If a guy likes you, keeps asking u out, keeps sms-ing to say he's waiting for you after school (tho ur lesson ends 3 hours after his), keeps calling you.. but you only appreciate him as a friend..
How should i handle this situation? I'm afraid i may have hurt him, as i always said i'm busy (which is the case sumtimes). And, when we finally met (cos i feel bad rejecting him) i didnt say much to him. and he didnt really contact me after that, maybe he realised that i dt like him? what is he thinking now? Can sumone help me?
2006-11-21 00:30:14 · 14 answers · asked by Nikola_W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really dont know how to tell him, cos this is the first time i'm experiencing this.. shld i say "i'm sorry, but lets remain friends"?
2006-11-21 00:40:48 · update #1
he hasnt professed his love yet, but i juz had this feeling he likes me.. did i interpret wrongly? (see above for details)
2006-11-21 00:41:35 · update #2
shld i call him? or sms him? or msn him?? I feel soo bad.. for what i have / have not done..
2006-11-21 00:52:25 · update #3
hi,
in the whole world,whole human being do this.u r not aolne.if ur clear in u r mind,and wanna him as ur friend.be open and tell him.or just mess ur frndhip also.
see,what u want as a girl thats important.if u r rejecting him,its not an offence.if u like him than ask him for sometime to think,think harder.and do wat ur mind says.not u r HEART.
u r spening u r time on this issue and making him also confuse.go ahead do domething.maybe someone is waiting for u both ahead.
best of luck.
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2016-10-04 05:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there is no easy answer. Honesty is better in the long term. Tell him that you want him to be your friend, but that you're not intrested in him sentimentaly. It might be hard, but it's better for both.
If you start acting bitchy you're just hurting him, and probably you won't get out nicely. If you 'give in' just because he's so persistant, then you're just deluding yourself and him.
If he stopped contacting you, maybe he got the idea. There is nothing to be done, just be yourself.
Take care.
2006-11-21 00:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him up front that you are not interested in a "relationship". It is more hurtful to him if you drag this out, and leave him thinking that there might be a chance that you will hook up. And that's probably what's going on now. You likely *have* hurt him, and he's off licking his wounds and might not want to be around you.
2006-11-21 00:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by FL LMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually im suprised. wow the dude would wait 3 hours for you?? call you every day???and wait for you after school?? the guy really really liked you. buy yes you did break him to pices. you see just like a girl can be heart-broken when turned down, so can a guy, if hes not afraid to hide it. he had to realize sooner or later you know, but dont tear yourself up about it, give him some time to adjust, then talk to him. tell him why or why not you know, explain to him. sure he might be upset, but you dont want him thinking your just a B**** you know.
2006-11-21 00:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think the best thing you can do is ask him to still be your friend. Maybe tell him that you don't want to risk your friendship over a relationship. anyone should be able to respect that answer. and if he really can't get over your, then don't feel bad, that will have to be his problem
2006-11-21 00:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by blaze5590 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard when someone feels a certain way towards you and you don't feel the same. I think you did the right thing. Maybe he did get the hint.
2006-11-21 00:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps bothering you then just tell him the truth your hurting him more if you just talk to him a little,ignore him,and even lieing him. I think he/she would back off and let you be friends, that is if he/she is a good friend.
2006-11-21 00:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by squeeks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you keep this up you are going to wind up dating him out of guilt. You don't control his emotions, only he does.
Just kindly tell him that you aren't rejecting him, but you don't want to be anything more than friends.
If he expected more, & he feels bad because of it, that isn't your fault.
2006-11-21 00:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing child games with him and his heart. If he genuinely likes you, then you aren't being respectful towards him, whether or not you like him more than a friend. Be up front and honest and say "Thanks but no thanks".
2006-11-21 00:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋