I am in a situation very much like Qwerty who posted only a few days ago that his wife did not want to have her own children, only to adopt. When my wife and I married we agreed on children, i wanted 3 and she wanted 2 (not too far off). I conceded to 2 and after a few years we began to talk about adoption, for all the reasons that adoption is good, but i always maintained i wanted at least one of our own. She has subsequently annnouced she will only adopt. She said she doesn't want to put her body through pregnancey when she is perfectly happy to adopt. I can only respect her personal choice, its her body after all. The problem is, i have always wanted one of my own. I have read a lot about adoption and along with other issues, it is not unusual to experience grief over your unborn children. So my question is to people who wanted to have their own, but could not for whatever reason. Do you eventually forget wondering about having one of your own?
2006-11-21
01:44:36
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