My friends have a really big problem with me doing some things that I'm doing, but I really don't want to stop doing things I enjoy doing. I'm not sure if I should still be friends with them or not
2006-11-21 01:54:54 · 24 answers · asked by Murphy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just ignore them. works for me
2006-11-21 01:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Edgar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally, you should get some new friends. The whole point of having friends is to have people who support you and make you happy. If they don't do that then they're not really friends.
Second-best option would be to ignore them. Hopefully they will get used to whatever it is that you're doing and stop nagging you about it.
However if all your friends are unanimously in favour of you stopping this thing that you're doing, you might want to ask yourself if they might be right. Perhaps you're doing something kind of stupid and they're just trying to protect you. In this case you should have a talk with them and explain that you know what you're doing is stupid but you just can't stop and that they should let you learn from your own mistakes.
2006-11-21 02:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by borntocry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your friends. We all have likes and dislikes in people but true friends should atleast rspect your decisions, why should you stop things you enjoy because of them, you would not be being your true self then, you should never have to be false to make them happy. I dont agree with everything my friends like doing but i respect their decisions, after all i chose them to be my friends why should i try to change them. Remember we cant chose the family we are born into so be wise when chosing your partner and friends at least we get a choice. Good luck
2006-11-21 02:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by mazza999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are the ppl in your life that support you through thick and thin no matter what you do so I'd tell my friends to shuv it if they don't like it, cause they should except you for who you are and what you like not try to mold you into something you're not.
They cant b very good friends of yours if they don't support you. Whatever you are doing if you love it keep doing it, dont change who you are just cause some1 doesn't like what you're doin.
Good Luck ; )
2006-11-25 01:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by Genipher17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still do the "things" you like doing. your friends should not try to stop you unless its some thing bad like drugs or something. if they carry on, sit down and talk to them, or drop them as friends. friends shouldnt disrespect you in any sort of way.
2006-11-21 02:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by Eden B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends will tell you things like this. They may or may not be right, but it is good that they want to help. You should make up your mind for yourself, taking into account their advice, and then tell them what you have decided.
Do your best not to let it spoil your friendship
2006-11-21 01:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear keyoto, despite the fact that the vast majority have been wrong in electing a labour government for the last three terms of office, there are occasions when the majority are correct, you need to look at what it is that you are doing that is so upsetting to them and then ask yourself are they correct? if they are you need to change. mark
2006-11-24 22:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by katmarelms 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them out of your life. You don't need people in your life pulling you down. You only have one chance at life so surround yourself with positive, happy people. You will realize your life will be much better off for it.
2006-11-21 02:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some new friends and live your life to the max !
2006-11-21 02:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why do you call them friends,its time you woke up to your self and find a few new ones
2006-11-21 02:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing?
is it something negative?
like drugs?
of course you should stop but if it's something like soccer or hanging with a girlfriend then do want you enjoy
2006-11-21 01:57:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋