How to control Jealous?

Answer 1

People are only jealous when 1) you don't really love someone; 2) you don't trust them and 3) you don't feel you are good enough.

Look at those, then pick which one applies to you and then work on it.

Answer 2

Get in touch with your anger, and if you realize the person (or
thing, or whatever) you're jealous of is
A) just not worth jerking yourself out and getting angry, no matter what the issue, and
B) realize, ultimately there is nothing in this world to be jealous
ABOUT.
Just like in a poker game- the chips usually fall exactly where they're supposed to. Jealousy is a cousin to envy too.
Neither of them are good relatives. Find your own strength,
and use that to conquer any insecurities you might have- the
real source of all these feelings anyway.

Answer 3

I think jealousy is among the top 5 relationship destroyers. The best thing to do is build confidence in yourself. When u are confident and u know u are treating your gf/or b/f the best u can, there will be no reason to be jealous. You will have confidence in knowing no matter what situation is put in front of them, that they know they would never take the risk of losing someone as good as u are to them.

Answer 4

Jealousy is really a bigger category than you suggest. Is your jealousy ruining your life. Are you losing people close to you? Is there no one willing to be close to you? If your jealousy is truly out of your control seek counseling. You may have obsessive compulsive disorder. It can usually be treated with medication but unfortunately most sufferers never seek treatment.

Answer 5

hi,

love them whom u hate the most.IN UR MIND.see whats coming out from there.love u r self.

dont do such things which can effect on ur daily life,ur relations with ur loved ones.coz ur doing something out there,where u cant be open and can say LOOK I M LOOSER.AND CANT DO ANYTHING,so i m here and im commited to be here.

go ahead life teach us so much,u learnt jealous,now learn how to overcome it.

best of luck.