Well, all these people mostly 'friends' keep telling me my boyfriend is cheating on me. Which he's not. Are they doing it just to hurt me or because their actually concerned. I think it may be because they all don't like him. What do ya'll think. We've been together nearly three months and I think I know him better than my friends, and other people.
2006-11-21 00:34:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If all your friends are saying it maybe he is..or maybe they are all bi tches and you would be better off without them..say to them wheres your proof??
2006-11-21 00:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like Bethany said, misery loves company ;)
Also, three month is just not enough time to really know anyone. You might think it is, but you're just in the infatuation stage. Everything he does is magic ;) You have to wait more to be sure you know him.
Sometimes, what you say is happening, it's because jealousy, other people experiences, they don't like your BF because he dresses weirdly, because they had a bad day, whatever.
But sometimes, they see things different because they are not involved in the relationship. Could your BF be cheating on you? I don't know, I don't know him.
2006-11-21 00:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Roberto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One person saying that might just be to hurt you or from jealousy, but "all these people" is a warning sign. When you friends or family don't like the other person, you need to consider why. I'm not saying he IS cheating, but maybe you're just in denial if you have a lot of people telling you this...
2006-11-21 00:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by I saw whatudid 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, misery loves company.
Second, don't be too quick to disregard what your friends are saying, especially if you're hearing it from more than one person. Keep your eyes and mind open even if your heart's telling you it's not possible. It may save you a lot of heartache later.
2006-11-21 00:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a 19 year old daughter and I have noticed girls doing this all the time. I don't know why, I don't remember it happening when I was young or maybe it's just a girl thing.
2006-11-21 00:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Sid B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is cheating on you and you don't really see it.
Smell his finger next time you are with him.
2006-11-21 00:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Misery loves company"
2006-11-21 00:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋