I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 yrs now and we live together..his best friends that is like his brother has a new girlfriend and wants to split them up and she is also very jealous of me since they started going out, i never got along with her but now she told everyone that i cheated on my man i really didnt, he believed it, everyone did and i dont know how to prove that i didnt..has anyone here been in a situation like this i dont know what to do... = (
2006-11-21 00:35:53 · 14 answers · asked by Gabs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is the kind of people who'll do anything to get what she wants
2006-11-21 00:42:03 · update #1
she is our friends girlfriend but she doesnt want us around him
2006-11-21 00:51:17 · update #2
Some people can be extremely convincing and have mastered the art of the mind game. However, these people are relatively easy to beat if you do your homework. What you need to do is make this woman come forward with some proof of this cheating and if she can't do it, then she has nothing to go by. Also, if your boyfriend is willing to accept the story from this woman and has completely disregarded what you've said, then either he's been likewise brainwashed by this woman or has some trust issues with you. Rumors are rumors and are always started by someone with interests...perhaps this woman is after YOUR boyfriend!
2006-11-21 00:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by Nodtveidt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i have a jealous boyfriend and this is what he tells me when I hear things about you: he says I love you and I have never cheated on you and I don't plan on cheating but if you want to believe what you hear then do that but its going to mess our relationship up and if you don't trust me then there's no need for us to be together because if you don't have trust a relationship is not going to make it.
2006-11-21 00:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Shawty2Spoiled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u have to do is look him straight in the eye and tell him u did not do it and if he still does not belive u then too bad for him .nothing under the sun is hidden that i can tell u for sure, so just leave him the truth will come out one day and he will be the fool at the end.I mean by the way how can he trust the other girl's word over yours i mean what were they even doing talking about u in the first place.**** them luv don't beat yourself ok he is not worth it after 2yrs
2006-11-21 00:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by shiva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to get out of that whole mess. Your boyfriend sounds terribly immature, if he is involving himself in trying to break up his best friend and his girlfriend. And he certainly isn't commited to you if he believes the words of a stranger over your relationship of two years. No good can come from any of it, and you are better off without any of them.
2006-11-21 00:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People will believe what they want to believe no matter what you say or do. Sounds to me like your boyfriend isn't much of a boyfriend to you. If he won't believe you then he has no trust in you and you should dump him. Don't stay with someone who doesn't trust you or have faith in you. Matters will only get worse in the long run. Find someone who will believe in you and trust you as well as have faith in you.
2006-11-21 00:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just tell him the truth. If you were dating him for almost 2 yrs. then I'm preety sure eh will believe you just make sure that, that snotty girl isn't there to watch, she'll mess everything up.
2006-11-21 00:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by squeeks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you what I would do, I would confront her and ask her why she did it, say you know it is her that said it and ask her why she would lie like that about you, don't let her back out but here is the best part....buy a micro cassette recorder, they are about ten bucks...I know that sounds devious but what she did was horrible and this may be the only way you can clear your name......good luck, hope you trap her!!!!!!
2006-11-21 00:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? isnt he believing u over others ..
Are those two guilty of something
Drop all ties with them..
Tell him he can see his peoples and you dont want to be subjected to this emotional abuse
Ignore her completely she is trouble
2006-11-21 00:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by dreamy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont even talk to people like that. you and your bf should have trust. and after 2 yrs if you dont you have a problem. be nice but i wouldnt go overboard
2006-11-21 00:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by .......... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her why she is doing that and try to be her friend and to prove that you are clear and not cheating is comes from you how you talk how u act live the proof to time
2006-11-21 00:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by lover boy 2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋