Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

Hi I'm a 20 year old guy....

Is there actually any girls or guys out there who has still yet to date someone? Cos i'm feeling really left out and depressed these days because eveyrone else around me seems to be finding gfs and bfs unlike me who seems to be destined to be single forever ; S And the fact xmas and new yr is coming up makes me feel even more depressed and loneley..

I know that I appear weak by posting this up here, but I just wanted to get some thoughts from different people...

I'm afraid that I will let flow my youth like this..ppl plz help...

2006-11-21 00:42:41 · 7 answers · asked by KKK 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 00:42:39 · 23 answers · asked by Dawn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok..so, I was recently in touch with my ex from 13 years ago...he was my first love, and while I've had relationships since him, he has always been in the back of my mind, I've thought about him even while in other relationships. I don't know, I've never loved anyone like I did him. So, anyway we got in touch with eachother and went out to dinner a couple of times and just talked, it was great bc we are adults and in different places now, we never spoke about "us", but we did have sex once and now I haven't heard from him. Our last conversation I told him I had no expectations from him and he said he really needs friends in his life (so why no call?) things with him are good and that he still has a lot of "issues", who doesn't? Its been killing me because I lied, I did have expectations of him, I thought this could be some sort of new beginning..I'm so upset with myself bc I am stronger than that, the advice I give friends in sit like this, I can't even follow. Do I call him?

2006-11-21 00:42:38 · 7 answers · asked by kit 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 00:42:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends went out with this guy for a year. it is only when they broke up I found he was abusive to her. On one occasion strangling her and on another burning her with a cigarette. I was distrought and guilty I didn't know anything was going on. I haven't heard from her for nearly 2 months, all her friends I know hadn't heard from her either. She had changed her number and moved out so I had no way of getting in contact with her other than email, which I emailed her on frequently.
I have just found out from one of my childhood friends. That she is back with her abusive ex. I have to admit I had my suspicions. Apparently she's gonna call me on the weekend (am not gonna hold my breath). The thing is I feel powerless I don't know what I do! I feel so angry, yet worried at the same time as this guy is horrid, he was only ever nice to me because I stood up to him.What can I do? What can I say to her? Is there any realistic way of making her see sense?

2006-11-21 00:42:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a guy that has always pushed people away my whole life. Even when I was a kid, instead of going outside and playing with the other kids around the neighborhood, I would rather stay at home and watch TV. When the kids would come and ask if I could come outside, I would ask my mom to tell them I was on punishment. I avoided people all my life. I would not study with people in College. I would not go to parties and the friends that I did have I would not call for months and months at a time. I even have not called my best friend since he was the best man at my wedding, 5 YEARS ago.

2006-11-21 00:40:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-21 00:38:47 · 20 answers · asked by firecrotchlindsay 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 00:37:18 · 5 answers · asked by shan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-21 00:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by lover boy 2 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 yrs now and we live together..his best friends that is like his brother has a new girlfriend and wants to split them up and she is also very jealous of me since they started going out, i never got along with her but now she told everyone that i cheated on my man i really didnt, he believed it, everyone did and i dont know how to prove that i didnt..has anyone here been in a situation like this i dont know what to do... = (

2006-11-21 00:35:53 · 14 answers · asked by Gabs 2 in Singles & Dating

all my friends wear boxers except me...HELP !!

2006-11-21 00:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by justin_mcdonold 1 in Friends

Well, all these people mostly 'friends' keep telling me my boyfriend is cheating on me. Which he's not. Are they doing it just to hurt me or because their actually concerned. I think it may be because they all don't like him. What do ya'll think. We've been together nearly three months and I think I know him better than my friends, and other people.

2006-11-21 00:34:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like the fresh smell of soap and lotion. I do like some of them but I want ot use something a man likes too.

2006-11-21 00:31:20 · 17 answers · asked by Patty 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my juniour year of high school and I have been dating/engaged the same guy for four years straight. Since I was in the 8th grade. Next year, of course, I'm going to be a senior and the guy I am engaged to is going to be in the 11th grade. I don't know really where to go for my college plans because I'd hate to go anywhere far due to only seeing him every once and a while. Should I look for colleges in state or still leave options for out of state. He said anywhere I go, he'll follow behind after he graduates and be with me. I just don't know what really to do or what my question is. I just needed to let this out because I'm so confused. I love him too much to leave him here in this darn town!

2006-11-21 00:30:48 · 15 answers · asked by V 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 00:30:45 · 10 answers · asked by ambition_girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy likes you, keeps asking u out, keeps sms-ing to say he's waiting for you after school (tho ur lesson ends 3 hours after his), keeps calling you.. but you only appreciate him as a friend..

How should i handle this situation? I'm afraid i may have hurt him, as i always said i'm busy (which is the case sumtimes). And, when we finally met (cos i feel bad rejecting him) i didnt say much to him. and he didnt really contact me after that, maybe he realised that i dt like him? what is he thinking now? Can sumone help me?

2006-11-21 00:30:14 · 14 answers · asked by Nikola_W 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi , i'm doing a sociology survey on "gender differences and perceptions" I have finished the female section and now i wish to know what is a guy's "ideal woman" Character/personality and apperance-wise. Thanks so much:) pls help!

2006-11-21 00:29:55 · 8 answers · asked by Yoo Hoo! 2 in Singles & Dating

Any other people have this dilemma?? What do you do about it?? p.s. Does the cool weather make anyone else frisky??

2006-11-21 00:28:51 · 14 answers · asked by elpackage 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriends ex is crazy!! She calls him all the time and he talks to her, when they first broke up he still lived with her and I was talking to him. He finally moved out but he still talks to her sometimes and she always tries to get back with him, it makes me so mad but he says he is just being nice when he talks to her. I told him how mad it makes me but he doesn't get it.When they first broke up he wouldn't move out he stayed living with her for 2 months and he acted like nothing was wrong with that, I felt like she was holding him back because she would argue with him and say she needed him to stay there to help with bills. We have been together for 4 months, should I let it go or stay with him and see what happens with the crazy ex?

2006-11-21 00:27:15 · 21 answers · asked by babydj1803 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 00:25:42 · 29 answers · asked by deborahlouiseclarke20 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

truthful words spoken or the most lying word spoken??

2006-11-21 00:25:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When should I say it again?
If there is this girl whom you have expressed your feelings to, and told you that she just wanted to be friends. What are the signs that she is ready for a relationship and she has fallen for you? What are the signs that you should give it a shot again?

2006-11-21 00:22:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had wonderful answers,thank u all of u!! But now, some told that they will be happy if i become thier friend so how's that possible? so those who wish to become my friend,may mail me!!

2006-11-21 00:21:55 · 9 answers · asked by Heeranmayee V 1 in Friends

Seems like girls with short hair not not getting any attention!

2006-11-21 00:21:53 · 23 answers · asked by Yoo Hoo! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 00:21:18 · 23 answers · asked by Niranjan 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 00:21:04 · 9 answers · asked by babixgalx18 2 in Friends

I am trying to fuigure out when to get married . December or Feb 14 2007

2006-11-21 00:20:09 · 18 answers · asked by Kat J 2 in Weddings

I was playing with his weiner dog and the dog got all excited and almost peed himself. It was funny.

2006-11-21 00:19:30 · 12 answers · asked by Abused Tampon 1 in Singles & Dating

Whilst talking to a friend there about life in general he mentioned that he didnt believe in marriage and the legal contracts that go with it - I was horrified as I think getting married is the ultimate show of love - just wondering what the rest of you guys think about it? Cheers XX

2006-11-21 00:19:19 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 00:18:59 · 11 answers · asked by Beam 2 in Singles & Dating