trust her only i felt abit fishy when she dont allowed me to follow her.

2006-11-21 16:26:26 · 9 answers · asked by Javier 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont really like giving blow jobs but do it cos I love my husband but I never complete the job, i always stop before he cums cos I hate the taste and the whole idea of it all. I want ot spice up the bedroom abit and would like to give him a complete head job but am dreading it!!! What ways can I spice up the bedroom and how can i successfully give him a ******** and not HATE IT!!!??? We have bought a vibrator and he loves it as much as I do and we occassionally watch porn but I want to BLOW him away with a new technique that I can surprise him with!!! TYPE AWAY PLEASE!!! We got married in March 2006. I am 20 and he is 22!!

2006-11-21 16:25:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any Ideas? I really need help. I'm going to see him tomorrow, and I need to really tell him but without coming straight out with it! Guys help me! And girls but I need a guys opinion!

2006-11-21 16:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by Hannah 1 in Singles & Dating

Im wit this girl and i wanna hav her get the fact that im really ready to spend alot of my time bein with her and bein her man how do i get this across do i just say it or is there a more romantic way of doing it? ( Not marry her yet, but just let her kno im ready to be her man and take the next step in our relationship)

2006-11-21 16:23:05 · 10 answers · asked by genpattonwwii 2 in Singles & Dating

Please be honest.

2006-11-21 16:22:49 · 23 answers · asked by puglover 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom is a complainer with a capital C. i clean up as best i can still i hear "Why didn't you clean up over here better than this?" I tell her i dont see every "dust bunny" she does. With the laundry, if i bring 3 loads down to wash, which in our family the rule is to wash only super loads so we can get more done at a time, she complains saying, "Bring your laundry down more often." I am so trying to get a place of my own, but can't afford it unless this full-time job comes through i am hoping for. She also complains that I eat too much and is surprised I am not fat because of how much i eat. So i offered to start paying for $50 of the grocery bill. I mean, I weigh 128 pounds and am 5'5", so I know I'm not fat. Please give me some advice on how to deal with my mom's complaining until I move out.

2006-11-21 16:22:44 · 21 answers · asked by Renee W 2 in Family

I want a girlfriend, but the girl i like dosn't like me.....So i'm considering going out with a girl i hate just be with someone.

2006-11-21 16:22:27 · 7 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

Here's the thing, i like this girl at my college. We know each other very well and i recently just told her how i feel about her. The thing is i did not feel any positive vibe on her part. I want us to be more than friends but im sensing she does not feel the same way.

I plan on tell her this:

'Well, however it works out, i hope you realize that you deserve somebody great.'

Girls i want to know what your reaction would be and if you would really consider thinking twice about that person.

2006-11-21 16:21:26 · 20 answers · asked by Milosenpotion 4 in Singles & Dating

ive always been a bad girl- partying, hooking up, etc... and i always ended up with bad boys... until suddendly, my platonic love of all times (handsome, respectful, honest, hard worker, loyal) started calling me, and i got over my bad girl phase and realized i can still have a chance at being a nice woman... he fell head over feet for me and now were engaged...
1) i feel i dont deserve this guy, he seems too perfect for me...
2) does this mean something will end up bad in my relationship? i swear its one of those things its too good to be true... like of all people, why did God choose ME to have a perfect husband..? i feel something bad is waiting for me

2006-11-21 16:21:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend(if u call her that) that is very bossy, annoying, mean, selfish and sometime nice.She drives me crazy, She is always telling me what 2 do, and she can't ask for herself she always wants some one to do it for her, if something is to hard (a class or something) she changes her classes(she only has 2 real classes Engish,Math. And she makes me feel dumb sometimes( uses big words). she always get better grades then me and she will laugh because I have a lower grade. When I ask her to help me on my homework she will take a long time to help or give me the wrong answer. She is annoying because she trys 2 copies me, she is always laughing when something happens. She thinks she is my only friend and I wouldn't make on my own in school. Once I tried to not be with her (not sitting or talking with her) but then some one took my seat and I had 2 sit with her again. Should I still be her friend. please help

2006-11-21 16:20:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She is now 17 she is my friend and she wrote in a letter that her brother sexualley abuse her since she was 12?but she afraid of her brother?she live in honea pathe in SC,Can her brother arrest for this?can i produced this letter .i am not a US citizen

2006-11-21 16:18:45 · 9 answers · asked by ray g 1 in Friends

what does this mean when a girl is palying whit her hir and looking at you

2006-11-21 16:18:18 · 9 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

have been married for 2 yrs. within this past year me and my husband have had sex about 12 times. this has also been a bad year for my family. I have lost 3 family members with in a 3 month time. one being my little brother who was 11. I find my mind tends to wonder as to why him every night when i go to bed. I work till midnight and when i leave for work he is still at work. when i get home he is sleep. but this has been going on before i got this shift. we are in our 20s. I also lay in bed and think about another man whom i have no contact with just someone i use to have a crush on. i think of this to distract my mind from thinking of my recent lost and also the possibility of the lost of another family member who is suffering from cancer. my husband thinks i don't want to give it to him. I am just not turned on even though i still love my husband. I also think it may be that he doesn't communicate with me well and he only wants sex not touching & foreplay. Pls help b4 he cheats

2006-11-21 16:18:08 · 18 answers · asked by Water's Away 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I've been talking to this girl who I helped through a very bad relationship. I started to have feelings for her and i dont know if she does for me. threw out her whole ordeal i helped wit the guys perspective on things giving her info like how some guys can fall out of love,and such. But anyway the other nite ,fri, she broke up wit him. i think she might still have fellings for him cause she keeps talking about how he has two things of hers and she cant never get back , i think its her heart and "V", so last nite i asked her for adivce. i said "So theres this girl i been talking to and dont know how to tell her i think i love her" "she recentaly got out of a bad relationship , like you and she has been very upset ." aquared silence then she replies i personally think it might be to early to tell her. PLEASE HELP I AM A STUPID GUY FOR CRYING OUT LOUD

2006-11-21 16:16:22 · 27 answers · asked by D F 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to ask him out but I'm afraid that it might ruin our friendship!What should i do????

2006-11-21 16:16:16 · 10 answers · asked by LOLgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you guys get married just because you think it's next step? Is there any way you'd get married without totally loving that one?

Pregnancy and such cases not included :P

Thanks!

2006-11-21 16:16:14 · 6 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Singles & Dating

I started liking a boy not too long ago. He flirted and texted me everyday. Out of nowhere he said he just wanted to be friends. Then he told me that he missed his ex-girlfriend and that he may be getting back with her. Ever since then he hasn't talked to me outside of work at all, even when i try to send him a messgae.

Frankly, I'm hurt and it has done a number on my self esteem. What's the best way to get over this boy, especially since i work with him?

2006-11-21 16:15:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And you do not wish to like meet random people everytime. How do you tackle it?

2006-11-21 16:15:34 · 19 answers · asked by matrimony x 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 16:15:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The boy is my one of my closest friend's older brother. He is a decent guy. I know him but i guess he is kinda in the friend catagory. My friend told me he likes me. I am unsure if i feel the same. But no matter what i can't do anything because of my sister. She does not like the idea of me going out with anyone...not that i want to...she has high standards. I don't want to give him any hope but I have had crushes before and it never went well. Because of this I feel guilty and want to give him hope. And my friend, his sister, jokes about it but hits that she likes and dislikes the idea of him liking me. It's complicated. I need help or advice.

2006-11-21 16:13:27 · 17 answers · asked by Chi 1 in Singles & Dating

my family are far too much manz.. i am not allow to stay over night at anywhere. Not even my fren place or my bf house. I am not allow to go out late.. therefore they restricted me to be back home before 12mid nite!! I feel so controlled.. and the worst and laughter part.. i am 20 years old this year!! and i am being controlled in this extent.. godness holly... help me!!

2006-11-21 16:13:22 · 29 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Family

2006-11-21 16:12:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had a crush on this girl since the first day i met her in 8th grade.We are now Juniors in High School and neither of us have dated anyone since.According to one of her best friends that moved she liked me, this was the summer before 9th.Then freshman year one of my friends that liked her told me that she was always drawing hearts around my intials in spanish class, but i think he may have been sarcastic, because she was there when he told me this.Me and her pretty good friends but don't hang out that often.Also, one of my friends in her physics class told me that she wanted to go to homecoming with me this year, but he may have been kidding.I told her i liked her in 8th grade and asked her out but we had only known each other for a month and she said that she wanted to get to know me better.It seems like sometimes she likes me and other times she doesn't.Also, she always smiles and says hi to me in the hallway.She wears my football jersey to all of our games.What should i do?

2006-11-21 16:12:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and in love with my best friend's younger brother. He's 14 and 2 years and 10 months younger. I've known him for 13 years! And he's told me he fancies me - infact when he was 12 he told me he loved me. I can't help loving him now. He is mature and looks as old as me. Do you think I'm wrong about this?
Also, now we just kiss when we're alone, is he ashamed of me?

2006-11-21 16:12:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a girl that i have liked for a while but i still havent told her yet while i think she likes me, another dude likes her but everytime he has asked her out she said no but sunday i heard through a friend that they were holding hands i still like her but i fear its too late to do anything that i should have done already should i give up or still go after her

2006-11-21 16:10:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating