Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

My friends have a really big problem with me doing some things that I'm doing, but I really don't want to stop doing things I enjoy doing. I'm not sure if I should still be friends with them or not

2006-11-21 01:54:54 · 24 answers · asked by Murphy 2 in Friends

I'm a very shy person, and I have a HUGE crush on this girl at my school, she goes to my church youth group and is in my choir. I don't think I could muster up enough courage to just tell her but I'm not sure she likes me but I do want to know. Would it be weird if I gave her a note telling her I had a crush on her and that why I wrote the note is because I'm a shy person? If you have anymore suggestions that would be great!
Thanks in Advance!!

2006-11-21 01:54:52 · 4 answers · asked by Confused............ 1 in Singles & Dating

Part 1. Read a question that suggest because a married man was flirting with a lady's cousin that they considered this to be cheating. How do you feel about this? Does it matter who flirts, man or woman?? This question is based on a committed relationship.

Part two who flirts more, men or women?? Sorry two answers required for ten points

2006-11-21 01:54:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-21 01:54:09 · 21 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, ONE (out of 10) girls caught me with another.. and she went crazy! I mean crazy, like psycho crazy! Well, she said I was "wrong" for what I did and blah blah.. well, I CAN'T help it if she is ugly and not the best behind doors.. I didn't want to lead her on so I went and found someone better. Did I do the right thing?? Or should I have got the new girl to call her and "break up" with her for me?

2006-11-21 01:53:55 · 6 answers · asked by mister roy jones 2 in Singles & Dating

now when i say clean shaven or hairy, i'm not talking about the facial area, i'm talking a little more south, way south. do women like the man's special area shaved, unshaved, or just trimmed?

2006-11-21 01:52:25 · 18 answers · asked by Striker MG 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 01:52:25 · 34 answers · asked by norcalygaly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

O.K everytime I touch my step daughter she starts screaming and runs to any family that is around and shays that I am being mean and that I hurt her. One time we were getting realy to eat and I said come on let's change your shirt so we don't get it dirty and my husbands sister was sitting their and I picked her up to change her shirt and she started screaming and crying and ran to my husbands mom and said that I hit her and my sister in law was like no she didn't do anything. But it is like this all the time and I have done nothing but be nice and loving stepmother. Please help me

2006-11-21 01:51:09 · 16 answers · asked by Ivy P 1 in Family

Why can't I have a family like everyone else?

2006-11-21 01:50:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I finally got some sleep but you know what happens when you think too much *rolls eyes*, I tried these dating sites, and chat rooms is where I met most of these women. Since 1996 I met about 7-8 women off the rooms (even going back to the old PowWow Chat), and all seem to have dealt me the same card. I still keep the nice guy thing, and Im honest through the whole date and they just screw me over in the end.

They want honesty, communication, trust, and respect, and I give it. But when you tell them about your life they date me once and not again. I dont get it. I seen some of the responses on the 1st part of this question. But I just wish someone told me what Im doing wrong.

Does being the nice guy pay off? or I have to succumb to being a jerk?

2006-11-21 01:50:37 · 3 answers · asked by null 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to know more about how to keep myself before marrying

2006-11-21 01:49:58 · 25 answers · asked by Parry P 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband filed for divorce in birmingham,alabama. And that is where it was finalized. I am unable to find my divorce papers and need to retrieve the date for a marriage certificate in order to get married again.We are no longer in contact.

2006-11-21 01:49:38 · 3 answers · asked by dips_wife1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-21 01:49:20 · 7 answers · asked by winter 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 01:48:40 · 26 answers · asked by nikita g 1 in Friends

Girls like persistance right? How do I know if I've just crossed that line between being persistant or if I'm just bothering her?

Any way I can tell? I want to be persistant but I don't want to bother her if she's not interested.

2006-11-21 01:48:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We broke up in September, she broke my heart and I was hurting for over a month straight. In October I completely cut off communication with her. But then, November came around, and next thing one of her friends adds me to MSN. She starts telling me how my ex misses me so much and thinks about me everyday. Then, it happens, she finally adds me on MSN again, starts to tell me things about how I was good to her, how I made her happy and everything. Then she goes on saying how we might have a chance to get back together. We have been talking for almost 2 weeks now and everything seemed to go good, but yet we'd still fight sorta like we did before. Anyways, I just find out this morning that her best friend told her to just move on from me. Im like WTF? I thought her friend was giving me advice to get back with her! And now she is saying she wants to cut ties and to move on! I cant believe this! Once again I get hurt. What is she doing!? I need some advice here.

2006-11-21 01:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have cheated and been busted in the past. My GF is insanely jealous, probably bc she can not trust me because of what i have done in the past. Is there any way to salvage the relationship and am i doomed to repeat the same mistake again. Her jealousy makes me want to be free, and then i have to lie to cover my tracts. I have no intention of cheating i just want a little freedom to be me. Do i break up or propose and hence making her more secure?

2006-11-21 01:47:36 · 5 answers · asked by ab 1 in Singles & Dating

for example -b.r.b-BE RIGHT BACK
-l.o.l- laughting out loudly

i"ll choose a best answer from yours sugessions pls.........

2006-11-21 01:47:32 · 1 answers · asked by maddy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 01:47:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am at a crossroads in my life.

I have just started a new job that I do not like. I defintely know that I want to change jobs.

But, in the back of my mind I have another issue to resolve. My child lives with my ex husband in another state. She is 14. I was thinking of going to visit her for a few days.

I asked my daughter and she suggested that I come over Christmas. I could do that, but then I would have to put my job search on hold or delay the start date.

She does not want to come and visit me for Christmas. I have visitation over Christmas per the divorce decree, but my ex has never followed it.

She came to stay with me this past summer after I have been in another state for 3 years. My ex and her came last Christmas for about 10 days.

My ex and I had thought about getting back together, but I don't think it will work out. He says that I am not "marriageable material' and am messed up. He also says that I am the most selfish person he knows.

2006-11-21 01:46:50 · 14 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I was w/ my boyfriend for nearly three years. We have had a few problems as w/ any other couple. The problem is, he talked about getting engaged for months. I always wanted it to happen but, his mother who is terminally ill cannot stand me because I'm only 20, and even now when she is dying she has told her son who is 33, that she will withdraw him from her will if he marries me. So I dunno what's going on but it's like now we have to meet in secret. However, the other day, we got married but are still living apart so his mom and sisters won't find out. Now he is telling me maybe it was a mistake and is thinking about getting it anulled. I am pissed to the limit as now there is even a possibility that I'm pregnant. What is going on???

2006-11-21 01:46:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't understand why Broads get mad when I call them Chicks?

2006-11-21 01:46:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 01:46:02 · 4 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Singles & Dating

Honestly... do they? I don't think my manhood should be questioned, manipulated or put on trial every 16 seconds. Running into road blocks like this make for awkward and excrutiating dates/hang outs for me. I've mentioned before I either don't respond or respond negatively to this kind of ignorant criteria of evaluation. For instance, many times women Ive been with bring out their bitchy attitudes, and I often get the vibe its deliberate to see how I'll react. If I ignore it they assume I'm being submissive or weak and "walk all over me". If I turn into a Neanderthal and call them out on it they either become vindictive about it or turn submissive themselves and play it off, only to do it again moments later. Im open for rapport but I often cant make it past this initial stage without getting frustrated at their aloof giggling and manipulation, whether it shows openly or not. If women delibrately do this, what are some suggestions to get past this? Or are there mature women out there?

2006-11-21 01:45:23 · 8 answers · asked by blah_blah 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 01:45:17 · 7 answers · asked by susan f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-21 01:45:04 · 1 answers · asked by KOOKIEES 1 in Family

I am in a situation very much like Qwerty who posted only a few days ago that his wife did not want to have her own children, only to adopt. When my wife and I married we agreed on children, i wanted 3 and she wanted 2 (not too far off). I conceded to 2 and after a few years we began to talk about adoption, for all the reasons that adoption is good, but i always maintained i wanted at least one of our own. She has subsequently annnouced she will only adopt. She said she doesn't want to put her body through pregnancey when she is perfectly happy to adopt. I can only respect her personal choice, its her body after all. The problem is, i have always wanted one of my own. I have read a lot about adoption and along with other issues, it is not unusual to experience grief over your unborn children. So my question is to people who wanted to have their own, but could not for whatever reason. Do you eventually forget wondering about having one of your own?

2006-11-21 01:44:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

were flirting with eachother by text message. i told him that i fancied him and asked him when he was going to ask me out on a date. he said he thinks hes around saturday. thats how things were left.
what should i do?wait for him to contact me?
do you think he is interested in me?

2006-11-21 01:44:34 · 14 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

his bestfriend doesnt like and doesnt want us together so he might tell him that i did? my boyfriend said if he finds out that i did then he will never talk to me again. what do i do?!?!?! my boyfriend and told me that i could of been the girl he would be with forever?!?!?

2006-11-21 01:44:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 01:43:24 · 1 answers · asked by KOOKIEES 1 in Family